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PrincessJai

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Female | Pattaya, Chomburi Thailand | 44

Erections?

ErectionsThis is my thoughts on photographs of erection. Yes, they

are a part of being a man and they are handy when you actually need one, but it

is not every time I see your profile. But when I see them on a profile I find

them rude, they are unnecessary. Is this what men think we are looking for?



Is this really what men think will impress us? Is this the

best thing they have to say about themselves? These men are so short sighted;

they dont know what will impress a woman.



Be interesting; use your intelligence, humor, and brains to get

to us women.



Any women, that agrees with this statement please comment,

maybe the men will understand.



 



PrincessJai
Philfreeeuk

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Male | Canterbury, Kent United Kingdom | 62

I Philfreeeeeee ..... Do you?

RE: Erections?

ErectionsThis is my thoughts on photographs of erection. Yes, they

are a part of being a man and they are handy when you actually need one, but it

is not every time I see your profile. But when I see them on a profile I find

them rude, they are unnecessary. Is this what men think we are looking for?



Is this really what men think will impress us? Is this the

best thing they have to say about themselves? These men are so short sighted;

they dont know what will impress a woman.



Be interesting; use your intelligence, humor, and brains to get

to us women.



Any women, that agrees with this statement please comment,

maybe the men will understand.



 



PrincessJai
Excellent post! ... Thank you. 

 
I think this is the first time a woman has posted this message here,

it should have been done a long time ago. 

 
Come on ladies, post your support here on this thread,

keep it at the top and help to get this message across to these dumb men!

 

Well done Princess!    :)
artemisia

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Female | Riverside, California United States | 65

<b><span><img src="null"></span>Artemisia</b> - Artist, Humanist<br><span><img src="http://cdn.image.truenudists.com/people/4jrs0/5583ff5e6fbf3e2b2d92712fc68765a5.jpg"></span><br

RE: Erections?

I'm so new to the site that I haven't run into any man showing off his package "ready to post", so to speak. That being said, I'm not a nudist for sex or sexual swinging. In my 20 years of being a nudist my only experiences, directly with unwanted male behavior, included a man masturbating in a large swimming pool where he and I were the only occupants (I reported him to management), and going to a glorified-sexual-encounters locale covering up as a nudist sanctuary where I found private rooms available for "private expressions of one's sexuality". On my only visit there, I was solicited for sex twice before I realized what I was experiencing. Fortunately, I'm an adult in control of what I choose to do or not, and have since made choices to have my nude experiences in a relatively safe way.

Now if I run into an erection on a profile page (and it looks like I will), I will "measure" that man as one who is only looking for a libido check and one who believes his junk is more valuable than the personality that goes along with it. And that says a lot for how that man views women. Ladies, you might be out in the nudist world for the sexual encounters available, and good for you if you are. There's always a man who won't value anything above your navel, and if you respond to the erection images, then you're no more than they are. I hope you find each other. Your open crotch images are a free advertisement for your equality with the hand-job hard-ons, and you'll service each other.

Here's the deal for me though. If I find large numbers of images of erect cocks in the profiles, I won't be around long, for I will have discovered that this place, like the one I mentioned above, is more about the place I visited where I was objectified for my physical appearance, not for who I am as a woman (which, in case any of the erectile functional/mentally deficient morons are reading this, is one intelligent, educated and worldly female.) I won't be at home HERE.
ManOfWicklow

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Male | Nr Tamworth, But Originally From Leicester, Leicestershire United Kingdom | 63

A lie has speed, but truth has endurance.

RE: Erections?

Although most decent members on here, are sick  of all these erection threads, this one appears to be going in the right direction.

We are at long last, getting some sensible input from our lady members.

Keep up the good work ladies, and tell these silly little boys where to go with their toys.
westheathen

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Male | Birmingham, Warwickshire United Kingdom | 54

RE: Erections?

