Younger for Older

There is a twist on the name of the group.

I am 45, and often I find people who are my age and younger. The men I have met, act as though naked is porn like, they need to be aroused, hard, and horny. The focus needs to be on the penis. All men have one... most of us anyway. It is very different from the approach my friend Bob (65) instroduced me to, in social naturism. This week I met a guy, Paul who is 80, I went to his place, it was very relaxed, we had a cup of tea and talked for hours about life. It was so easy and flowing conversation. I really enjoyed it, and notice that different generations were exposed to different information about the body and how it has been marketed through different generations. Has anyone else had this experience ?

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I think attitudes are influenced by marketing and peers, but they are ultimately individual. Attitudes towards nudity and penises like you describe transcend generations. There are chill naked millennials and dicks are porn oldsters as well!

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There is a twist on the name of the group.I am 45, and often I find people who are my age and younger. The men I have met, act as though naked is porn like, they need to be aroused, hard, and horny. The focus needs to be on the penis. All men have one... most of us anyway. It is very different from the approach my friend Bob (65) instroduced me to, in social naturism. This week I met a guy, Paul who is 80, I went to his place, it was very relaxed, we had a cup of tea and talked for hours about life. It was so easy and flowing conversation. I really enjoyed it, and notice that different generations were exposed to different information about the body and how it has been marketed through different generations. Has anyone else had this experience ?

I've learned that what we think of as norms and rules of behaviour don't really exist, we assume based on our own experience and why not, that is reasonable if not right. Some young men are very down to earth and chill and like to drink tea and talk about matters of substance. Some are horn dogs and that goes with youth. Some older men are brilliant mentors and guides and others are not one bit changed from 18. I think in general now the body is much more mediatized and men especially are commodified objectified and produced like women have been for years, and that is hurting us without a doubt. It is nice to finally share and feel comfortable accepted and not judged though isn't it?

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much more laid back in the 1970s. I was sexually active at a young age with older men! And I pursued them! They didn't pursue me!

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