RE:Is There a Sexual Side to Nudism?

WOW.....Nakednaturalist .........What a Load of Total Crap! LOL
I'm sure that your Book, will be on the Best Sellers list!
I tend more to agree with StevieandLorna's take on things.
Being a Nudist has absolutely Noting to do with Sex....just as wearing Clothes has absolutely Nothing to do with Sex.
But......whether people are Fully Clothed or whether they are Totally Naked......there will always be a Sexual Attraction between people, and Sex is very possible to take place, between consenting adults.
Nakednaturelist.....talks about us all having a Torch to carry, for all the Nudists out there? LOL
Are you OK?
Being Nude, or being a Nudist has absolutely no responsibilities attached to it!
Being Nude or being a Nudist.....is not a Religion.....its not a Club.....its not some scared group, that actually care about one another......its just a Lifestyle.....that we all enjoy to do.
It seems as if, the majority of people on this site, are Stay at Home or Closet Nudists......while being a Nude Resort or a Beach Nudist.....is a completely different world, than the ones who hide in side.
From what we hear, The Resorts are Full of Discrete Swingers.......The Beaches are Full of Old Perverts and of course there will be Swingers there as well.
But.....being a Stay at Home Nudist.....These people have No Idea....what goes on out there.
But....once again.......Who really cares?
IF......you are Open to it....and IF....you are looking for Sex in the Nudist World......you will definitely find it.
If....you just enjoy the Sun......while reading a Good Book....there is very little chance of anyone ever bothering you, with anything!
So......YES....There is a Sexual side to Nudism.....No matter which way you want to Twist it or Paint it.....No Matter what definition you are wanting to go by......( I would ask....."WHO" wrote the Definition? ) ...when ever there are Naked Adults together in the same exact Space.......YES......There will be some form of Sexual Attraction taking place...."IF".....the other people are all Attractive and Sexy looking.
But.....if you are some Big Fat Slob......who doesn't take care of themselves ......and never sets Foot into a Gym.........then of course.....there will be No Sexual Side....to their Nudism.
Just because there is a Sexual Side to Nudism....it doesn't mean......that it will be either Obvious or ever concern or affect any of you.
If you are looking for a Group to Drink with.....you will find it in the Nudist world.
If you are looking for others that are into Sports....you will find it in the Nudist world.
If you are looking for others that Love to Eat.......you will find it in the Nudist world.
If you are looking for others that are into SEX......you will definitely find it in the Nudist world.
But......Drinking....Sports.....Eating and SEX.....have absolutely Nothing to do with being a Nudist.....they are just some of the Side Bar interests ...that you will find amongst other people....that enjoy being Naked.
"YES" there is a Sexual side to being a Nudist.....Just as there is a Sexual side to being the President of the United States...or being the CEO of Fox News.....or being the Head Honcho in Hollywood, or being a Minnesota State Senator etc! LOL
SEX is why we are all here on this earth.....SEX is why our Kids are all here.....and SEX......is what each and every "Married" guy is craving for...on a much much more consistent basis! lol
There is a Sexual Side to Church.....just ask the Catholic Priests! ( Just Kidding ...BUT!)
What guy doesn't LOVE SEX???
What guy is ever getting enough SEX? ( If you say that you are......You are LYING!) .
SEX Sells!
YES YES YES YES!!!!.....There is a Sexual Side to Nudism.....whether you are wanting to admit it or not!
And.......Who does this SEX .....actually affect?
Which brings us back to ......"WHO CARES"????

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This was the best answer so far.

I will add, those who enjoy nudism and believe in the naturist philosophy have an uphill battle to fight because most of us continue to live at least part of our lives in a textile world where we are a minority and where even our own efforts to maintain our beliefs and philosophical approach are daily manipulated by the media and our society's crazy obsession with sex. And, clothing and fashion are at least as much to blame for this obsession as are, with some exceptions, our religions and governments. We simply can't be unaffected by the societies in which we live; we are too much a part of them. But we can make individual choices and commit to our beliefs and philosophies through daily practice and by continuing to honestly and respectfully discuss this and other issues that affect us as nudists.

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WOW.....Nakednaturalist .........What a Load of Total Crap! LOLI'm sure that your Book, will be on the Best Sellers list! Which brings us back to ......"WHO CARES"????

