Guys, I lied to you...
Look, I have to confess, I lied. However, I didn't lie entirely, just partially. Only one of the following two option is true.
Option 1. Look, everything I ever told you about myself in these over 600 topics is fake. Everything. I have a good imagination, I made it all up. But my pics are real, it's who I am physically, they are all recent and without any photoshopping.
Option 2. Everything I told you about myself is true. Ok, there may have been the occasional teasing, insisting on the sexier aspects, just for your entertainment. But in essence, everything you know about me is true. But look, I confess, my pics are fake. They are not mine, I found them on a discarded thumb drive.
Now, in which case do you feel more betrayed? Under which option would you feel I am more of a fake profile?
Being fake, in the truest sense is not being genuine, an aim to deceive, to imitate something you're not. I don't think it really matters whether in image or in word.
So really both options would be considered deceitful, neither are genuine nor purporting to be the real Flora. Even if we all understand poetic license in the story telling.
But, I know that wasn't your question... which would I find more deceitful and feel more betrayed, which is more fake.
Which would be more wrong in a world that sees grey and not just black and white.
For me, and there isn't a right or wrong answer here, this is personal opinion only... the words being a sham would be, for me, more of a betrayal. Whilst I understand there is embellishment and a generous amount of decoration in the narrative... and interestingly I wouldn't feel the same betrayal if your name was Nana and not Flora! I feel that the core of the Flora bio being true(ish) is important and if fake I'd feel more betrayed than if your photos were someone else's.
However, being duped or deceived into thinking one thing when another is true, being tricked or conned does leave a sour taste, for me.... others may not care.
Genuine(ish) Richie esq.
Definitely Option 1. It doesnt matter how little you wear in a photo you reveal far more of yourself in your writing.
I would feel cheated if that was a construct. This is probably possible too, using ChatGPT.
The written you has depth and character; your photos, while beautiful remain only superficially descriptive of you.
C'mon guys... Don't lie to me now... Don't try to give me the "right answer", just how you feel about it. You know that our anonymous online profiles are social constructs - but meaning not that they are made by society for us but by us for the online society... We all lie online. Of course you care more about my stealing the pics than stealing other people's experience...
Ok, I'll tell you the truth now. Let's call it Option 3, but just for reference. You can also call it "the Truth". I lied -but just a bit- in both my blurb and my pics.
Yes, I am a nudist, I visited all the places which I reviewed, I do read stuff like (empiric) psychology and evolutionism, I like to invent moral dilemmas... But most of my stories are my sensual daydreaming. Most of them didn't happen other than in my head.
And the pics are mine but... Look, there is nothing wrong with bing a bit older than you declare, everybody does this, right? I am actually not closing the gap to 40 but to 60 and I am not 1.80m but 1.60m tall... Yeah, the pics are mine but from almost 20 years ago and I squashed them vertically in Photoshop to make me look tall and thin and sexy. I've always been short and stubby and quite complexed about it so online I would prefer to be tall and lean and if I reveal myself nude online I prefer that people go "wow, sexy" rather than "thanks Ma'am". But the pics are mine and they have neve been published online, that's why Tineye didn't give you any result.
I trust that you didn't join my group to have sex with me but to have interesting exchanges and see nice sexy pics so I gave you all that didn't I. Inventing some stories and using a bit of Photoshop doesn't change all this much does it? Right guys? Fundamentally it's still me in both my pics and my blurb, just a sexier version of me... We're still friends, right guys?
Hmmm, #1 or #2?
Betrayed. no. Humored, yes!
The things we are willing to do for entertainment!
If you get "butt hurt" on this site for being duped, you're on the wrong site! It seems to be a staple here sometimes. Truth or not, we're all here for the entertainment value.
A real truth is that, it can be insightful to live vicariously through our alter-ego. How others react to our faux selves can be quite fun and enlightening.
For a short time here, I created a fake profile.
It was Stevie Ray, she is my cat. Complete with profile pic.
