Why are lesbians so sexy for guys?

It doesn't make much evolutionary sense. As for us girls, we are 4 billion so we are different but still I believe that male homosexuality is not very enticing for most of us. I think I've already told this, I love gay guys, they make for great friends and if I were to go on holidays with a bunch of guys I would definitely prefer them to be gay - but once I know and notice that they are gay I lose any interest - not only sexual, but even aesthetic. I mean I do notice if they are hot, but not more than I would notice that a kitten is sweet. Awww, how nice, and then I think of something else. In fact, I'll find pretty much any average woman on a particular beach more sexually attractive than the sexiest gay guy. And I am primarily attracted towards guys I guess.

Even for self-declared bi-guys, once I know or see that they like guys it's game over for me. The are sweet as kittens and can be great friends but that's all. I guess I simply know, deep down, that I can't compete with a guy. I am more needy, I need to be seduced, I'm not going to have a quickie in a toilet or make myself available for sex no questions or strings attached on a specialised site. In fact, I have two good bi male friends and they both admit that, despite liking to make sex with women just as much, they ended by making sex only with other gay guys. So much easier. And no, I'm not going to compete with them in the "easy" department.

So how come you guys are so obnubilated by lesbian girls? Now sure, you are 4 billion too and some of you are likely to be monogamous and all but the large majority of you? Hm? The large majority?

I really see no evolutionist advantage. I mean I do see the evolutionary advantage of having sex with two women as the same time, but not necessarily with two lesbians. Maybe in the harem phase this would have signaled sexual availability, or even fertility as women are hornier during the oestrus phase? Maybe this signals eroticism and we women are more sexually flexible? Because we are, most of us ar bi in the right conditions. Researchers have attached humidity sensors to measure the state of arousal of different subjects when shown various pics. For men, it was simple. Straight men were aroused by the sight of naked women, gay men by the sight of naked men period. For women, it was far more complicated, with a bit of romantic music and a nice pic they could get aroused by the sigh of women, men, couples, even by kissing chimps or by a sunset...

Anyway, evolutionist advantage or fascination for what was for long time a taboo why do you think you guys are attracted by two women making love? And yes, sure, not you personally, I know you are faithful and never thought of this and are perfectly pure with an aura above your head and all, but speaking in general about other guys?

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L O L ! A well written piece, Flora. You have a great mind , and well, your body is pretty hot too !

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Good morning
Yes why would we love to see that. But we go to the bars with nude female dancing. We know that the girls well have nothing to do with us after our money is gone. But we still go !
Maybe we are learning about women. Hmmm ! Growing up, I was confused with a womans body. What is all of these body parts for. Hmmm ! Why do we turn our heads as a girl walks by. Hmmm !
To this day I am still learning about women. After being married for 38 years I still wonder. Hmmm !

Maybe we just love to see people touching each other. I have learned that men touching each other is beautiful also. May not be as much, but still like to see. Hmmm ! I am not sure why we love to see that. What about peeking at people ? I have watched people in the open making love naked. Was beautiful to see ! But I am wondering about, like behind a bush or through a window. Why ? Hmmm ! Or having someone watching me. Which I love also, and have done before.

Yes but why ? Need smarter people to answer or I could do my own research. Could I get volunteers for a research project and a grant to explore this interesting question. Hmmm ! I will need to record the people making love for my research. Oh dont have a doctorate ! Damn ! I just have the will to do it.

Can not wait to hear what others are going to say.

Hmmm !

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Human relationships between men, whatever their sexual orientation, and lesbian women, known as such or not, is one thing, and I don't think there is any general statement or observation about it, but fantasy of men looking at lesbian play or scene is another matter. We might be attracted or simply intrigued. Maybe we want to understand why they prefer the same gender, maybe we are simply enjoying the view of two naked female bodies. Btw they are not always sexy. Maybe we would like to be one or the other of the duo, so more food for our imagination.

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I think men are fascinated by that which is not interested in them.
And I believe men, being very visual creatures enjoy the sight of two women entwined.
Here ends my feeble philosophical / scientific response lol

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I think men are fascinated by that which is not interested in them.

Men are most interested in the female form and most fascinated by the fact that two of them are intertwined without them! We love and are attracted to the female body parts as you are. Cuddling, touching, caressing and exploring those very favorite female parts while watching the subtle signs of the impending eruption and uncontrollable body convulsions would give anyone joy! I will tell you why lesbians are so sexy, we are jealous that we are not needed !!!!

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Jim proposed that maybe we just like seeing people touching each other. "I see friends, shaking hands, saying How do you do, And I think to myself, what a wonderful world"... Yeah, and forgot to say, I get a big erection too.

Now Rosewood completely twists the reply to answer a completely different question. Sure you are attracted to women and body parts otherwise humanity would not exist. The fact that we are 8 billion is a living proof that you guys (well, a vast majority of you) like women and their body parts.

I'm also not at all surprised that you are interested in sex with two women, the most typical male phantasy. More to impregnate and ideally run away afterwards, makes a lot of evolutionary sense.

The question is why are you so attracted to two women making love TO EACH OTHER. Clearly they are having a good time and if you interfere you can bet you last dollar that the reaction will not be like in a porn movie "oh, great idea, exactly what we were missing"... On the contrary, two horny girls with no interest in satisfying each other could maybe, in an ideal world (but we don't live in an ideal world, don't get you expectations high!) get an interest in you... So yeah, you should normally be attracted by two girls touching THEMSELVES not EACH OTHER!

Robert proposes that maybe you are just intrigued and want to know the answer to the scientific question why do some women prefer same sex relations... Yeah, maybe. You are of course intrigued into an erection which, as everybody knows, is indispensable for big science discoveries... Newton must have been a big lover of lesbian girls.

Sandy proposes a smart idea, that men are fascinated by what is not interested in them. Interesting... Men like, you know, the explorers, the adventurers, the hunters... Always interested in sexual relation with something not yet explored... Like, I don't know... A hole in a tree? An octopus? Octopuses are sexy, they have eight legs and the hole in the middle and are completely unimpressed by your pectorals, so are you ever having sex dreams wit an octopus?

Or ok, how many of you dream of women on a period? Or at least on PMS? An angry woman dressed in a winter overcoat? Margaret Thatcher answering questions in the Commons?

No, sorry, I thought about it and I could come up with only one reasonable explanation. Men are not very smart, sexually. They like naked women, they like sex and when they see two (TWO!) naked women making sex they go "whoooooaaaaaa! Aga, aga, aga, they must be missing me and my little mini-me which makes all decisions, they can't get true satisfaction without it...".

Yeah, that "not very smart" level...

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Sour grapes!!

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I have a friend that will only watch lesbian porn because he doesn't want to see another guys ding-a-ling. As for me, I was introduced to it at a young age in magazines and we all know that what you see there is pretty fake. I had a trist with two ladies and I didn't really care to see them make out. So why do guys like it, maybe it has to do with spreading as much seed as possible or they are tired of same old thing. Your guess is as good as any.

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