Artemisia:  If you do find any erections in photos can I ask that you flag the photos please?  That way the scum will be dealt with by the management, who rely on us members to bring such infringements of the rules to their notice.
DesertRat

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Couple | Phoenix, Arizona United States | 66 & 69

RE: Erections?

Ladies, Thank you for your posts. It's nice to have women speaking out about the pervs who are hell bent on ruining the site for everyone. Most women wouldn't bother commenting on such things. Rather, they would just drop their membership and we'd never hear from them again. It's been strange but because women have generally refused to comment on such things, it's been almost exclusively the men who complain about the erections and spread eagle photos. Girls, you rock!
Gaarea

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Male | Atlanta, Georgia United States | 46

RE: Erections?

Ladies, Thank you for your posts. It's nice to have women speaking out about the pervs who are hell bent on ruining the site for everyone. Most women wouldn't bother commenting on such things. Rather, they would just drop their membership and we'd never hear from them again. It's been strange but because women have generally refused to comment on such things, it's been almost exclusively the men who complain about the erections and spread eagle photos. Girls, you rock!
But can I ask something about erections not on this site as a picture? I get them pretty easily so what do you think if you saw, what seemed like an otherwise normal nudist guy, with an erection at a nudist resort? Do I ned to stay on my stomach until its gone...or not worry about it? Really?
renebbare

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Male | #, S. Canterbury New Zealand | 58

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RE: Erections?

If I see you at a resort and you do nothing about it I will report you and yes you will be removed. As to what others do? I care not.

 
trirock

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Couple | Zagreb, Zagreb Croatia | 34 & 35

RE: Erections?

I really don't see any need for pictures like that on this site.
Cheri_Donna

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Female | Hopkins, South Carolina United States | 67

Doing what I can to positively promote nudism.
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RE: Erections?

Ladies, Thank you for your posts. It's nice to have women speaking out about the pervs who are hell bent on ruining the site for everyone. Most women wouldn't bother commenting on such things. Rather, they would just drop their membership and we'd never hear from them again. It's been strange but because women have generally refused to comment on such things, it's been almost exclusively the men who complain about the erections and spread eagle photos. Girls, you rock!
But can I ask something about erections not on this site as a picture? I get them pretty easily so what do you think if you saw, what seemed like an otherwise normal nudist guy, with an erection at a nudist resort? Do I ned to stay on my stomach until its gone...or not worry about it? Really?
You can sit up, just drape a towel over your shoulder.  Bathsheets or beach towels work great.  Go for a swim or shower.
Yes, erections are normal but not appropriate in a nudist environment.  There are other natural functions that are also not desired to be witnessed in a nudist environment.  
artemisia

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Female | Riverside, California United States | 65

<b><span><img src="null"></span>Artemisia</b> - Artist, Humanist<br><span><img src="http://cdn.image.truenudists.com/people/4jrs0/5583ff5e6fbf3e2b2d92712fc68765a5.jpg"></span><br

RE: Erections?

Men have erections. Fact of life, that's what towels are for. And if you don't have a towel, the nearest body of water will do.

Trust me when I say that an erection is not what women (who haven't made some connection with you) want to see. If I just look at you, and you get an erection, all that tells me is you're normal. But since I haven't done anything but LOOK/GLANCE, you need to control that physical response until it is accepted by the female. That's basic biology.

So deal with it. As you've done your whole life.
AndyDi

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Male | So Cal, California United States | 61

Loves being naked, plays well with others!

RE: Erections?

As a male nudist that has been argued with, bashed for taking the "woman's" side and assumed I was not interested in women, it's not only refreshing but long over due that nudist women start posting what is on their minds when it comes to this subject some men feel compelled to discuss over and over and over again on every nudist website on the net.  If more women told these dorks exactly how they felt about seeing their erections ... they'd probably lose the erections and there wouldn't be an issue! LOL   Some of these guys need to start thinking with the brain in their BIG head and not the little brain in the little head.   BTW ... thanks ladies, for taking "this" thread on this subject where it needed to go.  It's greatly appreciated by this male that has tried for years to explain what you all have done so eloquently.  : )
artemisia

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Female | Riverside, California United States | 65

<b><span><img src="null"></span>Artemisia</b> - Artist, Humanist<br><span><img src="http://cdn.image.truenudists.com/people/4jrs0/5583ff5e6fbf3e2b2d92712fc68765a5.jpg"></span><br

RE: Erections?

