I'm married and definitely enjoy sharing a good bate with other men. If you're ever in NYC, you should check out NYJacks. They meet twice a week and I'd estimate at least a third of the men there (the crowd usually exceeds at least 30 men) are married.
I have been there a couple of times in March for the Sunday meeting and was a lot of fun. Very nice being naked and hard with other 30/40 men and masturbating, on your own, mutually or in small groups.
I am also a married man and dad and never stopped masturbating and always loved to JO with buddies.
I started early when I was around 10-11 with a couple of friends and when I was around 20 I started to JO with a friend with whom I have been jerking off during 8 years. Unfortunately as I moved to another city to work we stopped this bonding experience. We haven't met for year. We're both married now and our kids have same age. A few years ago we started to meet again but we only see each other once a year during summer vacations for a coffee together. Last year I recalled when we used to JO together.
I miss that very much and still like chat with other married guys about our common "interest" and also meet buddies to JO together. I travel a lot for business, Monday to Friday, and alone at my hotel. Useless to say that I jo very often, once a day minimum.
It's very difficult to meet other married man especially because it hard to host. If I can do it now it's just because I am often traveling and staying at the hotel. I joined a site (Bateworld) where JO events are organized aroung the world, especially in the US, although they are not dedicated to married men.
MM here 35 years. Started masturbating summer of age 11/12 when I made the amazing discovery. In HS was on the wrestling team and several of us would masturbate in the shower together after practice or a meet. We would also get together at one of the guys houses and have Circle jerks on weekends. Currently have several masturbation buddies. Hard to locate new guys to jack with. Is what it is.
I have been lucky to find small groups, made up of straight, gay, single, married guys who enjoy JO time with other men. It is more of a bonding experience than sexual, and provides a very intense orgasm through a male bonding experience. Body Electric classes are a good way to be introduced to male bonding and shared masterbation experiences.