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Hoping someone may have some suggestions regarding an embarrassing situation I find myself in with my wife - having just totally shaved myself recently - down there. Felt it would make me look younger for various reasons. it's now a weird situation in the sense that i think i may now feel more embarrassed my wife seeing me totally naked than anyone else in the world seeing me naked. anyone I know face to face I mean. My imagination got a bit wild lay in the bath one morning and I shaved myself completely in the hot tub. The problem now is that the only one time i went from being hairy to bare before was over 25 years ago when I shaved completely for a vasectomy operation. I remained fully shaved for many many years, but when my wife and I ceased having an intimate relationship, I let my hair grow again. We still get on OK, and we share the same house - only seperate bedrooms now. I still walked through her bedroom naked every morning though to use the en suite bath. But the day I shaved myself she came upstairs to make her bed. Usually I would help her change the sheets even when I am naked. But that morning i came out of the bathroom all sheepish and guilty looking and hid myself behind the wet towel I said needed washing and nipped quickly into my bedroom to put on a dressing gown - which she knows i never wear when we are alone in the house upstairs. Then I helped her make the bed. I have avoided her seeing me naked ever since because I know she will want to know exactly why at the age of almost 60 that I have suddenly decided to shave myself once again. Hope someone will suggest some good plausible reason I can give her, when I feel ready to.
Don't be - the best feeling in the world. I just shave below and just around the base leaving the mustache you would say. Maybe I get wierd looks at the Hippie Hollow but I doubt it. When she goes down it is all smooth where it matter with a little hair to tickle the lips. Have photos if anyone would like to see the process - email@example.com
I would not worry about it. I had a similar issue when I shaved all but a patch. My wife asked my why I shaved like that and I just told her I was trying something new. I am usually completely shaved but sometimes its nice to change it up.
I decided to shave some parts I didn't like with hair, got carried away and did the whole works. My wife was away and I went for my second trip to a CO beach. Kinda hid it from the missus until one night when we were intimate. Surprised her but she wasn't upset and kinda dug it, so now I keep it manscaped...
I enjoy the feel and look of being "naked" down below. I've noticed that there is no smell like there was when I was hairy, even though I showered daily. The hair seemed to absorb the smells and won't let go of them. So hygiene is one reason. It also no longer tickles noses when I'm receiving "attention" down there is another reason. And it also makes my big "periscope" look larger since it is not being hid in a bush.
You can say you like the feeling of being smooth and it excites you to be more nude than not shaving. In other words, you like it and are telling the truth. She might like it and it may help in the intimate areas of your relationship, as long as you don't leave stubble.
I'm shaved from the neck down and plan to stay that way. In the gym locker room some of the guys have noticed my appearance and commented and I just tell them that I am a nudist. Some have asked questions about being a nudist and seemed interested. I have no embarrassment about the way that I look.