Nudity & Sex - am I alone?
Return to DiscussionsAm I alone is saying that my nudism is not connected to my sexuality and sex per se?
My nudism and love of being nude is based on the following principles:
I love being nude and feeling the vulnerability and freedom that is delivered by being nude in the world.
I strongly appreciate nudity in all forms of art.
I enjoy being seen by other people who are also nude (i.e. being social within the community), and like the freedom to chose who these people are and this doesn't necessarily include my family or friends who are not nudies.
I like being nude in public spaces, that are appropriately allocated to nudism, and sometimes where its not if it doesn't put a legal risk in play.
BUT I don't believe any of these principles provide the entre to sexual expression, activity or discussion...
Am I alone in this ideology of nudism? Love to hear the views of others.
I've been mocked in the chat room for saying nudism has nothing to do with sex for years,
I've always said " there's a time and a place for everything" but sadly there's always a few that spoil it.
Its such a shame and it gives real nudists a bad name
Oh so true, sorry to hear about the chat room. I have learned that every one has a opinion just like they have a hole. Each end can put out crap. Once you find those types, avoid them ! Some people want to bring you down to their level. Being naked with others is a beautiful thing. So enjoy when you can !
I just shared a similar opinion I am beginning to believe that true naturist/nudists have a more mature development of the the sexual body that allows what the attached quote from a book on the psychology of sex allows.I agree with everyone's opinions. Here is another thought, being able to see the differences between nudity and sex, could, indicate a certain maturity level. When we are in mixed company, we have a responsibility of respecting boundaries and comfort levels. The human brain sometimes scrambles these things up. Maybe, the more mature the brain, or person, is, the better one is to recognize the differences.
Those who mock you and anyone who believes as you do are trying to deflect the focus away from their behavior and sexual proclivities. That prevents them from being accountable or taking responsibility for spoiling the experince for others as you suggest.I've been mocked in the chat room for saying nudism has nothing to do with sex for years,I've always said " there's a time and a place for everything" but sadly there's always a few that spoil it.Its such a shame and it gives real nudists a bad name