I Am The Only Nudist In My Family
This is a group for a nudist who is the only nudist in his/her family.
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When was the last time your parents saw you nude?
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It was in the late 80s; I was in my 30s. I was a member of a men's athletic club. They had a massage therapist. I bought my dad a massage as a birthday gift. I drove him there and left him at the reception counter. I went to the locker room, stripped, and got into the hot tub. He showed up a few minutes later -- stripped to his boxers. The massage therapist had told him to go relax in the hot tub before his massage. I was a bit surprised that my dad left his boxers on. I was nude, but he wasn't. In fact, I've never seen my dad nude.
Mother:
1996. My wife had just died -- as in a day or two earlier. Mom was staying with me and kids for a while. I've slept nude since I was 10 or 12 and I don't close my bedroom door. My mom, standing at my bedroom door, wakes me up in the middle of the night. Says she needs to go to the emergency room. I get out of bed and come over to her to find out what's going on. A lot of abdominal pain but clearly not a heart attack. I pull jeans and t-shirt on and take her to the hospital. After I got dressed, she said she didn't like that I didn't get dressed before I came over to her. I said, "Mom, it's nothing you haven't seen before." "That was a long time ago, you were a baby." "So, it's bigger now. Whatever."
When was the last time your parents saw you nude?
Father:I was in the late 80s; I was in my 30s. I was a member of a men's athletic club. They had a massage therapist. I bought my dad a massage as a birthday gift. I drove him there and left him at the reception counter. I went to the locker room, stripped, and got into the hot tub. He showed up a few minutes later -- stripped to his boxers. The massage therapist had told him to go relax in the hot tub before his massage. I was a bit surprised that my dad left his boxers on. I was nude, but he wasn't. In fact, I've never seen my dad nude.Mother:1996. My wife had just died -- as in a day or two earlier. Mom was staying with me and kids for a while. I've slept nude since I was 10 or 12 and I don't close my bedroom door. My mom, standing at my bedroom door, wakes me up in the middle of the night. Says she needs to go to the emergency room. I get out of bed and come over to her to find out what's going on. A lot of abdominal pain but clearly not a heart attack. I pull jeans and t-shirt on and take her to the hospital. After I got dressed, she said she didn't like that I didn't get dressed before I came over to her. I said, "Mom, it's nothing you haven't seen before." "That was a long time ago, you were a baby." "So, it's bigger now. Whatever."When was the last time your parents saw you nude?
My dad died when I was 13 months old, so best guess, I was 11 months old ( he spent the last two months of his life hospitalized). I lived with my mom for the last two years of her life, thought I kept nudity to my bedroom, she saw me on several occasions tracking from the bedroom to the bathroom. I was 61 when she died.
Father:I was in the late 80s; I was in my 30s. I was a member of a men's athletic club. They had a massage therapist. I bought my dad a massage as a birthday gift. I drove him there and left him at the reception counter. I went to the locker room, stripped, and got into the hot tub. He showed up a few minutes later -- stripped to his boxers. The massage therapist had told him to go relax in the hot tub before his massage. I was a bit surprised that my dad left his boxers on. I was nude, but he wasn't. In fact, I've never seen my dad nude.Mother:1996. My wife had just died -- as in a day or two earlier. Mom was staying with me and kids for a while. I've slept nude since I was 10 or 12 and I don't close my bedroom door. My mom, standing at my bedroom door, wakes me up in the middle of the night. Says she needs to go to the emergency room. I get out of bed and come over to her to find out what's going on. A lot of abdominal pain but clearly not a heart attack. I pull jeans and t-shirt on and take her to the hospital. After I got dressed, she said she didn't like that I didn't get dressed before I came over to her. I said, "Mom, it's nothing you haven't seen before." "That was a long time ago, you were a baby." "So, it's bigger now. Whatever."When was the last time your parents saw you nude?