Love it HHC, nude books are never best sellers they are just a writer's self-indulgence, a thinking out loud.

Great rant as always but the last line is the problem, people do care, it is the greatest argument against naturism so shouldn't naturists agree or at least debate on the reply? As for carrying the torch welcome to the world of having to stand for your rights, many at home nudes have nowhere to go, some live in societies that forbid, others are persecuted because of the sex link. Who cares doesn't change that, it perpetuates it.

It is great you are in a happy place with your nudity and lifestyle but many on this site are not and they are the ones who need to read these threads to adjust their own minds and resolve personal issues. Nudity is plagued by sexualised males giving women grief, that isn't going to improve until enough people join us and that isn't going to happen until a) the fems feel nudity is freedom and b) guys understand their own drives and create healthy consenting outlets for them. Who cares won't change anything so I for one will live in hope that promoting nudity and embracing and openly talking about healthy sexuality is the way forward.

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This site, is so funny at the best of times....due to all of the Righteous Experts, that seem to think, everyone on here.....needs to be led by the hand....to the Holy Land of Nudity ( Said with Eyes Rolling!) .
We also find it soooo Hilarious when these same Righteous Experts.....all state ridiculous things ....Things like.........."Nudity" ....."is plagued"???... by "Sexualized males".... giving women "grief" ?, that isn't going to improve ....until enough people "join us" ( Errrrr......JOIN WHO?.....The Moses of Nudity? ) and that isn't going to happen until "A".... ( the fems "feel" ( What the HELL are you Smoking ) nudity is freedom and "B" ( guys understand "their own drives" ( Once again......Are you OK? ) and create "healthy consenting outlets"..... for them??? LOL
Please.......This sounds as if.... you have watched the "Book Burning" discussion taking place in the gym.... in the movie...."The Field of Dreams".....just one to many times?
Its this exact kind of Crap and Talk ( That Nudists "Fantasize" about and continually Preach ) .......that Fuels the Textiles vivid imaginations......with Nudity being all about.....ONE BIG Orgy and One Big...Gang Bang going on......amongst anyone.....that actually admits, to being a Nudist.
NOTHING.....could ever be further from, the Truth.
First Off.....if these "Mature".... "Older"......."Pretend"..... "Closet"....."Wannabe" Nudist's are needing to be led by the hand.....then....they are obviously not all that sincere, or REAL at all.
Prior to the Web.......which really has not been around for all that long......( Really it hasn't lol) "ALL" of us......who had "True" and "REAL" Interest's in Nudity.......we EXPLORED our interests on our own.
No one was needed to hold our hands.....No one was needed to tell us how to take our clothes off....or how to lie back on our Beach Blankets and TAN while being NUDE......on the beach.....while being totally Naked....for all to see.
Back then......we were only 16 years Old....( YUP......Only 16 years old ) ......"Yet".....NONE of these Perverts...and NONE of these Sexualized Males that you Fantasize about....... and that "ALL" of you Snow Flake EXPERT Nudists Warn the Textile and Nude Population about......have ever been seen......by anyone that we have ever known???
Gee........WHY do you think that would be?
May be.....it was because .....even at that young age......we were able to tell anyone.....that "might" appear to be a little different.......to F#%K RIGHT OFF........"BEFORE".........it "MIGHT" ........go any further.
We NEVER needed anyone to Hold our hands through the process......we NEVER needed anyone to Hold our Hand......and tell us what to do.....if I got a Hard On......and believe me........at 16 years of age.......it was HARD.....24 - 7 ....soooo.......what is the BIG DEAL......about having a Hard On......on a Beach or at a Resort....or even in your Closet?
Does common sense not tell a guy........to TURN OVER "STUPID"!
Does not common sense tell a guy.......way in advance......that he is going to get Hard On?
Just .....TURN OVER or Grab a Towel......or just think......about your Grandmother being Naked.....and that should take care of that!
Nudists.... always talk about all of these Perverts and "YOUR" Sexualized Males.....that are a Plaque... to all of the Over Weight and Out of Shape "OLDER" "Retired".....women that are the norm now, in the Nudist community and at the Resorts.
All of this BS......about this Perverted Plaque.....is just coming from some Insecure Husband or from Jealous Husbands mind........when ever he catches another "Sexualized Male" looking in his ladies direction.
We have been doing the Nude Beach thing and the Nude Resort thing and the Nude Lifestyle thing....ever since our early Teens.....and we have NEVER EVER......had any of these Sexualized Males or any of these Perverts or any of these Swinging Orgy seeking Couples......ever HIT on Us......over the last 30 and more years of us Exploring our Nude Fun in the Sun.
