i wonder if guys that are well endowed lets say 7 inches + have issues with they're size also for us that have small penises we can be jealous - envious of them being large but seems like we would be more comfortable not standing out. i have a nudist friend that was not only large pushing 9 inches + he was uncut now being a nudist both bothered him but being uncut bothered him most and he got circumcised . i think everyone growing up has body issued same as women in fact we guys may be luckier as it's pounded into women from a early age . and just my thoughts talking with other guys as we age it becomes less important how big out penis is as now we are worried what happened to the hair on our head and where did that belly come from.
i wonder if guys that are well endowed lets say 7 inches + have issues with they're size also for us that have small penises we can be jealous - envious of them being large but seems like we would be more comfortable not standing out. i have a nudist friend that was not only large pushing 9 inches + he was uncut now being a nudist both bothered him but being uncut bothered him most and he got circumcised . i think everyone growing up has body issued same as women in fact we guys may be luckier as it's pounded into women from a early age . and just my thoughts talking with other guys as we age it becomes less important how big out penis is as now we are worried what happened to the hair on our head and where did that belly come from.
As some of you have mentioned about size not being the point with nudism and naturism I whole heartedly agree, it shouldnt be. But it still is a lurking thought in some of our minds after years of fear and hiding and especially only having a head visible when flaccid and years and years of being teased about it. My point and the reason why I started this group was to lead by example. Show other small guys and even some average guys (and larger guys too I guess) who feel they are small, it doesn't matter! Dont worry what others think, its just not worth the time or energy. If you enjoy being naked, then do it! I realize, in a way Im saying the exact same thing as others in that it shouldn't matter and doesn't but acknowledging that for many its much harder than that but worth trying. If you are in my area and want or need the support of a friend and unhung buddy Id be happy to meet up and help relive some of that initial stress of engaging with social nudism for those first few times.
As for hung guys having issues too I can say I know for sure that some do. My best friend is 8 erect and has proven this to us in our 20s after quite a few cocktails and open conversations and truth or dare around a campfire. Even though when he is flaccid he is still bigger that me when Im erect he feels embarrassed to he seen naked and flaccid. We camp together a lot and if its warm out and were camping near water my ass is naked and skinny dipping and enjoying the sun. We have had plenty of conversations regarding my flaccid size and lack of care of being seen. Ive tried to get him to explore naturism and nudism and explained to him that wet white boxers briefs hide absolutely NOTHING when we are swimming so he might as well just skinny dip, but he feels he needs that shield to hide what he is ashamed of. Even in front of me of all people. To which I point my dick at him and say embarrassed in front of me???!!!???!!! I wish I was as big as him just flaccid but its such a hang up for him. Our society and culture have shaped that thought pattern for so many men I think. He is still amazed that I am so comfortable being seen naked even if its just him which shows me he just doesn't really get nudism. For me, hes more of a brother than a best friend and I dont have any reason to hide my body from him. If he wants to look, then look although he always averts his eyes. My hope is that one day it becomes a non issue for him and I think it is. He knows when we camp in the summer Im going to be naked, less and less he brings up my nudity and size and he actually spends most of the time in just his underwear now when its hot out so maybe he is getting used to it. If only I could get him to realize no shields are necessary!
Great post, Bear! The story of your "brother" provided a perfect example of how the well-endowed can also feel insecure about their bodies. I hope he's able to get out of those briefs eventually.
Me too! But if he doesnt I still love him just the way he is and grateful for our friendship even if he does still give me a hard time about having a small dick. Its true, I do, so what usually shuts him up! My guess is that hes just not a nudist and doesnt have that appreciation that we have for being clothes free and enjoying it.
But you are right, even hung guys have HANG-ups. lol
It seems to me that body dysmorphia runs rampant in our society. Our time offers us more and more access to pictures of nude people, and those pictures seem to teach us to be more and more self conscious and embarrassed.
I agree with you to a point but I feel that things like the internet showed me that I wasnt the only one! Seeing images of guys hung like me made me feel more normal and less isolated. I wasnt the only one and there are plenty of guys out there not hung like porn stars. But they were few and far between. Thats exactly why I created this group, to be seen and help other guys in the same situation see its not a big deal and other guys are just like them and nudists too.
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