A first date nude. Yes. It had to be one of the most outgoing, bold, brave, exciting and cool things I have ever done. I was on a free dating site, you know the fish site, met a woman with one email. We decided to Skype. We Skyped. My Skype user name is my full real name, so there's no hiding who I am when I decide to Skype. We were talking on video Skype, and I was answering a question, what do I like to do on weekends. I answered that I like to go to a private club that is has a lake. I mentioned the name of the club. She multi-tasked, googled, found the website, and in about a minute she said, "I'd love to go there. I have dreamed since I was a child of swimming naked in a lake". "OK" I said. Unbeknownst to me, she also looked me up and read about the club's family orientation. So we arranged to meet at my home and travel the 30 miles to the private club. She made a snap decision to ride in my car. As we traveled for 45 minutes we talked about pleasantries, getting to know each other. Then we arrived, I opened the gate, drove in and parked. THE moment arrived where people take their clothes off at their car. Though I was a somewhat comfortable nudist, with other nudists, she had never been socially nude. So my heart was pounding as I repeated my normal weekly routine of taking off my clothes and hanging them inside the car. She did the same, as we continued to talk about pleasantries. I felt like she was paying close attention to folding her clothes to displace her nervousness. So I suggested we first take a walking tour around the lake and grounds. I turned and started walking so she'd be behind me, giving her a little space and comfort zone cover. We talked and walked. After awhile we both felt more comfortable and sat down by the lake, continuing to talk, glance at each other, and sit talk. Before long she we entered the lake to swim. We came out, ate lunch, and continued our day sitting on lounges by the lake. We traveled home at the end of the day and parted in front of my house. Two weeks later we repeated the same all day trip naked at the nudist club. It was absolutely the most interesting two dates with this woman that I have ever had. There was no hiding who we were, and we talked about some of the most deep topics. Just at that point however both of our lives were taking different directions and so we never proceeded beyond the second day. After this day, being or becoming a nudist woman is absolutely a requirement for me.
I take picesGuy1961's comment as the woman being a nudist is an absolute requirement for him as a partner.
I can relate to his story somewhat from when I first started dating my ex-girlfriend. In the process of getting to know each other I hadn't yet brought up the nudist topic and I can't remember if we'd even been intimate yet. I must admit I had some trepidation at this subject, what if she thought it was unacceptable to her or she found it morally repulsive? After we'd been dating awhile I mentioned there was a swim I could attend that Saturday night. She must have had good intuition or I was just cagey enough about it that later she said she thought it was a nude swim. I can't remember if it was that particular time or the next month, but she attended the swim with me. It was her first time with social nudity and she took to it like a champ. She not only went completely nude but Clothes Free International was at the swim and she posed for a group photo which ended un on the CFI website. Later she went camping a few times with me at my favorite nudist retreat and enjoyed it immensely. Too bad it didn't work out, I should have hung on to her tooth and nail because finding a mate like that is tough and there's not a day that goes by I don't miss that. So for that reason I think I interpreted picesGuy1961's comment correctly as he would only accept a nudist woman as a prospective mate and I can identify with that statement. Once you have the mate that will enjoy the nudist lifestyle with you that sets the bar higher. I just hope she can still enjoy with her now husband.
You got it Barecycler! Once you have a woman, or two in my case, that have body issues and won't become nudists, and then you date a woman who took to it naturally, the mate-requirement bar has been raised. Body image has dramatic attitude effects that spread over into the 'bedroom', which completely affects your intimate relationship. A positive self-image is critical to being able to share yourself with your mate. She must be or be willing to try and become, a nudist and hang out at the family friendly nudist club and/or beaches. . . . .I am not asking for swinging, swapping or other wilder lifestyles.
My first REAL date with my wife was at a nude beach, but we had been friends for 2 yrs prior to dating and she knew that I was a nudist and she was nude curious so when we decided to start dating HER first date location was going to a nude beach because she wanted to try it before we got serious and was accepting me seeing her nude as a friend as well s a date before we were intimate
About four weeks ago I met a woman through a paid dating site. I was going out of town to a naturist resort that weekend and she wanted to meet so we got together at a bar for a drink after work. We talked about various things until the conversation led to what I was doing that weekend. Instead of getting in a jam I was honest. It was a resort in the middle of nowhere and that it was a naturist resort. She had the surprised look on her face but didn't bolt out the door and was still there when I came back from the bathroom. She had a lot of the usual questions. We talked and met when I came back. I had told her I didn't expect a woman to join me in this but to understand it was who I am and my intent to continue as a naturist. Two weeks later I was heading back to the same resort and she decided she wanted to give it a try. It was a huge success and she loved every minute. We made many new friends and went to a different resort last weekend. We have plans again for the next two weekends before our busy lives take over. Sometimes honesty is the best policy.