Throughout naturism, females and males diverge on this subject.
As a male born without genitalia and indeed without testosterone and its attendant "urges", I side with the female view and in fact get very snobbish about it. I suppose it comes down to the fact that by not being immersed in the sexual OCD of mthese losers, I have found wider things with which to to expand my mind and life.
Let us start with the scientific facts. Most male galleries across the web seem to be 90% erection photos. If that were a reflection of the male's true lifestyle the sheer blood pressure would have killed him years before with thromboses and heart attacks. It is not biologically sustainable for any man to be erect for the majority of his waking life.
So why do male nudists like to bullshit the world that they are erect 24/7?
Well, there are many facets to a male which a female will be attracted to.... physical beauty, strength, intelligence, personality, wealth, practicality and humour are the other alternatives. So where does the erect penis come in, other than for the life-giving process of reproduction? Well, sadly, the only reason any man would feel compelled to bring all attention to his genitals is to camouflage his deficiencies, insofar as he is totally lacking in all those qualities I have just mentioned.
the only relationships these backward individuals merit are on the end of their right arms.
So my best advice to the ladies is not to complain about the erections, giving them the underserved attention they seek, but to treat them with the disdain afforded by the total losers who convey them.