Please, most perv's are straight. Check the stats before you claim that gays are. In fact over 97% are str8 according to the Dept. of Justice.
I'm going to agree with you, here. The majority (not all) of the "pervs" I've had to kick out of the room for sending sexually suggestive/harassing private messages to both men and women have "straight" or "bi-curious" listed on their profile.
Bestthing I can advise, is to repeat what Txag already said. Report them to a moderator, if one is in the room. They don't go away when you block or ignore them - they just move on to the next person.
I have to slightly disagree with a few posts here. First of all, what someone puts in their "orientation" is not always the truth so labeling pervs as one particular group is not accurate. The OP was referring to the ones that PM him who are not women, but men who often label themselves as straight but are clearly gay and looking for something. I'm sure women get the same from straight guys. One thing I will say is that most guys who list themselves as gay, are at least honest about it and usually are not a problem. Every time I cam up, I get at least 10 pm's with comments like Rad Man was saying and I usually just ignore them. If they are persistent, they get blocked. Many of these "pervs" list themselves as straight, but have all guys on their friends list and are like leeches as soon as I cam up. I have nothing against gays but I wish people would just be honest with themselves.
My two cents! Mike
yup agree with u all. worst is the case of old men who are gays and come here to find young chaps. met a few and flagged them and blocked them from viewing my cam too !!!!
Sorry mate. As an openly gay guy, i get fed up with married so called straight men coming on looking for more. I feel sorry for their wives. Or maybe for the men themselves. Open gay men on this site do not use it as a cruising ground.
So my question is, how do you deal with it? :/
I get that a lot. All I do is start up a random topic, like "Do you have trees in your yard?" or "Have you ever tasted your keyboard?" and then they realize I'm a psycho person and they would mysteriously leave the room, lol, its fun to watch them struggle to have a conversation with me. But sometimes they are really annoying and wouldn't leave me alone. That is when I use my best friend called the "Block Button"...and they disappear. lol.
lol I like that answer a lot man. Makes sense. Since I was little, I would be called gay because of my somewhat feminine attributes. Figured out that if I do actually pretend to be gay, my bullies would get freaked out and leave me alone. Suppose the same principle works here, trying to freak out the offender. Eh, typically I'm in a (ok.... whatever...) just allowing the conversation to die sort of state when they chat with me. Been happening less and less now, perhaps I'm gaining some sort of reputation in the room?
Oh, well for me, the sexual orientation of whoever doing it wasn't in question. If they were perving on me, as far as I knew, I considered them gay. Never checked their profile, but it's not necessary at that point, you know? I haven't said gay men were pervs, actually, I think I avoided the term all together and said men. I'm quite sure there's more straight pervs than gay ones, but if you asked me from my experience, I would tell you that elderly men were most likely to be the pervs. Why? Because that's whom I've been perved on the most. Would I tell you all elderly men are pervs? No. Because I judge people by a case-by-case study; I generally give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they prove me wrong. This is when who's a perv is defined by the individual, because it's mostly due to their experiences with them in the past. Please, I didn't mean to step on anyone's toes, just wanted opinions about who otthers deal with their own pervs, perferably from the young since the young and attractive are one of the biggest targets. I thank all who replied thus far though.