My dad died when I was 13 months old, so best guess, I was 11 months old ( he spent the last two months of his life hospitalized). I lived with my mom for the last two years of her life, thought I kept nudity to my bedroom, she saw me on several occasions tracking from the bedroom to the bathroom. I was 61 when she died.
Father:I was in the late 80s; I was in my 30s. I was a member of a men's athletic club. They had a massage therapist. I bought my dad a massage as a birthday gift. I drove him there and left him at the reception counter. I went to the locker room, stripped, and got into the hot tub. He showed up a few minutes later -- stripped to his boxers. The massage therapist had told him to go relax in the hot tub before his massage. I was a bit surprised that my dad left his boxers on. I was nude, but he wasn't. In fact, I've never seen my dad nude.Mother:1996. My wife had just died -- as in a day or two earlier. Mom was staying with me and kids for a while. I've slept nude since I was 10 or 12 and I don't close my bedroom door. My mom, standing at my bedroom door, wakes me up in the middle of the night. Says she needs to go to the emergency room. I get out of bed and come over to her to find out what's going on. A lot of abdominal pain but clearly not a heart attack. I pull jeans and t-shirt on and take her to the hospital. After I got dressed, she said she didn't like that I didn't get dressed before I came over to her. I said, "Mom, it's nothing you haven't seen before." "That was a long time ago, you were a baby." "So, it's bigger now. Whatever."When was the last time your parents saw you nude?My dad died when I was 13 months old, so best guess, I was 11 months old ( he spent the last two months of his life hospitalized). I lived with my mom for the last two years of her life, thought I kept nudity to my bedroom, she saw me on several occasions tracking from the bedroom to the bathroom. I was 61 when she died.
Did you have a stepfather at any point?
Father:
August 1985 at Lake Powel.
This was the first time just the two of us had a chance to get away.
We spent three days and two night cruising the lake on a rented boat.
Unlike the first night beached in an area with about a dozen other boats the second night we were at a small beach area with no other boaters nearby.
That third morning we decided to have a swim before breakfast.
This was before anyone in the family knew I was a nudist.
Even though I had been going to C/O beaches and hiking nude for years I was still nervous about letting my father know how I preferred to be nude.
At first I pretended to be looking for my bathing suit but stopped and asked my father if he would not mind if I simply swam nude.
He looked a little puzzled but said it was fine with him.
I was hoping he would join me nude but instead moved to the other side of the boat to put on his bathing suit.
It was after swimming that I told my father how I liked to be nude and that I would prefer to stay nude while having breakfast.
He said if that is what I wanted to do he was fine with it.
After breakfast I did put on my bathing suit and was not nude with him for the rest of the trip.
We did not talk that much about my nudity and I did not push it at the time assuming we would have other times to talk about it.
Unfortunately it was less than a month later when he was diagnosed with lung cancer and he passed away the following June.
I never did see my father nude.
Mother:
This morning while watching TV after my two sisters who also live here helping to take care of our mother left to get some groceries.
It was a few months after my father passed that I made a point of letting everyone in the family know that I was a nudist.
Even though all of them at that time said they would prefer that I not be nude around them, they had no problem with the fact that I liked to be nude.
Since then one of my five sisters and my mother have seen me nude many times and are fine with it but my other four sisters still are not comfortable seeing me nude.
My mother hasn't seen me naked since she stopped giving me baths, to the best of my knowledge. The last time my father saw me naked I was 17. I had been sleeping naked since I was 15(my brother and I shared a room and he had graduated and moved out). I fell asleep on top of my blanket one night when it was hot, dad decided to pop his head in before bed and found me naked. He absolutely lost it the next day when he brought it up, accused me of being gay...because apparently sleeping naked dictates one's sexuality.
Whoa, my condolences on your dad. His attitude is so not rooted in knowledge. Wow. Scary where the human mind can go when uncorrected by others. Having a "corrective conversation" with him might be a nuclear-explosive event.