Wife is not a nudist but is finally accepting me as one
My wife is not a nudist and is somewhat put off by my nudity. Now, I will tell you right up front I am not a Greek God by any stretch but I'm not that bad to look at. She is just so reserved that any nudity outside of sex is "offensive". Her words. So, for me, I am nude when I am home alone or at a nudist function. By myself. And she probably doesn't know about it.
My wife is not a nudist and is somewhat put off by my nudity. Now, I will tell you right up front I am not a Greek God by any stretch but I'm not that bad to look at. She is just so reserved that any nudity outside of sex is "offensive". Her words. So, for me, I am nude when I am home alone or at a nudist function. By myself. And she probably doesn't know about it.
I wouldn't worry about not being a Greek God, there are very few of them about. Also, if you were, it could possibly make matters worse.
All I can suggest is be patient and be gentle. It's taken a long time for me to get where I am, and it has only happened at my wife's pace.
Reassure your wife that it is in no way sexual, that it's all about you being comfortable and relaxed and happy.
Just as a side note...I got my wife to a resort for a one night stay as a birthday present to me. We went on a very quiet (no events planned & no one there) weekend...and she enjoyed herself. We laid out...walked around (she wore a sarong), read a book and enjoyed ourselves. It's slow going but we're getting there.
My wife is reasonBly accepting of my preference to be nude. Indeed is reasonable supportive to my spending some nude times with mates a couple of times s year. Shoe I happy to be nude in our pool but not if others are around
I sincerely feel for those of you that have a wife that is unwilling, hesitant or totally against nudity, non sexual nudity or nudism.
I'm very lucky in this respect. My wife is a nudist and if I'm ever preoccupied and forget to strip when the situation arises ... she's quick to ask, "why do you still have clothes on!?" Nudity, non sexual nudity, everyday nudity, nudism ... has been a part of our lives for almost 45 years and we could not imagine living any other way and can't imagine either of us wanting to live any other way.
Our sincere thoughts and hopes that your situations change for the better and your wives open their eyes, minds and hearts to the freedom and benefits of simple nudity, even if it's only your own.