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Homophobia on TN

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How do you report a homophobic attack on this site?

User mrcordova has messaged me out of the blue "FUCK OFF FAGGOT ASSHOLE!" and has blocked me so can not flag him

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like most things on the internet, this website is an Enterprise - money talks and while free users add value for sure - by providing numbers the paying customers are King. I wonder what would happen if we called him a Breeder bitch cunt -- or something that rolls off the tongue better

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In America, everyone is innocent until proven guilty.

I looked at the profile for mrcordova.

It says he is interested in: "single females and straight married couples."

His friends are mostly young women and a few married couples. including one with a self claimed bi male. His focus is on friends and groups that are young female focused is kind of creepy for a 66 year old man.

I find no evidence to back up the claim that out of the blue, mrcordova would post such a thing.

I also find it hard to understand how a 66 year old man who likes to befriend naked women would suddenly message a 37 year old male unless he is married to a woman.

If the original post has been saved and that can be shared, we would have an artifact to back up the claim of the offensive post.

In conclusion, I can believe that mrcordova may be a 66 nude year old man trying to befriend nudist women. I find that creepy. However, I doubt he posted anything out of the blue as is being claimed by liverpoolrugby.

I would not block him unless there is more evidence to back up the claim.

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Outrage Culture? The guy called Liverpool a faggot. I know Liverpool from real life. He wouldn't make that up. Hate to tell you, but calling out someone for menacing hate speech isn't "outrage culture".

It's human decency culture.

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Globally;

4 months ago, Liverpoolrugby claimed that: "User mrcordova has messaged me out of the blue "FUCK OFF FAGGOT ASSHOLE!" and has blocked me so can not flag him".

3 months ago, I raised the question as to whether or not there is any evidence to back up his claim.

Yesterday, you claimed: "Outrage Culture? The guy called Liverpool a faggot. I know Liverpool from real life. He wouldn't make that up. Hate to tell you, but calling out someone for menacing hate speech isn't "outrage culture."

Once again, someone is making incindary accusatory claims with no other evidence.There are times when people do say or post hateful things.

However, as I have said before, I am an American and the burdeon of proof on a claim is generally on the claimant.The weakest claim In American Law is the preponderance of evidenc: "In legal terms, a preponderance of evidence means that a party has shown that its version of facts, causes, damages, or fault is more likely than not the correct version, as in personal injury and breach of contract suits. This standard is the easiest to meet and applies to all civil cases unless otherwise provided by law." https://courts.uslegal.com/burden-of-proof/preponderance-of-the-evidence/.

Your claim after 4 months that we should believe someone's claim that someone else said something, when we have no evidence the person said it is not evidence in any fashion and fails that test.

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I found his profile. He didn't send me a nasty message but he did block me. I can't say I am upset about that.

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During my time on this site I found that the chat room has high levels of homophobia. I was banned once for saying a user "nice pic" when he shared one on the room, and another user questioned me because I was saying something nice to a pic with no visible face, he then assumed I was just "looking for dick pics", and my response was a witty yet innocuous "no, I enter this site just for the articles". And just like that I was kicked out of the room.

However, you can read for straight males incessantly complaining that there are not enough woman on the chat room and it's "all dick". So it's ok for a straight male to ask to see pictures of nude girls, however it's not ok if a gay male compliments another user who shows his body but not his face. The chat room is filled with these kind of double standards and it's in general an awful place full of agressive users, wish we could have several rooms instead of just one general room.

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