Artemisia:  If you do find any erections in photos can I ask that you flag the photos please?  That way the scum will be dealt with by the management, who rely on us members to bring such infringements of the rules to their notice.
I'm laughing out loud, reading this. Why? Because in my six decades, I've seen so many erections that I can say I am no judge of them.... 
What? Not a judge? Of course I cannot judge. As a man ages, his erections, don't...mmm... "erect" themselves as in younger years. So a turgid member can be up, out, or down, and still be considered arousal. That's not for me to judge, and I wouldn't presume to judge a man's member in any event. There are men with implants--always ready. Are we to flag them for a constant condition? How about a well-endowed man, who, even at "parade rest" is full and long with the illusion of arousal? Nope. Not my job.
Now as a woman, though, I can tell you generally what would be "flag able"--for ME. A hand on a penis, obviously turgid. A woman's hand on her own labia, or anyone's hands on anyone else's jewels. Direct butt shots. Direct vaginal shots. Direct penis shots. All without any identity of who that person is. That is definitely sexual in nature, meant to arouse, period. And if a person has a majority of these images, I'd flag them.
If nudists bring in their cultural and religious bias to pass judgement on images, how are we better than anyone else in fairness and diplomacy? "Only by my rules." I just saw a profile with a man--older--with full body photos, and his member appeared to be turgid. I didn't flag him, because for all I knew, he had an implant. 

NudeInMA

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Male | Berkshires, Massachusetts United States | 72

Nudism is the Great Equalizer. It is impossible to put on airs when one is nude.-- NudeInMA<br>

RE: Erections?

For the newbies to TN and/or nudism, a refresher from a thread of June 2011...


I am new to nudism and haven't been nude around other nudists yet as i am very worried that the worse will happen. I am not a pervert or anything but i am just nervous about what would happen if i even got a little aroused. Has anyone ever been in a situation like that or witnessed? What to do?

You're not unique. That is the #1 question asked by men. Usually, it's by a young newcomer to TN and most likely to nudism, who is still living under the textile world's carefully-crafted illusion that nudity is inextricably linked to sex and that nudist facilities are hotbeds of rampant, promiscuous carnality. That illusion is often exacerbated by "nudist" websites that are little more than soft-core porn.

After being subjected to that mythology for years, it is all but inevitable that a "newbie" would have apprehensions about his biological response to a situation involving nudity in the presence of others. From what I gather from extensive reading on this and other naturist sites, half of the process of learning the truth about naturism is UNlearning the textile world's lies about it.

The AANR and TNS websites, as well as just about every resort/camp site, covers that possibility with wording that is pretty much standard, usually on a "first time" or FAQ page. Here is AANR's version from its FAQ.

Do males get visibly excited?
Not often. Nudist clubs are far less sexually charged than places where bikinis, thongs, or other provocative clothing, are worn. On the rare occasion where this occurs, simply don a towel, turn over, or take a quick dip in the pool.

That same advice can be found on the vast majority of legitimate naturist websites with just a cursory search, and in several TN threads.

One of our witty members noted that the subject arises more often than the object. A major factor is that the imagination plays a large role in the psysiological responses that produce tumescence. In a nudist environment, there is nothing hidden, and thus the imagination is left with nothing to do.

Add to that the reality that, unlike the myriad photos and videos of "nudist" locations and events, the large majority of real nudists are not hard-bodied babes and hunks. They're normal people from young folks to seniors, with the wide variety of body types, shapes, sizes and imperfections that make up the population at large, united by their common interest in (or passion for) living the liberating and relaxing clothes-free life.

