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snugglebunny

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Married Men but here as MALE ONLY profiles

Over our tenure here at TN, we've found that there's a number of MARRIED males who have MALE only profiles. Just wondering what the motivation is to leave the MRS. out of this formula.....?

Could it be:
1) Their wife isn't a nudist....
2) They are nudists, but doesn't want their wife to know that they have a profile...
3) They aren't nudists at all but what a great way to meet people who are.....
4)This is one big fantasy and if their wife found out about this, their status would change to DIVORCED....

What is it? Why are you here as just a male if you're married? My wife and I have no secrets about nudism, our private life activities, or who we chat with, or what we do. Why aren't you proud of the most important thing to you in life, and why don't you give her the respect she deserves....

Anxious to hear from all the MARRIED men out there with non-couple profiles....

Steve
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Male | Montgomery, New York United States | 56

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Married as stated on my profile and hope to be able to change my status to couple soon...
rockofbury

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Male | Tewksbury, Massachusetts United States | 68

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Hi Jen
I have married listed in my profile, so I am not making believe I am not married. I do not have pictures of my wife on for personal reasons that we both share at this time. I do agree with every stipulation that you have listed and I am sure that each or all of them are true for some members. We have had discussions about this in the past so PLEASE don't think I am making any aspersions to you for bringing this up for I to am interested in what might be written.
Also, Jen how many men are on here who ARE married but state they are single to play that game. One or two I would think.
Any women on here who are making believe they are men and vice versa.
My two cents and remember Jen, I do think highly of you and believe you to be a superlative person. Actually, I shall change it to I love you in the sense of your being who you are.
Peter
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Male | Razgrad, Bulgaria | 48

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hı.Iam married but my gender is male.she is nudist too but she is the theacher and cant join here.I honestly say I am male.she does whant to join here too much but cant.most time she is with me but never seen on cam.why is it?because mostpeople here are for sexual afairs.please all members if you look for sex go to porn sities.here is place for nodist livestile.if it coud be I join with my vife.here isnot place to find sex.I am honest you can see me only as male and my gander is male.[sorry for my poor eng. just whant to say my thouths>
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Male | Hernando, Mississippi United States | 40

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Rockofbury, I had never considered women pretending to be men. I wonder how many women are afraid of being bombarded by friend requests from males so they post as males? Dont know why but that had never crossed my mind. That would be interesting to know.
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Male | Clinton, Illinois United States | 37

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For me, it would be #1. My wife isn't a nudist -- yet. We have talked about it, but not for a long time. Life kind of got in the way. I even quit identifying with nudists out of fear due to my family, job, and the pending adoption of our two sons. Now the adoption is final and we are moving from central Illinois to central Florida and I have a chance to be myself. I'm hoping to make nudism a part of that, but it will depend largely on her.
She is self conscious about her body and about everything, really. She is more important to me than being nude, so guess who will win. I'm waiting to get to Florida myself (she and the boys moved ahead due to her job) to say anything at all. She will need to be reassured that it's not about sex or lust, but about freedom and being closer to nature.
We are both Christians and her father is a Baptist minister, so that kind of complicates things a bit. BUT, they have proven somewhat liberal in other areas, so they may be cool with this, too. Maybe my in-laws will become nudists too, who knows :)
I did figure out a cool (yes a bit sneaky) way to introduce the subject to someone who is completely uninitiated. This will work for anyone, with a little modification and makes you look like you know nothing about it in the first place. You tell someone you were following a creation vs. evolution debate. Doesn't matter where you stand on this issue. You then mention that you had heard of (or even was) a theistic evolutionist, but hadn't ever heard of a Christian naturalist. BUT, when you googled it, you accidently put naturist. Bodda-bing, you can tell them everything you found out about it. A fib, yes, so let your conscience be your guide on that one.
I'm getting too long winded -- peace!

