RE: A sometimes necessary evil for men
I understood the context. : ) As a firefighter, I worked, lived and befriended many a "macho" guy. I was absolutely amazed at how many of these guys refused the prostate exam and those that were old enough ... refused to have a colonoscopy done. The idea that having a doctor's finger or a probe inserted in your anus made you less a man and that there may be question as to your sexual orientation. Like I said ... "idiots!" If some of the men, out there, knew or saw "my" doctor ... they would probably welcome the exam. My wife refers to her as "Doctor Malibu Barbie." But I went to her on a recommendation from my daughter. She is the first Doctor I've had that listens, is hands on, tries different remedies before writing a prescription and ... calls periodically after a treatment to see how you're doin' ... lost art of Doctorin'. If I had a male doctor that did all these things, my female doctor does, I'd undergo the exams as well, just as willingly. I welcome the periodic exam to ensure I am healthy ... ALL exams. I think the momentary discomfort of a finger or probe up your anus is minor compared ... as you say ... "to the alternative." I've got a lot of life left to live and I can live with an periodic exam, momentary discomfort ... to forego "the alternative!" :D