YES....of course......people - couples or your Sexualized Males..... might want to make an inappropriate suggestion.....while at the beach or while at a Resort.....but.....we are Big Boys and Big Girls.....and we are able to take care of ourselves and a very simple......F#%K YOU......or a very simple and Polite......F@%K OFF.......is all, that is ever needed.
We have been all around the world.....visiting different Nude Beaches.....and staying at different Nude Resorts.....and we have never ever seen this Plaque invested situation that the Older MALE Nudists have only Fantasized about...and continually talk about.....when there is absolutely NO Truth at all......to your fear of these Sexualized Males. lol
It just isn't True.....and if any of these Nudists have ever had an unwanted advance ( and from what we see on this site.....any Perverted male.....would have to be either Totally Blind or very very very desperate to hit on anyone from this site.....and we are not trying to be Mean......its just the Truth) towards their wives or their GF's from one of your Sexualized Males......then how about their Husbands or BF's growing a set of Balls......and taking care of the Pervert.....that you only Fantasize about?
OK.......Lets set the Record Straight.......for you Novice or Wannabe or Pretend Nudists.....you have absolutely NOTHING to ever worry about.
Secondly.......this site is not for True Nudists......it is a site for Pure Bull Shit.
The majority of the people on this site, are either SINGLE Older Guys.....or Older Married guys.....just Jerking Off to their own Warped Fantasies, and their own Life Long Perversions....no matter how small or big those Fantasies might be.
Nudism and Nudity is not something, that you just suddenly Wake Up to and are suddenly wanting to do.....when you are in your 40's - 50's - 60's and 70's!
IF your own wife is not into your own Fantasy.......then ......who's Fault is that?
If your wife is not wanting to be seen Nude in Public.......then......who's fault is that?
If your wife....doesn't Swallow?........Then......who's fault is that ( Thought I would throw that one in.....for arguments sake! LOL ) ???
The Lame Brain Dead...... Husbands, on this site......are the sole reason....and the only ones to Blame.....for their own wives .....lack of adventure or any interest at all in their own Elderly Fantasy.
OLDER women do not want be Naked or to be seen Naked ......even in their own Dark Closets ( Thank God for that!).....yet....their own Perverted Husbands keep pushing them to try it. lol
Its True.....that you can't teach an Old Dog.....New Tricks.
My question would be........WHY.......were you not Exploring your Fantasy of being Nude......when you were in your Teens......or......WAY....."BEFORE"......you ever put that Ring on her Finger?
Once they Marry you.....as we all know.......it is DONE........it is Over.....as far as you trying to get them.....to do anything FUN and Exciting...with "YOU" or FOR YOU!
My point is.......most of these profiles are total Bull Shit.......as the majority of them....are just Older Guys....."Pretending" to be a Couple or some High School Kid.....Jerking off to his Fantasies......as most of you are presently doing..
No one ever talks about the Beaches or the Resorts that we should all be going to.....BUT.....they sure want to talk about Hard Ons and the Plaque of all of these Sexualized Males.....and WHY won't my wife join me in my Fantasy?
Its just pretty entertaining, to see all of you Experts on each and every Topic......just BITE.....each and every time.....to some "FAKE" "WANNABE" Old Guy or some High School Kid......Pretending to be a Couple....asking these Immature / Hard On Driven questions.......that we "ALL" ......found out the answers to .....on our own!
Being a Nudist, does not require having an Instruction Book included with it, or having some Experts...Hold your hand and lead you through the process.
Its pretty F&#king Simple people......You get FRIGGING NAKED!!!
How hard is that to do?
IF.....in your wildest dreams......some one ever suggests something, that you are not interested in.....just Two Simple words........F$@K OFF......works each and every time!
If Two .....16 year old kids can Figure it out.....I am sure....that some Old F#&Ks should have no issues at all.....unless......you have been living underneath a rock, for your entire lives?
Is there a Sexual side to Nudism?
F%#K YES!!!!
Is there a Sexual side to the Office?
F#@K YES!!!!!!
Is there a Sexual side to the USA Females Gymnastics Team?
F#@K YES!
Is there a Sexual side to the CBS News Room and Head Office?
Obviously.....that is also a HUGE YES!!!!!!
Just ask their CEO! LOL
Should there be a Sexual Side to any of the above?
The obvious answer would be a Big NO......BUT....you know what Folks.....There is.....soooo Deal with it!
Any one involved in any situation that they are not comfortable with......jus use Two Simple Words!
F#@K OFF!
What else is there to debate about this Topic?
Absolutely Nothing!
We all agree.......that a Sexual Side......does exist in Nudism.
But.....judging from most of your pictures.....on here.......NONE of YOU......will ever ever ever have to concern yourselves, about ever being Hit on by some Sexualized male. lol
It will only ever take place, in your own Sexually deprived Older Husbands mind, or in the mind of the 14 year old High School Kids......who are all "Pretending" to be a couple, on this site.
Hope that is the End, of this BS ....Fantasy discussion.










