Male Bonding2
For those who like to explore the concept and dynamics of male bonding. Men are socialized in different ways in different societies, and so many men would like to have close male friendships, yet after spending time establishing a career, primary relationship and live in general, find themselves without close male friends. Many of us want male friends with whom we can share openly without...
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Seeking Male bonding partner
Return to DiscussionsAs a young Nudist, both in age and experience, I dont know what happened "back in the day", only what goes on now. I for one am only want to feel the freedom of laying in the sun, and feel the breeze over my skin. All of my skin. That creates a problem sometimes, I guess because of my age and inexperience. Perhaps the fact that my member gets a bit rigid could be misinterpreted as looking for something other than just being nude and puts those of us that are younger in a bad light. But I am certainly not looking to Hook up or anything other than the freedom to roam naked. Since I am so new to nudity, I am not really sure what else there is to understand about this lifestyle yet. I am learning, but what I am learning sometimes makes me wonder. I had to read the initial post twice to believe I read it correctly. It is hard to understand why a person would post on this site that they are looking to meet with other nudists to "Bond" and be concerned that their current partner would not understand. As new as I am to nude social gatherings , relationships, and nudism as a whole, I think it is insulting, even at my age, to believe this is what nudity or this site is about. Looking for hidden meetings ? ? ? My sexual preference, at times puts me in a category of being looked down on, the fact that I chose to be smooth seems to increase the strange looks that I receive, and my choice of wanting to be nude seems like a third strike. I hope that the original post is a singular thought and not the trend in nudism today.
Rant over !!!!! Sorry
Deryck
HI guy, I agree, the word "bonding" is being given too much weight here. It can be as simple as a friendship. I know plenty of guys in relationships where their partners are so jealous of their mate making friends that it causes friction. If indeed this guy is searching for more in his post, that's another thing. No need to all jump on him and make the immediate assumption of such.