Christian Naturists
Christian Naturists is a group for those who put Jesus Christ as first and foremost in their life.
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Friendship with woman
Return to DiscussionsHello everyone,
I'm married for over 30 years. I love my wife, but I also love the
nudity on the beach, in the sauna, in nature. I could enjoy much
better if my wife would join. But for she it's nothing. Her faith
dosn't allowedH it. I am also a Christian and lived in nudity while
my youth until I know learned my wife and recognized it to be
wrong. Some years ago however I'm returned to FKK. Now I have to do
this alone. I'd have liked the community of a woman. I love it
more, me to converse with a woman than with a man. Men were already
intrusive. My wife wouldn't understand if I would be with another
woman naked on the beach, et cetera (Nudic Walking ...).
What do you think about it. I want to be never unfaithful my wife.
But I would like support at the nudity. But it is often so
lonely.
What do you think about it. I want to be never unfaithful my wife.But I would like support at the nudity. But it is often solonely.
Hubby and I have many friends of the opposite sex at our club and there is never anything wrong going on. They are just people we know and associate with.
Do not try to over analyze things. Simply associating with a nude woman does not make you unfaithful. Enjoy life. If you know of a woman who will attend a nude beach with you just talk briefly to your wife, let her know up front what's going on and remind her that its all on the up and up.
Agree with California that you should not over analyze it. If you know of a woman that will go to a nude beach with you maybe you can introduce her to your wife so that she will know who you are going with and feel comfortable about the two of you spending time together at the nude beach as friends.
Thanks for your answers. Too bad I didn't get more answers. I
should probably assume that the others also think so and therefore
are no other answers.
Unfortunately, it is not so simple. I had already spoken (mandatory) with my
wife. She said only, that they wouldn't find it beautiful. Now I'm
in a bad position.
Do not try to over analyze things. Simply associating with a nude woman does not make you unfaithful. Enjoy life. If you know of a woman who will attend a nude beach with you just talk briefly to your wife, let her know up front what's going on and remind her that its all on the up and up.
Great wisdom there. However, overcoming cultural conditioning, both on one's own part and on the part of one's spouse is difficult. I daren't even step out on the back porch when my wife, Mary, is home, lest another cast iron skillet is cracked on my hard head. (And those things get expensive!)
Thus the advantage of meeting, dating, and marrying another nudist, rather than getting into the game after turning the ripe old age of 60...
I'll add my six pennorth. My wife and I have been naturists for twenty years (married for 52 years) but now she's more of a retired nudist. However like you I get on well with women - as friends - and she is supportive. She understands that naturist does not equate to sex maniac, though unfortunately many people don't understand this. (I am a little surprised that it should be problem for you. I tend to believe that Germans are very tolerant and relaxed about nudity - for example isn't it true that it's in order to strip off and sunbathe in many of your public parks?)
We're both Christians and see no conflict with nudity. I have a number of female naturist friends. One in particular is single and appreciates the company of a safe companion at naturist places. She wouldn't feel comfortable going alone.
What do you think about it. I want to be never unfaithful my wife.But I would like support at the nudity. But it is often solonely.
There's no way you can force your wife to understand a platonic relationship with another woman. She will have to come to that realization on her own.
As a nudist I have showered with hundreds of women, played water volleyball, conversed and even hiked in the hills with a few women not my spouse. I enjoyed their company and enjoyed viewing them, but nothing of a suspicious nature ever went on.
Your wife will have to overcome her insecurities allow you some pleasure on her own as you will eventually have to reciprocate by allowing her to do some things she could not normally do.
I'll put my two cents worth in (as that may be the value you appraise it). Nude or textile, having a friendship with a woman outside of your marriage is a recipe for disaster. Transference of feelings almost always happens which more than often leads to sexual sin. I am sorry, but I have seen a lot of good men fall because of this issue. Do not join them.
Don
Let's check if I've understood Nytehawk's opinion correctly: "A man's only permissible friends are his wife and other men." (OK I'll assume that his mother and sisters are permitted.)
If I've misunderstood then I shall apologise. If not then I must disagree.
Keith
Let's check if I've understood Nytehawk's opinion correctly: "A man's only permissible friends are his wife and other men." (OK I'll assume that his mother and sisters are permitted.)Keith
Is that a Christian Biblical belief, Muslim or what?