Showering With Friends
For guys who like bathing with their buds. Taking a shower with friends.
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Showering with a dear friend in an open shower room is very nice. I enjoy immensely taking that experience up a notch. When I was still living in Chelsea, MA each Sunday morning that I could manage I would go to Dillon's Russian Steam Bath. There were some really close friends who would also arrive on Sunday mornings. A huge pleasure of mine was to be able, after a long moment of relaxing and sweating in the steam room, to wash a friend as he stood in front of me with my body soap and wash cloth lathering up his entire body. Maybe I have a drop of servile nature in my blood, but it's possibly a version of a simple massage which I've always enjoyed sharing with a friend. I know it was relaxing to my friend and giving him pleasure was also allowing me my own simple enjoyment of bathing with a friend.
A couple of years ago a nudist friend from the UK was on a business visit to Mumbai and and we both decided to go go for an Ayurvedic massage . The massage makes use of generous amounts of aromatic oils used from head to toe during the procedure and then washed off by the masseur. Unfortunately that day there was a water shortage in the locality as a water pipe had burst and was undergoing repairs and so what we got as a scrub down was just a lick and a promise which still left us oily and sticky! Returning to the hotel where my friend was staying We were advised at the reception to go sparingly on the use of water as there was a problem in the locality. We definitely needed to shower as we were going out to dinner and could not bear the smell of the oil or the stickiness lingering on us. So we decided to bathe together. We each immersed ourselves into a hot bubble bath for a while and what followed was the sensuousness of a shared shower! Scrubbing the oil of each other's backs and legs set the stage for a hands all over coverage and innovative ways of using the adjustable hand shower for a tingling and invigorating experience, far better than the massage itself! :)
Met up with a friend from on here. He had booked a hotel room and we went up to relax. Both of us really wanted to shower and since we are both of a similar era we did so together - WONDERFUL experience
I'm surprised that Dillons didn't have an issue with the male to male contact
It depends on what type of male to male contact. We give each other traditional Russian platzas there with bundles of birch or oak leaves (veniks) soaked in hot water. One male as the recipient is naked, lying down on an upper bench, while another male, as the giver is frequently nude or sometimes in a towel. The giver rubs, scrubs and literally beats the body of the recipient with the wet leaf bundles. It exfoliates and forces the heat into the outer layer of skin. Since the sauna heat is so intense the added heat from the wet soaked leaves and the friction from the scrubbing and the rapid beating from the leaf venik is highly stimulating. Your whole body comes alive. Then a quick run out of the heat and a cold douse of water out at the showers is also intense. Since, on the days I go it's a very Russian culture in there there is no extra water or soap inside the sauna room and arguments ensue if anyone uses soap in there. In years past they had a man who did a combination Turkish hammam and Americanized version of all this. He'd been doing it for 50 years. He gave soapy warm water sponge baths followed by warm soapy leaf scrubs in the sauna. He kept the temp lower and it was very pleasurable and soothing. He gave multiple rubdowns like that for a couple of hours, and then he would leave and they would hose out the soap, air out the sauna, crank up the heat and the Russians took over. But that man is gone now, and although there are some times during the week when guys do the soapy scrubs, it doesn't happen when the Russian men are keeping it authentic. I have seen guys washing other guys in the showers, but each time it looked like one friend was just helping another friend out. A couple were elderly, one was in a plastic chair and one time it was a dad giving his son a bath because he had a cast on his leg. I did see a male washing another that looked like it was just a pleasure thing and it was lighthearted, but I go all the time and that was a rare isolated sight. It is very true that no sexual contact is encouraged or allowed and in fact it is heavily discouraged and dealt with immediately. I have had many hour long massages there but, at least with the guys who gave me my massages nothing sexual happened or implied. There are other guys I've never gotten massages from and I cant speak to experiences with them.
I have a friend who was showering with me some time ago. We were not ashamed of being naked together. It was very good! We are still friends, but unfortunately something like that never happened again.