Having been into Naturism since 1960, when quite young, the problem of an unwanted and unexpected erection was the worst thing that could possibly happen. The blind panic and flying leap into the swimming pool was for others a source of benign humour. I once witnessed such in a textile swimming pool! The poor fellow, thirty-ish, just dived in. As a spectator, my bemused interest barely lasted a moment.
The rest of the time nudity is quite boring and was not, for me, the answer to life's existential problem. For this reason I left this otherwise quite wonderful family friendly comunity for Buddhism.
Having returned to the fold some fifty years later, the naked unadorned body remains inherently boring.
The joy of Naturist fellowship arises from the eye contact that completely forgets the whole issue within the sunshine and fresh air of the great outdoors that is a well run SUN club.
If we're honest we have to admit that sexual attraction is involuntary. Nudity just shows "the whole package" and there's nothing wrong with admiring a nice physique. Clothed or unclothed, the problem occurs when unwanted sexual advances are happening. A male friend of mine won't go to nude beaches because he gets an erection at the site of a nude female. I have had that happen as well and spent a fair amount of time sunning my backside. Anymore, I rarely visit public nude beaches and prefer to find isolated places where no one is around to gawk at me. I find the sun itself to be sexually stimulating and don't have to be embarrassed or ashamed of a natural response when no one's around to see it.
In circumstances like this it is usually best to speak for yourself. I have been a part of the nudist community for over a decade and I dont have involuntary sexual. I see attractive women all the time and have had relationships with some but never have involuntary sexual attraction. I practice control of my gaze and behave like an adult should whether I have clothes on our not.If we're honest we have to admit that sexual attraction is involuntary.
If we're honest we have to admit that sexual attraction is involuntary. Nudity just shows "the whole package" and there's nothing wrong with admiring a nice physique. Clothed or unclothed, the problem occurs when unwanted sexual advances are happening. A male friend of mine won't go to nude beaches because he gets an erection at the site of a nude female. I have had that happen as well and spent a fair amount of time sunning my backside. Anymore, I rarely visit public nude beaches and prefer to find isolated places where no one is around to gawk at me. I find the sun itself to be sexually stimulating and don't have to be embarrassed or ashamed of a natural response when no one's around to see it.
Do you have to lay on your belly in the cinema when an attractive actress is on screen?
That must be so debilitating.
Im joking of course and if just being nude in the sun stimulates you sexually youve made the correct choice of only doing it solo. Too many guys here think its their right to impose themselves in a crowd.
Im attracted to a lot of women, (yes even when they have clothes on) but I never need to turn my back on any of them because Im a grown man with self control.
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