Everything I wrote on her behalf never denied the fact that she was a cat. Mostly, I just fixed her spelling errors because she "fat pawed" her key strokes a lot. I guess the double entendres made it very believable that she was, in fact a hot pussy with 6 nipples.
Yes. I was quite humored for several weeks as she had some extensive dialog with many of the men on here that only believe what they want to believe. Even when she told some, "You know I'm a cat, right?",
Ahhh, to be so naive must be bliss! I'm sure they got what they wanted from the conversing, so all is well, right?
Until I told wifey.......the voice of all things fair and right! Yes, I was scolded for being deceitful and convinced to shut down Stevie Ray, that is, after she had a good laugh reading the threads. Sometimes the voice of reason can be such a killjoy.
I may have felt morally better after (not), but it was great fun while it lasted, no regrets!
So, #1 or #2? For me. I'm here for the entertainment, fact or fiction is irrelevant
The moral of the story is, do it if it's fun, just don't listen to that voice on your shoulder..........or a spouse with a conscious . Live for the day, and don't stop writing. Don't confess or regret your proclivity to good story telling for something as banal as truth, and enjoy it for its sheer entertainment value!
If they ever find out and are put off by it, so be it, You had fun, they learn a lesson!
Deceitful Lee
Lee, I know the feeling. I was an AI bot named Nana for a few days and it was exhilarating... And I was on two different photo modelling sites, one "normal" and one adult, and, without ever saying anything untrue, just by never typing the word "no" I let a few guys believe that I will be their sex toy for days or for weeks... Ok, I didn't spend more than a week or so on any simply because I received so many offers and each time I was answering like a good girl and getting requests for a bit more... And each time I would say that I would think about it and you guys know that when a lady tells you no you take it as maybe and when she says maybe you take it as yes...
I told that story. I don't even think I left those sites because I felt sorry for those guys. In fact, I know for sure that they had lots of pleasure imagining our encounter... Yes, several offered to send me pics of their "homage" to my pics and as I had set for myself as a basic rule to never say no except to requests for cams and more pics than there were on my profile... Yeah, I have visual proof that they had basically a free ride into virtual sex with me. But I guess the main reason I left those sites was that it was becoming time consuming.
Ok, I did one adult modelling session for a German photographer, which is a story as yet untold, so I wasn't there only to fool around... I did publish a couple of pics from that session (guess what their focus was on... Yup, exactly) and they got something like 15 likes in 12 hours...
Yes, I am a bad girl.
Lee, I know the feeling. I was an AI bot named Nana for a few days and it was exhilarating... And I was on two different photo modelling sites, one "normal" and one adult, and, without ever saying anything untrue, just by never typing the word "no" I let a few guys believe that I will be their sex toy for days or for weeks... Ok, I didn't spend more than a week or so on any simply because I received so many offers and each time I was answering like a good girl and getting requests for a bit more... And each time I would say that I would think about it and you guys know that when a lady tells you no you take it as maybe and when she says maybe you take it as yes...I told that story. I don't even think I left those sites because I felt sorry for those guys. In fact, I know for sure that they had lots of pleasure imagining our encounter... Yes, several offered to send me pics of their "homage" to my pics and as I had set for myself as a basic rule to never say no except to requests for cams and more pics than there were on my profile... Yeah, I have visual proof that they had basically a free ride into virtual sex with me. But I guess the main reason I left those sites was that it was becoming time consuming.Ok, I did one adult modelling session for a German photographer, which is a story as yet untold, so I wasn't there only to fool around... I did publish a couple of pics from that session (guess what their focus was on... Yup, exactly) and they got something like 15 likes in 12 hours...Yes, I am a bad girl.
So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell, blue skies from pain.
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
Did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
Did you exchange
A walk-on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?
Do you know whats funny? I joined this group to learn more about women. So if you are closer to your 80s. And those pictures were from when you were younger. And the stories were from when you were younger. That would be great. and the questions you post about philosophy just makes you more knowledgeable.
I just like this group because they discuss things. Lying about your history and pictures. Its not that big a deal. Im still interested in learning more from what everybody has to say.