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Is there a place for correct grammar and spelling in naturism?

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Is there a place for correct grammar and spelling in naturism?

If ther issant, ther shud be. I carnt stand bad gramer. I allwase make shoor my spellin is carect.

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Naturism?
You have to be kidding me?
SteveLorna???
Interesting way, to write your names.
Now?....is that proper grammar?
The English language has evolved over the years, where as....looking at your pictures, the only thing that has evolved in your case, is your waist size.
Not trying to be mean.....but....Is that not True?
How about for once, you just try to attempt to use your eyes, and try really really hard to read the BIG WORDS.....I do know, that it is not in crayon and it does not come with pictures, but....I am sure that even you, can comprehend what the poorly written words might actually mean.
Being that you are obviously a Rhodes scholar and a literary genius all rolled into one, I am sure that you also know, that both Chaucer and Shakespeare were both criticized at various times for using very poor grammar and poor spelling.
Shakespeare suggested that people let their ears be their guide, and if someone was speaking or writing in an heretic manner, they just might take the time.... to think about what is being written, and try to absorb it....rather than try to judge its composition and its meaning.
Shakespeare said, that it is only the words that matter, not the way that those words were constructed or composed.
Do you actually hear anyone these days, saying things like.... "To Be...or Not to Be"? LOL
Once again, being a student of the literary greats, you would already know that.....as you are the same exact expert.... on each and every topic that pops up on this Forum, time after time.
Do tell us, Mr Expert.....What do you know about, Exercise or Weight Loss.....or living a Healthy Lifestyle?
For some reason, I get the very distinct feeling, that is just one of many subjects and topics that you have absolutely No Knowledge in.....at all.
Why not ask yourself, this question?.....Is there a Healthy Side.... to Nudism or Naturism?
Is it possible for Nudists to put down the fork, and spend a lot less time at the Dinner table, and a lot more time in the Gym?
Is that possible in Naturism?
Gee.....I hope that you were able to understand the point?
It's not in Crayon, and there are no pictures for you to look at,...but....just have a look at your own pictures....and you might want to get yourself, a Gym membership, for your own well being.
Keeping oneself....Healthy and FIT and IN SHAPE, is sooooo much more important than ever placing a comma or a capitalization in the correct spot, in accordance with your own world of grammar.
The English language, as you once knew it, has changed drastically.
Very much like your own waist size has, over the years.
You were both able to understand, what was written previously.
What we will never ever understand is, why Nudists and Naturalists......do not take much better care of themselves and their aging bodies?
For a group of people, that enjoy spending their time, being naked and being naked in the presence of other people, you would think....that they would be spending the majority of their time, in the Gym or at the very least .....eating Healthy and exercising in one form or another?
Seems as if proper grammar, is a lot more important to you people, than trying to look good for your own mate and for yourself, and for the other people......that have to observe you being Naked....in a public setting.
Is their not any Personal Pride, any longer.... in the way that a Nudist wants to be seen naked in public?
Yuck!
You would think.....that you would want to exercise and eat healthier in order to live a little longer, to just make sure, that your name is spelled correctly, while having them use proper grammar on your Head Stones?
If by chance, you have a problem in reading or comprehending this, I will redo it for you....in Crayon. LOL
Seriously......Is there a Healthy side to Nudism?
Is there?
The majority of Nudists, could give a rats ass, as to how they LOOK while being Naked in a Public setting.....but......just watch out.....if you happen to put a comma in the wrong spot! LOL
SteveLorna ( as if... that .....is proper grammar? lol ) you really need to get your priorities in order.
Spend a lot less time on this Forum, and a hell of a lot more time in the Gym...or is that "Jim"? lol
Its rather ironic, is it not?..... that Idiots and Morons..... used to criticize "Shakespeare", at one time. LOL