Oh, and it didn't occur to me what it might look like when I set up the account.
rockofbury

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Male | Tewksbury, Massachusetts United States | 68

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I've noticed that some of the more experienced users are short tempered and a bit intolerant. "Newbie" is difinitely a derogatory term. Fortunately, there are also lots of friendly folks out there...glad I joined
Iceberg01.........Newbie is not a derogatory term.......We all have been "Newbies" in everything we have ever done. Those "People" forgot their "Newbie" roots.
Off topic..but needed to be addressed.
" No such thing as a stupid question"
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Male | San Francisco, California United States | 43

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If past experience on other sites is an indication, couples profiles get bombarded with almost as many friend requests as female profiles.
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Male | Conway, South Carolina United States | 74


Have you read and signed the Nudist Bill of Rights? http://www.aanr.com/nudist-bill-of-rights
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Cuddlebunnies,
Your question caught me by complete surprise. It was in the spirit of complete honesty that I have listed myself as a married male. My wife has visited nudist clubs with me in the past. We have spent several vacations together at clothing optional resorts. In fact during our last vacation, we spent most of our time on the nude side at the beach and pool. While she has no problem with nudity or being nude, she would be just as happy at a resort which required clothing.
I am not.

snugglebunny

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Couple | In A Valley In, Connecticut United States | 53 & 51

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Hi Jen
I have married listed in my profile, so I am not making believe I am not married. I do not have pictures of my wife on for personal reasons that we both share at this time. I do agree with every stipulation that you have listed and I am sure that each or all of them are true for some members. We have had discussions about this in the past so PLEASE don't think I am making any aspersions to you for bringing this up for I to am interested in what might be written.
Also, Jen how many men are on here who ARE married but state they are single to play that game. One or two I would think.
Any women on here who are making believe they are men and vice versa.
My two cents and remember Jen, I do think highly of you and believe you to be a superlative person. Actually, I shall change it to I love you in the sense of your being who you are.
Peter


Hey Peter, lol...I'm not the one asking the question, Steve is. And I love you for who you are, too!

Jen
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Couple | In A Valley In, Connecticut United States | 53 & 51

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Could it be:
1) Their wife isn't a nudist.... = i guess u mean they must be p to something, if they are on alone lol
2) They are nudists, but doesn't want their wife to know that they have a profile...= because they must want sex from someone else other than than wife. kindof implying alot here arent you?
3) They aren't nudists at all but what a great way to meet people who are.....= umm kind of obvious this would be a good way to me nudists, if you were curious duh
4)This is one big fantasy and if their wife found out about this, their status would change to DIVORCED....= again saying they must be interested in cheating, kindof suspicious arent you?

My wife and I have no secrets about nudism, our private life activities, or who we chat with, or what we do. Why aren't you proud of the most important thing to you in life, and why don't you give her the respect she deserves.... = oh so as long as it's good for you and your wife, that should be the standard for every married couple. kinda pushing ur beliefs on people arent? just a little?

Anxious to hear from all the MARRIED men out there with single profiles.... = why do u wanna hear from them? not happy until you can berate someone huh



Jon, We have talked to a number of MARRIED men on hereand havegotten honest replies, simularto the statements listed in the original question. Manymarried males have also been flagged for inappropriate behaviour here on cam too. So the questions are asked to find out why married menare doing this.



Yes, some are up to something, wanking on cam, and engaging in appropriate behavior, but not with their partner, but rather viewers in the chat room.


And Yes, because some men hide things from their spouse, gambling, drinking, affairs, it's all part of life.


And yes, to see nude people and learn about nudism because of curiousity.


And yes, these men wish to live the nudist lifestyle vicariously through this site and yes, if their spouses, some who are absolutely against what they're doing, finds out about their profile, would have their heads on a silver platter.


Relationship standards? Of courseNOT! Our heterosexual, married rel
ationship is ours, and your g
ay, unmarried, relationships areyours, and I'm not here to judge you or others,not to harrass, not to berateor set standands. Merely a topic of conversation for discussion, not attack.


So Jon, let us know when youget MARRIED and we'd love to hear your honest MARRIED opinion.



