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I am afull timenudist at my house. My GF knows this and is ok with it. She gets nude when we are alone also. Now at her place its a little different.We sleep nude. Put something on when leaving the room to go the restroom. etc...She has an 8 yr old, 14 and 18. The 8 yr old sometimes visits us in bed in the morning when he wakes.He has seen mom nude before. But not me.Last weekend he jumped under the covers with us. we were already up and had gotten partially dressed to leave the room .
How does one explain being nude. When and if he see's me. When I have not been part of his life in 8 years. Or the male father figure in his life?

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RE: Never had kids but about to become a stepfather...

Congrats! I just became a father a few weeks ago myself. To answer your question I think it depends on how she has raised them to view nudity so far.. if she has raised them telling them they had to be dressed to leave the bathroom after a shower or did not change in front of the others, that maybe a set back. However if the kids grew up bathing together and comfortable changing in front of each other I don't think it would be that hard to move on from there. as far as explaining your nudity to them, I would say talk to them like you would talk to an adult. if they jump in bed with you or walk in on you nude act as if you aren't. if and when they say anything about it be very casual and honest then explain that its natural and your body is nothing to be ashamed of. inviting them to participate in open family nudism would be a good idea at that point. you and their mother must be united on this though. good luck let us know how everything goes!

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Hi ! I think that first nudity is something so simple and natural in our life ^^according to me there is no reason to hide nude body, not at all ! growing upand seeing nude people in an open family nudism is the best thing we could learn to all ^^ it's a way of tolerance, open minded facing the world and the others, a kind of stone to keep energy for the all life ! Idid not raised up as a nudist unfortunally, but from I m nudist (rathly 15 years, I understand many things better !). I'ts completely normal to be nude with others, and if a kid is jmping on a bed when his parents are nude on or what else, it's symbol of affection, love ^^Sometimes with sons of friends or my nephews i explain them the normal way to be : nude ! and even if they are not nudists, so often they are really comfortable being nude with me or alone ^^ and they did understand that nudity is natural, showing his body or seeing nude bodies is normal...

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First of all have a talk with your girlfriend and see what her perspective is on the matter. If she is OK with it, then just continue to be nude in the house doing everyday things, leaving doors open, be casual and natural about it. The kids will accept it in no time. Also encourage them to be naked in the house as well.

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RE: Never had kids but about to become a stepfather...

I answered this question when you posted it in the Nudist Parenting group. Good luck!

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Sorry took so long. Been busy wedding, moving and all. So my wife and I are naked most of the day. When the boy is at school as soon as he is out im naked. When he. Is back and around from school. Im in shorts and freeballing 100%. He has pulled them down while we play fight. The boy now 11 knows i freeball 100%. I walk to and from the bathroom naked. He has seen me change when he walks in the room. I sleep naked and he has been in bed with us having talks and he is aware of me being nude. But these are glimps of me he has seen. if he has seen of me fully its my butt he has seen. 100% since im normally facing the other way when he walks in on me. Not straight out everything hanging infront of him yet. But its a start i guess. One day i will just do go nude. But, i think im nervous to do it...lol.

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Sorry took so long. Been busy wedding, moving and all. So my wife and I are naked most of the day. When the boy is at school as soon as he is out im naked. When he. Is back and around from school. Im in shorts and freeballing 100%. He has pulled them down while we play fight. The boy now 11 knows i freeball 100%. I walk to and from the bathroom naked. He has seen me change when he walks in the room. I sleep naked and he has been in bed with us having talks and he is aware of me being nude. But these are glimps of me he has seen. if he has seen of me fully its my butt he has seen. 100% since im normally facing the other way when he walks in on me. Not straight out everything hanging infront of him yet. But its a start i guess. One day i will just do go nude. But, i think im nervous to do it...lol.

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Congrats! Ive been becoming a father figure for a 10 year old boy and a 5 year old girl. But so far my nudity in her home is limited to her bedroom. Sometimes we get partially nude in the living room when the kids are sleeping.

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RE:Never had kids but about to become a stepfather... 17022019

Don't worry about anything. That normality is what he or anyone should expect and learn to appreciate. That's the role you can play and it's not a difficult one.

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I am afull timenudist at my house. My GF knows this and is ok with it. She gets nude when we are alone also. Now at her place its a little different.We sleep nude. Put something on when leaving the room to go the restroom. etc...She has an 8 yr old, 14 and 18. The 8 yr old sometimes visits us in bed in the morning when he wakes.He has seen mom nude before. But not me.Last weekend he jumped under the covers with us. we were already up and had gotten partially dressed to leave the room .How does one explain being nude. When and if he see's me. When I have not been part of his life in 8 years. Or the male father figure in his life?

I am back....4 yrs now. Married and we are all moved in together in our new house. My wife visits nudist clubs with me. Will walk around naked if ahe feels that way. The boy now 13. Time flies. My son has seen me naked many times. Never once has he made a face or said anything. Fixed his xbox while naked and he was in the room. Because of the corona virus. He is having school here at home. And he sees me daily nude now for hours since i also work from home. Getting coffee. Dishes...food...a drink of water He has even had a conversation with me while i was peeing. Both he and i never close door when peeing. When this crap goes away i will be asking him to go to a resort with us. Lets see how that goes.. hope he atleast tries it once.

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RE:Never had kids but about to become a stepfather...

I am afull timenudist at my house. My GF knows this and is ok with it. She gets nude when we are alone also. Now at her place its a little different.We sleep nude. Put something on when leaving the room to go the restroom. etc...She has an 8 yr old, 14 and 18. The 8 yr old sometimes visits us in bed in the morning when he wakes.He has seen mom nude before. But not me.Last weekend he jumped under the covers with us. we were already up and had gotten partially dressed to leave the room .How does one explain being nude. When and if he see's me. When I have not been part of his life in 8 years. Or the male father figure in his life?I am back....4 yrs now. Married and we are all moved in together in our new house. My wife visits nudist clubs with me. Will walk around naked if ahe feels that way. The boy now 13. Time flies. My son has seen me naked many times. Never once has he made a face or said anything. Fixed his xbox while naked and he was in the room. Because of the corona virus. He is having school here at home. And he sees me daily nude now for hours since i also work from home. Getting coffee. Dishes...food...a drink of water He has even had a conversation with me while i was peeing. Both he and i never close door when peeing. When this crap goes away i will be asking him to go to a resort with us. Lets see how that goes.. hope he atleast tries it once.

How did it work out with the older 2?

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