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Perhaps we should change it to HotStevieLorna.

However, back on topic, I found this on a website for a naturist hotel.

-What is a naturist? A way of life characterized by the practice of nudity, both alone and in social settings, generally in mixed gender groups. It encourages self-respect, respect for others and for the environment, embodying freedom and a unique sense of communion with nature. It is purposely non erotic and non-sexual. A Naturist philosophy asserts that the naked human body is inherently decent, and that clothing should not be worn out of shame, but for the practice of warmth, protection and of course a loving sensitivity to non-naturists.


I know this philosophy is not for everyone, but it suits us.

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Staying on Topic, SteveLorna.... the question was .....Is there a Sexual side to "Nudism"?
I do appreciate your explanation on what being a Naturist is to you two, and that is great....if you can truly follow that Lifestyle.
I would think of Naturists, as being a very Mellow and being very Loving people, who would never go out of their way, to be throwing stones, just due to them, accepting others for their own views or for their own writing styles? lol
I'm sure that you guys, are very nice people, for the most part.
There appears to be a big difference, between being a Naturists and a Nudist?
The two Lifestyles, are separated by their Philosophies?
The North American Nudist, is more of a Free Spirit....and just enjoys being Nude....when ever appropriate to do so.
Where as a Naturist, lives by a more "Tree Hugging" Philosophy....where they are all about "Saving the World"....."Acceptance of others" ( Man.....you guys have shown, that is definitely not True! LOL ), and all of that other '60's Hippy Style of Living and Thinking.
The North American Nudist, is a lot more "Open Minded", and a lot more "Free Thinking"......than a European "Righteous" Naturist is, while they are pretending to be Living in accordance with some "Philosophy".
Being Naked , does not require a Philosophy to live by, or a set of Rules to be adhered to...any more than wearing Clothes does.
The question, is regarding SEX and Sexual Attraction while being Naked.....while being a Nudist.
This Forum is not about a Philosophy being adopted by a few "Old School" "Naturists".
The question is about , do "Nudists" have a Sexual side to themselves?
Living by a Philosophy?......really sounds a little Boring and sooooooooo controlling, in so many ways.
May be?... that is really the difference, between people that enjoy being Nude at the Nude Beaches and enjoy being Nude at the Nude Resorts....as there is no "Philosophy" required to partake in the Sun or the Fun of being naked in the sun.
So....may be the question should have been.....Who would be more inclined to have a Sexual side to them.....a Nudist or a Naturists?
Sounds as if, the North American Nudists..... would be having a lot more FUN! LOL
Yet....If the "Truth" were really known.....I am sure, that the "Hypocritical" "Righteous" Naturists.....would be having the exact same Fun, or even more of it.
Who would have ever guessed, that the "Righteous" Catholic Priests........would have ever been indulging in their own brand of Fun?
Correct me if I am wrong here,....but....don't the Catholic Priests ....Live by a very strict "Philosophy" as well?
YES......There is a Sexual side to "LIFE"....which would include having a Sexual Side to the Nudists and the Naturists and to the Textiles.
Having a Sexual Side, and having OPEN SEX in Public.....is not the same thing people...yet.....everyone just naturally thinks......that is what goes on.....NON Stop .....amongst Nudists.
That just NEVER EVER Happens.

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I think it's as sexual as if a muslim, used to see women with burka, suddenly was put on a street of women without it.

(No offence to Islam intended)

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