Do woodies happen? Yep, on infrequent occasions. What's the standard response? It depends where one is at the time. I have no idea what the accepted procedure is at nude beaches. In the resorts, there are several options, usually listed on the websites of the resorts and nudist organizations. One is to use the towel that is the standard "wear" of resort nudists, rearranging it casually to cloak the little guy. Another is to take a dip in the pool if it's nearby. If one is sunning, just roll over and go butt-up until it passes. Then just think of Michael Moore in a thong, which is guaranteed to cure priapism, let alone wilt the random wild willy.

Wherever it might occur, avoid drawing attention to the situation. What the owner of the stiffy does with it is the issue. If he discreetly deals with it, no one will say a word. If he jumps up on the nearest picnic table, grabs it by the neck, pumps his pelvis like a jackhammer, and bellows, "Hey, babes, how about a piece of this?" he will instantly draw the attention of people who will not be amused.

In short, don't worry about it. If anything, stage fright for a first-timer is likely to result in the Seinfeld Syndrome -- shrinkage. To be sure, the initial exposure to nude people sunning or sitting or walking about is a cultural shock. That lasts maybe five minutes max. Then the realization comes that they aren't staring at you or pointing and giggling, and that you are just one more nude body in a group.

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Re woodies in albums, that's a nono, period. Yes, they happen during photo shoots. However, whereas the turgid member is probably not by choice, posting the photo(s) of it is. Don't do it and no one will complain.
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Male | Chatsworth, California United States | 84

RE: Erections?

Erections? Yeah, I remember them.
NudeInMA

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Male | Berkshires, Massachusetts United States | 72

Nudism is the Great Equalizer. It is impossible to put on airs when one is nude.-- NudeInMA<br>

RE: Erections?

I've found over the years that nothing is as boring as Japanese politics.
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Male | Harris, Georgia United States | 26

RE: Erections?


i was just thinking the same thing,


I wonder if some people are actually embarrassed to photograph themselves without an erector?


but your right i dont wanna be flocked down by erections
openrange

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Couple | Ville, Pennsylvania United States | 54 & 44

RE: Erections?

guess flagging erect nipples comes next.... OMG did i just say that ?! 
renebbare

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Male | #, S. Canterbury New Zealand | 58

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guess flagging erect nipples comes next.... OMG did i just say that ?! 
As usual someone who can't tell the difference between a sexual organ and one used for feeding! Ok I'll give you that they sometimes become erect with arousal or the cold but they are still not sexual organs.
AndyDi

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Male | So Cal, California United States | 61

Loves being naked, plays well with others!

RE: Erections?

The female nipple and a penis ... that's your comparison?  Not a penis and a clitoris ... but a penis and female nipples?   That has always been the weakest of arguments on this subject.  Sadly ... you're not alone with your type of thinking.  It's just good to know that those that think like that are the minority but it's still distressing to read how many, so called nudists, think that way.   ; )
thomasstierney

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Male | Chatsworth, California United States | 84

RE: Erections?

guess flagging erect nipples comes next.... OMG did i just say that ?!

As usual someone who can't tell the difference between a sexual organ and one used for feeding! Ok I'll give you that they sometimes become erect with arousal or the cold but they are still not sexual organs.

I'm a little slow in the morning, but even I can see that was a JOKE!
AndyDi

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Male | So Cal, California United States | 61

Loves being naked, plays well with others!

RE: Erections?

Are you really that certain it was a joke?  LOL
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Male | Chatsworth, California United States | 84

RE: Erections?

Are you really that certain it was a joke?  LOL
Does anybody take someone serious if they use the childish contractions like OMG?
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Male | Berkshires, Massachusetts United States | 72

Nudism is the Great Equalizer. It is impossible to put on airs when one is nude.-- NudeInMA<br>

RE: Erections?

WTF is wrong with OMG LOLOLOLOL
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Male | Chatsworth, California United States | 84

RE: Erections?

LOL
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