RE: What motivates girls to become nude?

I myself always loved the feeling of being nude, and i got into a relationship with a man that was a nudist, and i just jumped right it! We are no longer together, and i didnt know how i was going or if i was going to continue, but i did, and lovin every minute of it!!

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RE: What motivates girls to become nude?

Ok, fellas... Here's one female's perspective. When I first was asked by a trusted friend if I'd ever consider going to a nudist resort with him, it was with some hesitation that I accepted the invitation. While I he had repeatedly assured me that being nude in a social settingwas nota sexual experience, I still had some baggage to overcome. Prior to actually going to a resort, I had believed the hype that they were probably orgyfests or where pervs hung out to ogle (perhaps like the dude who started this thread!), and I really had no desire to be a part of that scene. Luckily, one trip to a family-oriented place, and my mind was changed. Luckily, I had this friend who I trusted completely to be telling me the truth, and had a great experience at the resort, meeting fantastic people who were really "normal." Folks who I'm proud to say I've become friends with in the years since that first visit. So, the trust and a good experience were the things that helped me plunge into the lifestyle.Aside from the preconceived notions of what occurred at social nudist setting, like many women, I had body image issues. Now, I know this is where you all will start to shake you heads and not really understand... LOL! But I'd say that if you asked 100 women if they were comfortable with what their bodies look like, you'd have 97 say "no." "This is too big..." "These are too small..." Compound that with taking their clothes off to show off those insecurities... and you'd get the answer "no way, no how!" Sound familiar??? But, that being said, going to the resort for the first time and seeing that absolutely no one there was perfect helped me to get over some of my own issues. If women could understand that aspect of nudism, they might be more likely to try it. It does help you to accept yourself for who you are and what you have.Y'all have a lot more experience being nude in public than women. Locker rooms, public showers, military experience, etc. In our culture, women are told to cover up and be modest. Couple that with insecurities and we tend to keep our on clothes.Something to think about -nudism may just be one of those things that men are more interested in and inclined to do than women... By our natures we sometimes have different interests. I know I don't offer much in the way of answers to this good question... But as a woman who loves men, I truly appreciate your interest in getting more of us out there with you and your willingness to open this dialogue. This question may have originally been posed by a creep, but I'mglad to see that you real Men have taken it seriously and I'm glad to be in on the conversation. Lauri
Thnaks Lauri, your words of wisdom and female perspective is what I need right now :-)

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RE: What motivates girls to become nude?

I really don't know what motivates girls to become a nudist, but I can tell that my late wife would not disrobe in public under any circumstance. I tried for many years to get her to attend a nudist venue with me. She absolutely refused to go.

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RE: What motivates girls to become nude?

I'll tell my little story. It took me about about year to get my (X) wife to the resort. She went nude about 10 mns the first time;and that was on a slow weekday with only a couple of people around. After that, she went nude here and there, usually in the pool or hot-tub, or sitting by the pool the next two or three visits. Never getting up and walking around nude without either a sarong or towel. Body acceptance issues were the reason given.
And then we go to a get-together at a nudist home. She doesn't want to be there, is mad at me, wraps herself defensively in hersarong, is not going to take it off "no matter what." There are a bunch of nude ladies in the kitchen, they pull my wife in to help them; I see her face light up. An hour goes by. I suddenly hear "dinner is ready", turn around and see my wife completely nude with a big grin standing in the doorway...She helps bring the food outside, stands behind the table and starts filling plates. I get in line, get my plate with a (?) look on my face and she just smiles at me. When everyone has their plate, I expect she will now run back to her sarong. I'm wrong. She is now walking around, still nude and still smiling, asking everyone how was their meal. If they'd likeseconds. Someone tells me I'm lucky to have a wife who is so comfortable being nude. I tell him it's all actually quite new to me...
After all this, she finally fixes herself a plate and sits next to me. I ask her where her sarong is. She giggles and says she thinks she's lost it. She stays nude the rest of the evening and is actually the last person to get dressed as she stays behind to help put up the leftovers...
The moral of my story is that women"integrate" nudity differently than us guys do. Guys just want to get out and get nude. Women need a reason other than "to make my S/O happy."Why was it that my wife came to tie nudity with a "good meal"? I have no idea. Allshe saidwas that getting nude with these women tohelp make dinner....just seemed "normal". She had on her sarong; when she got into actually cooking and focused on it, she easily and effortlessly tossed her sarong aside.I've seen the same thing occur with new Moms: nudity and nurturing become intertwined. Sometimes it's physical activity...a friend of mine tried nude yoga andnow prefers to exercise nude - she went to a resort just so she could play volleyball nude. The trick, of course, is finding out what venue or activity your S/O can integrate nudity with.I would have never guessed that a kitchen would get my wife to toss it all off and not look back.What can get yours to do the same?

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RE: What motivates girls to become nude?

3 years on - still no real answer is there? Maybe the question should be "What motivates people to be nude?"
Is making it a gender issue really helpful? I know for a fact that there are plenty of males who would sooner stick their hand in a fire than bare all publicly.
How about coming at it from the other end:-
"What motivates people to cover up all the time?"
Pardon me if I come across as a teensy bit bored with this issue but it rather seems that this question is always posed by men and directed at women. I'm sure it is not intentional but it does rather make me (at least) wonder what is the subtext to the original question? I'm sure it couldn't be some sort of quest to find a magic formula that will cause women to cast aside their inhibitions and clothing so that men might have something other to look at than each other - could it? No, no, no, we are all 'twue noodists' - none of that nonsense here, thank you very much. :p
Love n stuff,
Rudie x
Oh and by the way - if there are any of those dreadful 'perve' types who are actually secretly looking for that magic formula - it does exist. It's called champagne cocktail and you will need at least 6 of them! Serve in a flute garnished with a little sparkly something from Cartier. ;)

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RE: What motivates girls to become nude?

All girlsare born nude. The real question is, what motivates girls to become clothed?

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RE: What motivates girls to become nude?

Some really good inut. Some of us naturally tried to go nude when we were young so it just wasn't a question that we would try it but when. In the medwest our newpapers will nt even print any national articles that indicate nudity, so how is anybody to get the idea that it might be ok

Maxx

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RE: What motivates girls to become nude?

I am planning to take a young lady who is the lead singer for one of my bands Laissez-Fayre to BALKAZ for the first time. She's known that I'm a nudist right from the time I met her which was in mid-September, but she's said that she won't perform nude herself. She is originally from Townsville and I think that some of her friends up there told her what naturism was about.
Anyway, if she enjoys herself at the venue and is willing to join in the scene then I'll tell her about this site so that she can have her say as well. :-)

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RE: What motivates girls to become nude?

Should we be encouraging girls to get drunk before they feel comfortable enough taking their clothes off? I don't agree with this being a Christian myself.
The Bible states: Habbakuk 2:15"Woe to you who make your neighbors drink, Who mix in your venom even to make them drunk So as to look on their nakedness!"
If you can't get a girl to be comfortable naked whilst she is sober, forget about introducing her to nudism. Nudism and alcohol abuse should NOT go together.

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RE: What motivates girls to become nude?

I don't think there is a difference between what motivates a man or a woman to become a nudist! I think the question should be...what hinders the woman from becoming a nudist? Could it be all the pervy men out there?? What motivated me is to get out out of my clothes...the freedom to be me!!

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