Do they really exist?

I have read stories that there are females of our species that really enjoy sex! That they will do anything to pleasure a male due to their tremendous sex drive. I have even heard that this drive even still exists after marriage!
Is this true? Are they really out there? Or is it just a myth like inner earth and the fountain of youth?
Just curious!

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Yes, I have heard such females exist, along with males of the same species who are comfortable to talk about their feelings. Apparently they're confined in a town called Roswell, NM.

No seriously, it's up to us and us only to be the change.

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They might, I've never met one although I've experienced different sexual attitudes with women I've known. They tend to be far more complicated than we are when it comes to sex it's just the way they're wired.
One great example is how visual men are compared to women. Guys can see a sexy photos and become aroused but women report far fewer instances of this.

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Yes they do but it is a rare one that keeps their libido after the birth of children. Sometimes that libido comes back later in life, but not quite the same as before. The few that still want and need to be intimate with males as they mature are a treasure to the males who partner with them in life. The reason I was told by a female I am married too, is that females libido is not as high as males. That is her story and she is sticking to it.

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Oh Lee... what a way to frame a discussion topic! :)

Most here can confirm your 1st statement ("...there are females of our species that really enjoy sex!"). Your 2nd ("...this drive even still exists after marriage!") is also true, but apparently less common.

When I became serious with my future wife, a wise older co-worker offered a bet: if I put a jelly bean in a jar every time I had sex with my sweetheart before marriage, and took a jelly bean *out* of the jar every time we had sex *after* marriage, my co-worker bet that the jar would never become empty! This fellow and others in our work group all maintained that their own jars would not even be *close* to empty even after many years :)

Of course, you have to be careful what you wish for. Someone with a particularly frisky girlfriend might want her to fill a jar of her own, too. After marriage, it would be revealing to see if your jar and hers both emptied at the same rate!

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Annie said: "Don't blame the women!"In all seriousness, I agree with Annie!

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I have read stories that there are females of our species that really enjoy sex! That they will do anything to pleasure a male due to their tremendous sex drive. I have even heard that this drive even still exists after marriage!Is this true? Are they really out there? Or is it just a myth like inner earth and the fountain of youth?Just curious!

See, the issue here is you seem to be suggesting that your lack of sex or lack of good sex is because women are frigid (be honest your claim is that women just don't enjoy sex).

The idea that women exist to 'please a man' because of 'sex drive ' is probably not unrelated to your striking out. Try this. It's your job to please her as much or more as it is hers to please you. Most women are not looking to be your sex slave.

This doesn't make them uninterested in sex or just too old or not able... it means they aren't interested in sex WITH YOU. Asking trite questions about your sex life by smearing women as a group is quite the epic take. Dude. This is not how you do.

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They might, I've never met one although I've experienced different sexual attitudes with women I've known. They tend to be far more complicated than we are when it comes to sex it's just the way they're wired.One great example is how visual men are compared to women. Guys can see a sexy photos and become aroused but women report far fewer instances of this.

So does it occur to you that the fact your arousal is image based on porn might be a problem? The contention that men are visual and women are not in sex has little scientific merit. And we didn't evolve with porn so the arousal state porn induces induced isn't a natural evolved trait it's a cultural phenomenon.

Let me tell you as a gay man. The women I have had sex with were not complicated. The secret is to treat her like she's a person and make her feel that you are present for her. That is a skill you don't learn strokin to the Playboy bunny. Mutual arousal is key. But women rarely have men who even understand she needs to be aroused let alone knowing that sticking your penis in her mouth or vagina or demanding it isn't erotic or pleasing for her. Cunnilingus or clitoral stim, massage, erotic touch. Nipple play, caring and tender touch. Holding her and letting stress melt, telling her you value her and her body as you make her feel it.

If you're not getting aroused by real women and are by paper women it might not be her bro.

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Yes they do but it is a rare one that keeps their libido after the birth of children. Sometimes that libido comes back later in life, but not quite the same as before. The few that still want and need to be intimate with males as they mature are a treasure to the males who partner with them in life. The reason I was told by a female I am married too, is that females libido is not as high as males. That is her story and she is sticking to it.

This is cute. 33% of 3rd kids are illegitimate in the US. She's not losing her libido after kids. She's exhausted from birthing them worn out from raising them and she married the guy who could provide for them not herself. Having spent a marriage of bad sex with the hubby she takes her hope chest of desire and gets herself a stud. It's wild reading you dudes who know absolutely nothing about women and their lives.

If your wife doesn't want intimacy with you that's a problem. Her saying it is her fault is likely her trying to spare your feelings and ego. Note you called the woman you don't have and desire 'a treasure' and then made a caustic remark about your wife. Is it possible this attitude is picked up on by her? If so it would explain a lot.

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Holy Crap dude!
It was a rhetorical question based on a stereotypical perception of married men toward their wives!
My wife even thought it was a funny topic.
Maybe I should have posted it in Humor and Fun!

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By the way, I have also discovered that most female creatures have another unique quality.
If you ever get angry with one, no matter how deserving, they always become even more angry than you!

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