The last line refers to any woman which I date must be a nudist, or be willing to become a nudist.....
Yes I feel the same way. There's nothing like having a nudist spouse. They share your love of freedom the lifestyle brings and it's yet another thing to have in common :)
A good few years ago I used to be on a non nudist forum, I'd been chatting to girl who had recently moved into the same town as me. We'd spoken quite a lot in the space of a few days. I can't fully remember the conversation but it lead to us both saying that we are nudists. She also said she'd done a lot of nude modelling, photo's and life modelling. On the Friday night a few days later I had a message asking if I was free and wanted to meet in town for a few drinks as she was bored and stuck in as she didn't know many people locally. It was obviously a clothed meet this time meeting in a bar in town. I was lost for words as the door of the bar opened and she walked in. It was Winter and miserable outside and what she was wearing would have been more suitable for a red hot day by a pool. She clearly didn't mind showing her body off and could see why she'd done nude modelling. She was obviously very confident about her body and had on the shortest of skirts and a belly top that more resembled a bikini top. The night went great until she'd had one too many drinks and really started to grate on me. We'd gone to a club and with what she was wearing she was getting a lot of attention and I'd started to feel like a spare part. I ended the night there and thought that was the end of that. A few days later she messaged me apologising and invited me for an evening at her house, a film and a few drinks and nude if I wanted. I wasn't sure but thought I might as well as she was great to get on before she had too many drinks. I arrived at the house and all seemed good, she was a lot more confident than me and soon undressed. We spent the night chatting and got on well as friends, even though she was attractive I just didn't feel any sort of spark. It was now late and I had work early the following morning, each time I tried to leave she persuaded me to stay a bit longer. I'd begun to realise she had other things on her mind. We was sat on her sofa watching a film, she'd been lead against me quite innocently for a while but then this turned more into a cuddle with a bit too much touching. I said I really had to go which is when she asked me to stay the night and didn't give me an option as she planted her lips on mine. If I'd have stayed it would have been purely for sex as I still felt no attraction to her apart from physically. I apologised and said that I really needed to go, I also felt if I'd have stayed it would have been leading her on falsely and made things awkward. I would have rather kept her as a nude friend to meet up with. I did meet up with again for drinks in town quite a few times but nothing ever happened. If I was a bit older and wiser I might have tried harder and realised nudists are hard to come by and especially a very attractive one.
Sound like she thinks nudity means sex or work and not we think it is.
on the 1st date i told her that i was a nudist , she asked a lot of questions and i gave honest answers , a week later she came to my house to spend the day , i met her fully dressed and after a few minutes of talking she said " i thought you were a nudist ? " i said i am but i never want to shock or offend anyone , she looked at me and said "its your house do what you normally do " so off came the clothes , a few minutes later she took off her top and we stayed that way the rest of the day , a week later we went to a clothing optional hot springs where she went fully nude for the 1st time
we have been together ever since ........you gotta be honest right up front , other wise it won't work !!!
This is the reason Im on here, my last partner could not get her head around being a nudist or me being a nudist, and while she was no prude at home often walking around naked, the idea horrified her doing it in public, she did have body issues, in that she had small breast, which I really liked, but she was never going to go nude in public, but begrudgingly said I could do it, but the more I did it, the more she got bitter about it, until in the end she said it was nudism or me, well if I had never done it ,I could have given it a miss, but once I had been doing it for a couple of years, and met some great people, it was hard to give up, that and a few other things eventually broke us up, so yes I really do want my next partner to be a nudist
Back in June I met a new girl checking out my nudist group at a clothed picnic in a public park. We hit it off and talked for hours, then went to her place to get naked and have sex. We had already discussed our sexual fantasies. You can see her pictures on my profile if I accept you as a friend. A couple days later we decided to drive to some nude hot springs in Colorado for a day. Much of the drive we were naked as it was dark. We spend most of the day naked. Then we drove back. Sadly we didn't have much interest other than sex, so we weren't right for each other. I'm dating someone who only allows bedroom nudity now. Plus, it's cold out now. But I'm happier!
Has anyone gone on a first or second date naked? I'm not talking about deciding to have sex. I'm talking just about getting to know a fellow nudist with the hope of establishing a relationship. If so, tell us about the experience.
If nudists are socializing I go nude.