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it seems to be all men with some minor exception and none of the discussion items have any replies - Hmmmmm - I have shared a room on a cruise with a female I had not met before. We communicated by email and telephone in advance and it worked out very well. Not sure how it would work with this group here. Perhaps if one sees one with whom one would like to travel and meet then perhaps a private conversation might be started to explore interest, compatability etc. Any thoughts from anyone or will this also be a discussion started with no replies??? I hope not!! Jock

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RE:Saw this group on another person's page and decided to join....but...

I think you're right. Trying to get a conversation going with the ladies to get to know them seems quite the task.

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Thanks for the reply!! Just be yourself and be thoughtful and respectful yet friendly at the same time!

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Hello Mr. Texas,
I am joining this group and I love to travel. I appreciate what you told the other guy about being nice & respectful. Thanks for that.

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It's more than a task, friend. After you take this problem and boil it all down, it becomes apparent that women don't want and/or need men now. And I personally feel that with this independence comes a smugness that's infects many of these women. Men are expendable. That's the bottom line. These women can be like a union-cold, aloof, and powerful. Men are just a small, insignificant function in their calculus.

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I rather think that most women have had bad experiences with men who are pushy, insensitive, selfish... and just don't want to subject themselves to endless harassment in hopes of finding the rare guy who is going to be a good, decent friend without expecting immediate sexual benefits to any relationship with a woman.

If anything, I tend to be on the least-pushy (as in not) end of the spectrum and have had some wonderful friendships with women... nude or clothed - and some fun times going to hot springs, nude beaches etc.

That being said, I would love to have opportunities this fall and winter to do some weekday visits to some Seattle-area clothing-optional venues with a new female friend. But then, again, I'm one of very many in that situation.

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I rather think that most women have had bad experiences with men who are pushy, insensitive, selfish... and just don't want to subject themselves to endless harassment in hopes of finding the rare guy who is going to be a good, decent friend without expecting immediate sexual benefits to any relationship with a woman.If anything, I tend to be on the least-pushy (as in not) end of the spectrum and have had some wonderful friendships with women... nude or clothed.

i AGREE 100% BOTH HERE AND OUTSIDE OF HERE AS WELL. I AM THOUGHTFUL, RESPECTFUL AND DEFINITELY NOT PUSHY AT ALL! FRIENDLY YES!! IT WOULD BE WONDERFUL TO SHARE A NON-SEXUAL FRIENDSHIP WITH SOMEONE HERE BUT SO FAR THAT HAS NOT HAPPENED AT LEAST FOR ME.

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I rather think that most women have had bad experiences with men who are pushy, insensitive, selfish... and just don't want to subject themselves to endless harassment in hopes of finding the rare guy who is going to be a good, decent friend without expecting immediate sexual benefits to any relationship with a woman.If anything, I tend to be on the least-pushy (as in not) end of the spectrum and have had some wonderful friendships with women... nude or clothed - and some fun times going to hot springs, nude beaches etc.That being said, I would love to have opportunities this fall and winter to do some weekday visits to some Seattle-area clothing-optional venues with a new female friend. But then, again, I'm one of very many in that situation.

I'd agree with you on that one. Guys get really, really aggressive sometimes, and I know sometimes they can't help it, but, they really do need to calm down a bit. That "ape mentality" can take over, and although sometimes that's a good thing, it's not ALWAYS a good thing.

You really should try and develop a relationship first with someone, and not just try to crash into everything.

If I had a nickel for every guy who said "Hi. You're a nudist, I'm a nudist, we should date..." I'd be a very rich girl.

Thanks to all the guys who keep it cool in the beginning!

xo,
amy

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You really should try and develop a relationship first with someone, and not just try to crash into everything.
Thanks to all the guys who keep it cool in the beginning! xo, amy

YOU ARE WELCOME AMY! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING YOUR THOUGHTS AS A WOMAN HERE. MUCH APPRECIATED!!

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I agree about treating women with respect. Another thing to consider... Women outnumber men here 100 to 1 or more. If you're a guy looking for a women to date -- or for any activity -- this isn't the place to be. You'll have better luck at your neighborhood bar, grocery store, etc..

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I Women outnumber men here 100 to 1 or more.
Appears to be a typographical error as men outnumber women here! I now have friendly relationship with a very small number of women here and that is all that I am looking for - nothing more and nothing less - and i am very thankful for them!

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