Married But Spouse Not Into

For those who are into nudism but spouse is not.

Does spouse know or do you do on side?

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Are you supported at all? Or do you do when they are not around?

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My wife knows I'm a nudist but doesn't understand why. She figured out I went nude on holiday once when she went back to the hotel and I stayed at the beach, she said she didn't mind if I took my shorts off, so I told her I had and enjoyed it. What she doesn't know is that I had been going nude for years on holiday when I went for a walk. She knows I'm nude when she is out or first thing in the morning when she is still in bed, I sleep nude so it's easier for me to be nude in the morning.
But what she doesn't know is that I visit this and other nudist sites and sometimes show myself nude for others to see on cam.

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My wife knows I am a nudist. I have always slept nude, I go on the Big Nude Boat cruises, attend local nudists evens and have gone nude at the National Forest which accepts nudes. Beautful, even though lots of clothed hikers stare, so I stand up and pose for them! HAH!
Big Nude Hugs
Hickguy

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My wife knows I enjoy being nude. In the beginning she was uncomfortable with me being naked around the house but as time and talk went on she doesnt seem to mind anymore. Im working on getting her to try it, but all I get is I am not happy with my body and no one wants to see it anyway. So until I can change her mind Im on my own. She has no idea that Im on a website for nudist and my pics are in my profile.. maybe someday I will let her know.

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My wife knows I go nude at home when she's out and on beach when possible, but she doesn't know how long I've been going nude, nor that I am on this site and have nude pics on my profile. As for being nude too, she has always said no.

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My wife knows I go nude at home when she's out and on beach when possible, but she doesn't know how long I've been going nude, nor that I am on this site and have nude pics on my profile. As for being nude too, she has always said no.

She doesn't even want you to be nude when just the two of you are home?
My wife is rarely nude at home, doesn't want me nude when others are here, and doesn't want to see anyone else nude, but luckily is fine with me being nude when it is just the two of us.

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My wife knows I love nudism and she tolerates my nudity and going to nudist events. I always sleep nude.
Wonderful tolerant woman!
Hickguy

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Mine doesnt know how much I practice. Shes ok w me going naked at home sometimes. But has no idea that I drive nude almost every morning to the trails to hike naked. Lol

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Mine doesnt know how much I practice. Shes ok w me going naked at home sometimes. But has no idea that I drive nude almost every morning to the trails to hike naked. Lol

Do you just tell her that you are going for a hike without specifying that you will be doing it nude?
I take a similar approach with my wife and going to the beach.
I told her once that I sometimes go to at nude beach and she was accepting of that.
What she doesn't know is that in the past 7 years I have worn a swimsuit on a NJ beach 3 times, all of them because I was going with my sister.
I am so used to being nude on the beach that one time, on the first day of a vacation, I went to the local beach without my wife, set up my chair,, took of my t shirt and sandals, and instinctively reached down to remove my swimsuit. Luckily, I stopped just in time.
My wife only goes to the beach when we are traveling, and even then, does so rarely.

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I'm feeling a deep sense of sympathy for you gents whose wives don't share your nakedness much or at all. I used to date a woman who "dressed" that way and let me tell you, it truly stifled my desires in so many ways. Lucky for me she understood my deep desire to be bare whenever the sun was coming through the window so I could "lizard", soaking in all of the rays I could for as long as they streamed in, sometimes even following the sun from one window of her house the the next. It set me up for the craving for more and when the moment came for my first nude beach back in 2004 I was a goner. That became a moment I would revisit many times in the coming years, a revelation of spirit I had to have more of, culminating today in a living arrangement which allows me to be nude all the time. Oh the joy! But back to the chronology I travel.

In 2005 I began searching for more avenues in nature for skin in the sun and found a specific, somewhat unpopular on the weekdays, hiking trail and got my tail in the warmth of Sol plenty. I didn't tell her about all of my ventures, partly because some of them ended up as exhibitionism. The hike never turned naughty, but at another, less secluded spot I found to tan at, I started getting caught by other people and they assumed I was there and bare to be sexual. My exhibitionist tendencies loved those stranger's eyes on me. But those secrets kept from my gf weren't good for the relationship and I knew it, and they almost entirely remained secrets. I know now that those omissions helped undermine our connection. I sometimes wonder whether, if she'd been more comfortable in joining in on the nudity she saw me thriving in, if our relationship could have been better cemented. I'm thankful in retrospect that she didn't have the interest, because there were many things between us besides my desire for nudism in which we just didn't gel well.

I hope some of you men have the chance to confide your secrets and it helps your connection grow.

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