Honesty with your partner
I have a different perspective on this topic. I am the "designated" hook up for 2 bi married guys. In both cases, they knew I was gay and I was friends with the couples (we are all nudists) before we started getting together. The wives are aware of our sexual relationship. One guy is quite a bit younger than me. He and his wife actually invited me to their home for him to "explore" his bi-curious feelings. The other guy is older and his wife has little interest in sex. I live in a rural area with no close neighbors so I offer them a private and discreet place to enjoy nudity and sex. I don't know, or care, if they share the details of our sexual encounters. I'm just very happy to help them out, especially knowing that their wife's are aware of our relationship.
Gf encouraged I explored and seemed happy and excited I was open to the idea. She decided she didnt want to know details and to be honest there arent many to share. Especially recently. But when she has asked I have answered honestly.
When I was with my ex gay partner we were together nearly 5 years even though we loved each other we decided to go and see other guys are relationship was even stronger use to tell each other about guys we met what we got up to anal oral that went on for years if I met another guy i would love an open relationship



