Answer to Father and Son nude bonding
G'day,
I have had nude bonding session with my son. When I met my wife in Tennessee and we got married I added to adult sons to my life and sadly one of our sons passed away in 2009.
We also have another unofficially adopted son that my wife included him into her family after his on family abandoned him after he came out as Gay and after we lost our own Gay son in 2009 we all grew closer.
My wife was in hospital recovering from some surgery and I sent our son a text message to tell him that she was okay and recovering and resting in the hospital.
We already shared a common interest as we are both nudists he discovered social nudity at a gay nudist retreat I will just call him J to maintain his privacy.
While we were texting I asked him if it would be okay to see him naked something that I had wanted to ask for a while but was not sure how to approach the topic. He said the same thing that he had wanted to see me naked but was not sure how to ask me.
Once I found that out I said okay I am cool with that so I sent him a nude selfie and I asked if he could send me a nude selfie too, after we exchanged nude selfies he asked if we could turn on the video calling part of the app we were using and I said that would be great.
Now we could both see each other naked on video and we showed each other everything and then he asked if we could masturbate together and I was cool with that too.
he went into his bedroom and relaxed on the bed and started playing with his cock I did the same thing just sitting in my chair in my office, I don't know if it was nerves for both of us but we both got semi erect but we just could not get ourselves to cum.
After we had both tried he just said he was so happy that we had done this special Father Son bonding and our relationship has been stronger since then.
I did not think that doing this was weird or strange it just felt perfectly natural for both of us and I even told him that if I was ever to visit Tennessee that I would love to hang out nude with him and masturbate with him too in person.
I hope this meets the requirements of the group sorry I don't have any photos of J to maintain his privacy
nude regards
Wayne
Your wife's in hospital recovering and you think it's not weird to masterbate with your adult son? You think that's father son bonding? Ask your wife what she thinks about your bonding with your son through masterbation
Lets try our best not to be too judgmental here. This is a discussion group. Everyone is entitled to their thoughts but do not condemn others for theirs. I have learned in my own life that fathers raise their children to their own comfort level. You may not agree with it and that is your prerogative but do not condemn someone for thoughts different from your own please.
The circumstances I quote below are complicated and more information would assist in commenting on it with any degree of fairness and without it seeming judgemental. Some feel that being in the parental position means all subjects are open to discussion and demonstration with an inquisitive child, up to and including teaching their children how to masturbate. I do not, but that is not what is being discussed here.
Since the gay 'son' being spoken of is an adult and not a blood relative, could this mutual masturbation cause any problems in the family? Unless the wife in the hospital has been kept in the loop and completely accepts the poster's bisexual curiosity and sexual openness, I think this activity is bound to cause damage in the family, especially if it allowed to move on to same room stroking. That said, if 'mom' is fully aware and knows what's going on, accepts and condones it, this changes the story and the act of mutual satisfaction loses its destructive power. If that is the case, it is possible this sort of interaction could be very connective between 'father' and 'son', although it still sounds dangerous to me.
In this descriptive post, it is mentioned that neither of the men could achieve a full erection or orgasm, and that reaction hints that one or the other (or both) of them might have been conflicted about engaging in what is at its heart a sexual act. That point should not be ignored. To pretend it wasn't moving in a sexual direction, once hand began to move on penis together on cam, is ignoring the obvious. It might seem as though the two men were experiencing a special connection in the moment, but there is also an unsavory residual taste of it being two horny men following their hard-ons, especially with 'dad's' usual avenue for sexual release absent, in a hospital bed in recovery. If this cam activity moves to in-person, and is engaged in without full permission from 'mom', it may evolve into a full-on, family-wrecking shit show with sperm. What may have begun as healthy nude bonding between family members has suddenly become a mutual masturbatory sexual encounter. This is an equation for destruction.
What J experienced at that gay nudist retreat may have given him the idea that nudism and sex are inextricably connected. In most circumstances that is the exact opposite of a healthy nude style of life. I'm not knocking the gay lifestyle or open sexual proclivities; if his introduction to nudism was at an adult retreat where everyone was having sex out in the open, he may have gotten the idea that nudism is a means to a sexual end. That is a huge disservice to the idea of social nudism, and a sad part of the uphill battle that we have in teaching the general population why being undressed is good for everyone.G'day,I have had nude bonding session with my son. When I met my wife in Tennessee and we got married I added to adult sons to my life and sadly one of our sons passed away in 2009.We also have another unofficially adopted son that my wife included him into her family after his on family abandoned him after he came out as Gay and after we lost our own Gay son in 2009 we all grew closer.My wife was in hospital recovering from some surgery and I sent our son a text message to tell him that she was okay and recovering and resting in the hospital.We already shared a common interest as we are both nudists he discovered social nudity at a gay nudist retreat I will just call him J to maintain his privacy.While we were texting I asked him if it would be okay to see him naked something that I had wanted to ask for a while but was not sure how to approach the topic. He said the same thing that he had wanted to see me naked but was not sure how to ask me.Once I found that out I said okay I am cool with that so I sent him a nude selfie and I asked if he could send me a nude selfie too, after we exchanged nude selfies he asked if we could turn on the video calling part of the app we were using and I said that would be great.Now we could both see each other naked on video and we showed each other everything and then he asked if we could masturbate together and I was cool with that too.he went into his bedroom and relaxed on the bed and started playing with his cock I did the same thing just sitting in my chair in my office, I don't know if it was nerves for both of us but we both got semi erect but we just could not get ourselves to cum.After we had both tried he just said he was so happy that we had done this special Father Son bonding and our relationship has been stronger since then.I did not think that doing this was weird or strange it just felt perfectly natural for both of us and I even told him that if I was ever to visit Tennessee that I would love to hang out nude with him and masturbate with him too in person.I hope this meets the requirements of the group sorry I don't have any photos of J to maintain his privacynude regardsWayne
While I do not judge what nudists do, I have to say this. There have been groups like this pop up and removed. I believe it was mostly because the posts included sexual content. Again, while I don't condemn it, it would be best for this group to refrain from anything sexual discussed openly. I love father/son bonding, and even grandfathers, grandsons, and I want this group to survive.
its one thing to be naked w your son as many dads/moms/ parents raise their kids as nudists but to masterbate w the son thats a whole other can or worms that i dont think need to be open in public as you brought up, at that point its not bout nudism at all but thats my thoughts bout it.
Please accept my condolences for the loss of your son and my congratulations for getting a new adult. Not that one could ever replace the other, but that you have embraced life moving on.
Many may believe that nudism should never have anything sexual about it. I agree that appropriate boundary setting is important and recognize that men continue to be sexual as men are with or without clothes. Others may argue that anything sexual, including masturbation, in the same family is perverse. My main concern is that a parent should never exploit a power differential for the parent's own sexual satisfaction particularly with a minor.
I believe that men have always masturbated and women have always menstruated together in the flow of life. Sure, the details matter, including the views of your wife and his mother, in setting boundaries. If you can work those out, I'd always favor positive nude bonding over no bonding. Much luck and blessings to you and your family!
I spent most of my childhood being raised by relatives, strangers or foster care. There were many times when I was a teen that I would have loved to be nude with or even masturbate with the older boys or their dads. In talking to a few of them in later years we discovered that several of us had wanted to but were afraid. Hopefully more dads and their sons will connect.
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