Ultra Nudist  | 3 years ago | More Info
Male | Canterbury, Kent United Kingdom | 60
I Philfreeeeeee ..... Do you?
(((((( TN Tips For The Single Girl. ))))))
Beware! .... Very often, a seemingly attractive young girls profile, will be Fake, and actually be a "bad actor" (trying not to use the 'P' word here:) pretending to be a girl, in order to befriend young girls, to gain access to their pics, cam and their friends. Often the profile will be sparse,often with only one picture, probably stolen from the net.
You can also get a clue from looking at the groups that they have joined, and the friends they already have.
Sadly, the word "Family" in group titles, is often used to disguise more sinister activities.
This site can be useful too, www.tineye.com but remember, just having pics on other sites, does not necessarily mean they are fake, and what a member does elsewhere, is up to them, provided that they are not associating a potentially immoral activity, with naturism.
An attractive profile pic of you, will attract a lot of unwanted friend requests and messages. You can minimise this, if you use a poor and or, clothed pic for your profile, and set all the others to friends only.
Go, "My Account" look down next to your profile pic (on the Edit My panel)
click on "Pictures" Scroll down and check the box that is below each pic marked "Only for Friends"
Above that is the words "Profile | Caption | Delete" Clicking on profile, will change you profile pic, to that specific picture.
Have you seen this? ............... Home, Rules for posting in here, Chat Room Moderator FAQS.
What do I do if someone is saying things to me or showing me things privately that I dont want to read or see?
You have a few options. You can block the user so that they can no longer chat with you and click out of the private chat. You can copy and paste what they are saying to you and put it in a flag message to TT1. If you feel it needs immediate attention you can copy and paste the conversation into a private message to a moderator they have the means to immediately mute or kick the person if they are breaking any of the rules or being offensive. Please use the copy and paste if you go to a moderator we do need proof that the person is being offensive or breaking the chat room rules if we are to take action. You can copy and paste from private chat, or go to the chat history icon above the room list, and copy from the message history.
There is a lot more to this, see it here: http://www.truenudists.com/forum/viewthread.php?id=12506
Now I know what you're thinking, (Dewy! ;) hehe
"This is good. But how do you flag?"
Click the "flag" button on the offending members profile. (There is one on every profile) Make sure you state a valid reason...if it's an offensive message or picture comment copy and paste the remarks right into the "flag reason box".
Everyone should also keep in mind that false flagging will get one banned from the site.
Haha! ... Jen wrote that edit! ... hehe! ..... thanks Jen!xx
Luv YOU More!
Thomas said ......
Great post Phil, I would like to add: Don't give out off site contact information till you have really gotten to know someone. This is good advice for all.
Thanks Tom :)
DesertRat said ......
Phil, Very good information! One piece of advice that I feel you should have added: Just because someone sends you a Friends Request, does not mean you have to accept it. There is no sin and you should not feel bad in rejecting someone's request. Always ask for additional information if you do not feel completely comfortable with someone's profile. Remember, you're in the driver's seat and your friends should be just the people who you really want to associate with. The flip side of the coin is; if you have some friends that you don't feel right about, you can drop these "friends" very easily in the edit friends section of My Account.
I would like this web site to be an enjoyable, positive experience for all of the members. If you are having problems or concerns about some of the people contacting you, it is not the fault of the web site. It is a problem with these idiots. Do everything in your power to get them out of your life and account. With this web site, you have plenty of power. Use it!
If anyone has anything more to add, please do so. Naked Hugs, Everyone.
Good advise, thanks :)
Scroll down to comment #15, for Jen's detailed low down on how
you can get the most out of your TN chat experience.
An Idea For The Girls, or Anyone Else For That Matter.
Instead of getting all up set about it, why not capitalise on the laziness and inability of these jerks,
to actually read your profile. Just state clearly on it, that you delete ALL friend requests, without
even looking at them, and Invite members to write to you.
Ask them to state what they think you have in common, and why they would like to become your
friend, along with a request, for YOU, to send -them- a friend request.
Then, you no longer need to be annoyed and frustrated at having to look at them all, to sift
out the few that may be of interest to you. This will instantly identify those that did not bother
to read your profile, and you can just simply delete or ignore them all!
I suspect that far fewer guys will bother, or even be capable, of writing an intelligent note, and
you will have a far better way of assessing, what they are like, and, if you want to respond to
If anyone has any more Tips that will help the girls to have a better experience here,
please post them on this thread.