RE: I'm being harassed, what do I do?

Ok, so I used to get messages like this myself. (havent chatted much in a long time) BUT.. everytime I have reported it to the Mods, it was dealt with swiftly. You have to handle things this way. Thats how we make a name as a no nonsense site. If we all do our part we can slowly but surley chase off some of the "bad apples" to other sites. The only thing I could add to the advice, is a trick I use. Take the time to get to know the respected members on this site. When I get friend requests, I a;lways check, groups,intrests and friends. If I see some of the long term members in thier friends list, then I give them another look see. Foe the most part, if you have not taken the time to be certified, unless we chat alot, we will not even give you a second look. Then I flip through photos, you can usually see if there honest intentions that way. IE erection shots, stolen photos and so forth. If you use your head, and think "this is to god to be true" then usually it is. Have a great day all. Blacks Beach is calling our name. Peace from Rick and Susan

Good advice!

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This needs another bump...

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An Idea For The Girls, or Anyone Else For That Matter.


Instead of getting all up set about it, why not capitalise on the laziness and inability of these jerks,
to actually read your profile. Just state clearly on it, that you delete ALL friend requests, without
even looking at them, and Invite members to write to you.


Ask them to state what they think you have in common, and why they would like to become your
friend, along with a request, for YOU, to send -them- a friend request.


Then, you no longer need to be annoyed and frustrated at having to look at them all, to sift
out the few that may be of interest to you. This will instantly identify those that did not bother
to read your profile, and you can just simply delete or ignore them all!


I suspect that far fewer guys will bother, or even be capable, of writing an intelligent note, and
you will have a far better way of assessing, what they are like, and, if you want to respond to
them.

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example off a conversation i had with a "woman" last week in chat she: hi me :hi how your doing she: asl? me: 42 male belgium she: kids? me: 1 daughter 14 years old ( being polite till so far) she: how does she looks like? can i see her? how does she devolep? me turning off chat and feeling very sick what kind off world we live in. brrrrrrrr

That is EXACTLY the type of conversation that should be either reported to a mod (if one is in the room) or sent to abuse@truenudists.com.PLEASE, PLEASE everyone, do NOT ignore that kind of stuff, it WILL not go away. Take the necessary actions that are available to you - flag, report to a mod, report to abuse@truenudists.com

Tommeke, so very sorry you had to deal with that. Please send a message to our profilesnugglebunnywith the name and the mods will put it on our "watch" list.

Jen
Jen, if you get the name, let the other mods know too. About a week ago, someone made even worse statement in open chat. A couple of ladies were very upset by it. I immediately kick him from room. He was flagged by many people, some of us copied and pasted what he said. His profile was gone the next morning.
Thomas

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I suspect that far fewer guys will bother, or even be capable, of writing an intelligent note, and you will have a far better way of assessing, what they are like, and, if you want to respond to them.So true Phil, some are not even intelligent enough to not send a mod sexual message while playing on cam. They must really be desperate to send messages like that to me. LOL

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I suspect that far fewer guys will bother, or even be capable, of writing an intelligent note, and you will have a far better way of assessing, what they are like, and, if you want to respond to them.So true Phil, some are not even intelligent enough to not send a mod sexual message while playing on cam. They must really be desperate to send messages like that to me. LOL


Oh I don't know, I always thought you were a hunk,

well, ...... that's what Jen told me anyway! lol hehe!

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Wow! An amazing amount of great info...

Thanks Iceberg. We only wish there was a way to keep this on the home pageor make it more readily available to all. So many never bother to read the forums...

Jen

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Time for the

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Great post Phil, I would like to add: Don't give out off site contact information till you have really gotten to know someone. This is good advice for all.

I think some of those 'girls' with one photo and no profile but leave an email, are of course fakes and either trying to get you to link to their paid porn webpage, or worse get your personal email to SPAM you with later. Stick to contacts here on site until you really get to know the person through messages, chats and photo exchanges I guess.

Yes. Exactly.

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Bump!

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