Talk Man To Man
This group has been created for the men out there who don't ask questions or speak about issues.Because men don't speak to eachorher about stuff, they don't realise that certain things is normal or not normal."Is this suppose to happen?" "Am I the only one?"Feel free to start topics, even if you're just curious about things.Woman talk to eachother all the time...
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Gay Naked Guys with Straight Naked Guys
Return to DiscussionsI believe this is very much the case.My own and very limited experience, however, suggests that gay and bi men are more likely to hang out nude with other men than are straight men. Perhaps it is a matter of hang-ups such as those I had for most of my life.
We went from a society in which men were freely nude with/among other men (who may or may not have been nude) to a society in which men are frightened about seeing nude men and being seen nude by other men.
A lot of this is simple body shame. And a good deal of it is the mistaken belief that it's "gay" for men to be nude with/among other men.
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There is a small private couple's only (male/female) nudist group in Springfield MO. They will not participate in any activity that might allow single men to participate. It's ok for men to be nude together as long as their female partners are present.
I have embraced the nudist lifestyle and when getting naked around other guys, ones orientation is not a factor of who I want to be around while naked. It is about the freedom of being naked among others that like doing the same without putting a label on them. I have been around many guys, in the steam room, sauna, a pool, on a hike, at a beach or at a resort that love being naked which shows the true person that you are with. Being a nudist is not about sex but the freedom of living life without clothes.
Ive hung out naked with gay and straight friends its all cool when you know each other. I find as a gay man, straight guys are a little wary about hanging out, but Ive had really positive experiences with nude hangs with either or both.
I guess in all my nude times with other nude males, I have never asked if they were gay or str8. I just have enjoyed spending time nude and thankful for another guy who likes to spend time the same way. Its a special bonding time with nudity and being two males or more. All on an equal field of nude body freedom. Being open with seeing each other nude also allowed for more talking on all topics. Being free to speak as another male, being free to relax, no worry about adjusting or scratching your balls without upsetting others. Spending nude times with other males just feels more relaxing and pure. If in discussions, the topic of sexual orientation comes up then so be it. Another topic that should be free to discuss and free to learn for all parties without judgement. Males of any age need times together freely nude and having open topics. That is how we can learn from each other.
To me if any straight man wants be naked around me as I am him great. I love to cam naked on skype since a majority of us live all over. Being with any good nudists is something I will always respect and appreciate. So if any straight men would ever like to cam and talk on skype let me know
Have a great day
Nudistn California
Having come across this subject again, as one of my friends posted to it, it is nice to see that regardless of our orientation, there are those that do enjoy the actual company of other men but again, this thing about using the 'gay' 'straight' 'bi' is not something that we have to say, now is it? Can we get past the label and say, hey lets just be us and enjoy the company. If you can, then from my experience, you do have the mind set that accept others for who they are not what label they are. It was nice to go back and read post to include my own.
Having come across this subject again, as one of my friends posted to it, it is nice to see that regardless of our orientation, there are those that do enjoy the actual company of other men but again, this thing about using the 'gay' 'straight' 'bi' is not something that we have to say, now is it? Can we get past the label and say, hey lets just be us and enjoy the company. If you can, then from my experience, you do have the mind set that accept others for who they are not what label they are. It was nice to go back and read post to include my own.
I was in Fort Lauderdale for a week and worked out and swam nude at The Club 3 times. I know it is mostly for gay and bi men but I wanted the opportunity to exercise and swim nude. Didn't care about anyone's preferences.