STEVE
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Male | Lloydminster, SK Canada | 47

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Likemost of theother married men who have replied to this thread I am alsohappily weddedto a non nudist. It's that plain and simple. My wife knows I am on this site and has no issues with it. I clearly state all the information in my profile. cn
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Male | Somerville, Texas United States | 58

Quoting from Genesis, "They were nude but they were not ashamed." Furthermore, because God created it, "The human body can remain nude and uncovered and preserve its splendor and its beauty."
-- Pope John Paul II

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I am single but wanted to offer another reason. I have friends who are married and are on here, they each have their own profile on here. They have seperate profiles so they can both come into chat. Another couple used two computers and confused people by both coming into chat at same time. it made for some real laughs, especially when they switched which was on cam since only one could be on at a time.
Thomas
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Male | N/e, Massachusetts United States | 38

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I too am married but listed as a male only on this site. I encourage my wife to use my log on to browse and learn but if and when she decides to contribute I expect her to sign up for her own profile as a married female only. I just look at this as a social network similar to facebook where profiles are personal. After all, we are married but very different people, with varying views on many subjects.
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Male | Fredericton, New Brunswick Canada | 51

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My reasons are listed on my profile. My wife is visually impaired and finds using the computer difficult for that reason. She knows I'm here, and would love to take part, but until the day comes where sight can be restored, she'll have to settle for me reading things out to her.
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Male | Tewksbury, Massachusetts United States | 68

RockOfBury

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Hi Jen
I have married listed in my profile, so I am not making believe I am not married. I do not have pictures of my wife on for personal reasons that we both share at this time. I do agree with every stipulation that you have listed and I am sure that each or all of them are true for some members. We have had discussions about this in the past so PLEASE don't think I am making any aspersions to you for bringing this up for I to am interested in what might be written.
Also, Jen how many men are on here who ARE married but state they are single to play that game. One or two I would think.
Any women on here who are making believe they are men and vice versa.
My two cents and remember Jen, I do think highly of you and believe you to be a superlative person. Actually, I shall change it to I love you in the sense of your being who you are.
Peter


Hey Peter, lol...I'm not the one asking the question, Steve is. And I love you for who you are, too!

Jen


Sitting here......."Red faced"......LMAO......Opps!......But I feel the love.
PS. Yep, it is a "S" and not a "J"
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The wife isn't a nudist. But she does know about the group. I have stated I'm happily married in my profile. There is no way she would pose nude for a true nudist certification! Someday that may change...
Dave
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Male | Conway, South Carolina United States | 74


Have you read and signed the Nudist Bill of Rights? http://www.aanr.com/nudist-bill-of-rights
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Unboredphilly,
Until you got to this point I had thought that you had finally made a post that made some sense.
"The better
question I feel is why is it any of your business@@@@@@@y? Are
they harming you in anyway? Are they breaking any rules? It seems a
lot of people on this site like to stick their nose in other peoples
business for no reason, other then their own self righteousness,
boredom or lack of anything interesting to say. Each is own, let
people live their lives until it effects you mind your own."
While opposing views are what makes a Forum alive and interesting, personal attacks certainly have no place here.
If you can't control yourself, why don't you go elsewhere?

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Male | The Real Boonies, Georgia United States | 50

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My profile states that I'm married because I am. It also states that I'm a male, again because I am. I was a nudist long before I ever met my wife. She never has been. I see no reason to lie or be false to anyone on this site about who or what I am. I feel pity for those that do, but that's about as far as I'll go. It's not worth my time to cast stones of recrimination at anybody that may not be wholly truthful in their profile. I just assume that everyone is who they claim to be until they give me reason to believe otherwise.
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Female | Hopkins, South Carolina United States | 67

Doing what I can to positively promote nudism.
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I'm here as female only and married. My husband has no interest in forums. He is definitely a nudist.
snugglebunny

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I'm not married, so I suppose my opinion doesn't really matter, it
usually doesn't on this site. However, I feel that it's good that
these married men value their wives and vows enough to be honest and
upfront about their status. Would it be better if they just lied,
out of ease or convince? Perhaps they seek only males for
camaraderie, is that wrong? A good number of divorces nowadays are
spawned from things that happen in the online environment maybe these
men felt it could be construed as unfaithful or cheating if they were
making friendships or chatting with strange women online, what ever
the context of their dialog was. What ever the reasons being that
these men are searching for male only companionship and chat, it is
their prerogative and they are doing nothing wrong. The better
question I feel is why is it any of your business snugglebunny? Are
they harming you in anyway? Are they breaking any rules? It seems a
lot of people on this site like to stick their nose in other peoples
business for no reason, other then their own self righteousness,
boredom or lack of anything interesting to say. Each is own, let
people live their lives until it effects you mind your own.


