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Recently had a phone conversation with my 65-year-old sister. During it she mentioned she needed something to hold onto when getting up from the floor. I asked my wife if she can do it and she wasnt sure. I showed her an easy way to do it and she was delighted. (I am 63 and she is 55.)
I want to send a video to my sister showing the method I use. Here is the interesting part, I want to offer her the choice of me doing it clothed or nude. May seem a little weird, but as nudists you understand the desire to sometimes share your lifestyle with a friend, family member, co-worker, etc. Up to now I have only dropped a few hints with my sister, such as skinny-dipping in our pool.
Growing up she saw me nude a handful of times. As adults, once she was staying with me while looking for an apartment and without knocking she walked in on a naked me while I was in my bedroom. So its not like she hasnt seen me naked.
Im posting this looking for any opinions on whether I should offer the nude video or not. Also interested in any similar experiences anybody has had when trying to share their nudism with a sibling. Is there any benefit to sharing this with her? I dont see a downside to this. Im thinking even if she doesnt want the nude version of the video, it could open up a dialogue about nudity; my little effort to educate the masses.
I think incorporating your sister into your nudist world is an amazing idea! This seems like maybe an odd way to mix in some nudism though? Maybe it depends on the wording: "I'm sending you a video, would you like me to be naked in it?" is a bit odd, but "You know I'm a nudist, do I have to put on clothes for this?" would be a more casual/humorous way of inviting her to make a decision.
Agree, want to keep it light, non-threatening, and like you wrote, a little humorous. Not sure if just offer the two versions, or go a little more into it, such as mention this is normal for me as Ive been working out nude at home for the last 30 years. Or, since she is a churchgoer, showing how its done the way God intended us to do things. Food for thought.
I don't think there is a downside. It's not as if you are teenagers. Just send her the nude version and leave it at that. If she says something about it, that would open the door for conversation.
I don't see a downside to this. I'm thinking even if she doesn't want the nude version of the video, it could open up a dialogue about nudity; my little effort to educate the masses.
You strike me as being very considerate towards your sister's sensibilities. I believe you made the right choice in offering the video in either fashion, allowing her to decide and then providing the video for her benefit.
Sent nudie by mistake (fat fingers) to a religious 80-year lady correspondent widow once. She replied she forgave me for that. Asked her to show me her in underwear. She got very upset and eventually cut me off.If she had been a nudist she would have shown me everything . Guess I shouldnt have asked her that. But if she said it was ok to show me nude (even if by mistake) why was I wrong to ask to see her in panties and bra!
There is a huge difference between forgiving someone for making an honest mistake and actually being OK with receiving an unexpected nude photo. The two are very different. I dont see any way you could reasonably take her forgiving as a hint that she would be OK with sending you photos. If she had said I forgive you I quite liked it, or you have a nice body then I could understand your response to her. Otherwise no.
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