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I wish my labia was bigger. I love to spread out and relax on the beach for comfort. I have very small lips and a very big clitoris. I often wonder if people think Im sexually aroused , as I often notice people stare down at me. Would they think,Im trying to be prevented or just taking a peek as they stroll by?
Like you, I'm made like a Barbie down there. But it seems most men prefer smaller inner labia which are only visible when really spreading out. I never really spread on beaches so there is not a whole lot to see and still, when I'm naked most men have a good look at my breasts and down there. Let's be frank: our boobs and pussies are supposed to be sexually attractive and they are hidden most of the time so hetero men will look when given the opportunity. This does not mean that they instantly have sexual thoughts, it's just natural. My eyes may be attracted by a flying bird and this does not mean that I want to hunt it or by a passing by penis or pussy and this does not mean I want to have sex with the owner.
having a look at the genitals of others is part of social nudism. We take the initiative to participate in this special interest group to see, and be seen. Giving each other permission to vew the wonderful variety of types of human bodies, is an important aspect of nudism. I'd sure like to have a good closeup look at your big clitoris and surrounding labia. Would that acceptable under certain circumstances?
I am glad to see that this is not a serious hangup for you :-) It seems like a loosing battle to convince some people mostly women that their bodies are individuals just like their faces, made of the same basic parts, but all slightly different. Just think how boring it would be if we all looked like Ken and Barbie copies ;-) We don't have any nude friendly public places around here. When the subject of tanning comes up, I have offered friends and family the use of my private and safe backyard for an allover tan. But they are all too hung up on their own body issues to come here ;-( Even when I told then they could do it when I was away at work for the day.
The beauty of nudism is that one can be nude and be seen nude by others without having to be preoccupied with what one's body looks like, what parts of our body are visible to others, or how we react when others see us. It's so liberating to just be that way, the way nature intended. And it makes us all realize how beautiful every body is.
Giving each other permission to vew the wonderful variety of types of human bodies, is an important aspect of nudism.
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My wife falls under the "small, open lips" category. She can be simply sitting in a comfortable position and her labia minora is going to be visible. Sometimes even while just standing up if she's been swimming.
She is not so self-conscious about it because she hasn't been made to be. In other words she hasn't felt stared at or objectified at the resort, so she's comfortable.
It's fairly natural that a woman whose labia minora is clearly visible is going to get some "looks." But it's also our responsibility as nudist men to not allow our "curiosity" to make the woman uncomfortable.
I like to think of social nudity as being a "social contract." The "contract" is that we're going to accept seeing naked people; and we are going to accept being seen naked by them. But the "contract" is broken when a person feels self-conscious that their nudity is "reduced" to their labia; or any other body part.
I personally do my best to not "break the contract." Even if I'm interacting with a woman who happens to be sitting/lying with her legs open (and for a man seeing a hanging labia or labia minora clearly while chatting can be really distracting); even if she's obviously very comfortable with that (and that has happened more times than you'd think) I'm not going to bring any EVIDENT attention to it. "Nudist social contract" in full effect.
My labia are on the larger size but I would absolutely love it they were bigger. I definitely had guys on the beach staring at them even while I was next to my husband. I think I was bit shocked at first but after a while I didn't care and quite enjoyed the attention as all the ones I spoke to were very friendly.
I have news for you ladies.....men love to look at all the women have! It doesnt matter if your lips are big or small....if your clit is big or small....is your pussy open or closed.....we still like to look! Breasts....big or small....nips.....same! I can tell you from my point of view.....I love em all! And yes.....I think about them sexually too! Very natural