Phillyboy, Please reread post #16, the response to Jon. Out of 21 people who responded to this post only two (neither married) seemed to take offense to the question. It is simply a topic of conversation.

The reasons my husband listed in the initial post were all honest answers given to us by married men (listed as male instead of couple), that we have had long conversations with via yahoo messenger video/voice chat. And we've appreciated their honesty. ALL of them contacted us, not vice versa. So, obviously they were not looking for "male only camraderie". And it does effect us as they are contacting us. Several have asked if I would be willing to chat with their wives to help them better understand nudism from a woman's point of view, which, in turn, might make them more comfortable with nudism.

The question posed is not judgemental nor adversarial. Is there a reason you feel you must make it so? Those who feel it is none of our business do not need to answer the question. And those who are single don't need to respond to this unless, like Thomas, they have an answer.

Excellent answer, btw, Thomas. I remember the couple you are referring to. I miss seeing them in chat. They were always fun, lively and great conversationalists. With the new chat room, you can no longer log in on two seperate computers under the same username. Either Steve or I will have to create our own account so that we can both chat in the chat room at the same time.

Jen
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Sister Jen, your patience with the troll child is remarkable.
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Male | Somerville, Texas United States | 58

Quoting from Genesis, "They were nude but they were not ashamed." Furthermore, because God created it, "The human body can remain nude and uncovered and preserve its splendor and its beauty."
-- Pope John Paul II

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Thanks Jen, I miss chatting with them too, haven't seen them on yahoo lately either. I may have to call and invite them back. LOL As much fun as they are in chat, they are even more fun in person. They are part of the group that meets at Hippie Hollow in the summer.
Thomas
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Couple | In A Valley In, Connecticut United States | 53 & 51

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It is my right to answer any question
on this forum and give my opinion, whether or not I'm the intended
target or demographic. My view about this post from the substance
and wording as it was written is that it's an attempt to pry or
belittle individuals. I don't feel that I made it out any way, it
was the context or tone of your words that decided that. I don't
feel there is any reason you needed to make such a topic if you've
already had signification view points into the matter. Sure,
regarding the men who contacted you, you're effected but you could
have kept that between you and them on private messengers.
Like most of my post I have an answer
but for some reason everyone seems to only hear a few words or
sentences and not the entire context of the post. So I guess
misunderstandings about peoples true meanings can happen on both
sides.


The men who meet the demographics who've contacted us are but a small percentage of tthose on this site. Based on that my husband had a curiosity and so posed the question specifically to other married men, so as not to make assumptions of many based on the answers of a few. I never said anyone didn't have a right to post an opinion. I simply stated that those who are single didn't need to respond unless they had an answer. On this particular thread I have yet to see you answer a question.

Once again, out of 21 people who've responded the ONLY two who seem to be offended are both single males.

Jen
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Let's go back to Steve's original question about married men indicating non-couple status.

My profile says it is complicated. Legally I am married, but my wife is in a nursing home. She has been in the nursing home four years. As a matter of fact, Valentines Day (today), I visited my wife in the nursing home -- and I brought her flowers. There is still much love between us. I look back on 30 years of essentially happy marriage.

When we were living together, I visited nudist venues much less frequently, because she always has been a non-nudist. An unfortunate thing happened the time my wife went with me to Sunny Rest, about 15 years ago. I was nude, while my wife was clothed. While I was swimming in the pool, some guy told her about the swinging activities that went on at Sunny Rest, at that time. I had a difficult job of trying to convince her that true nudism is without that kind of activities. My freedom to go to nudist venues was restricted.
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