Married Men but here as MALE ONLY profiles

Over our tenure here at TN, we've found that there's a number of MARRIED males who have MALE only profiles. Just wondering what the motivation is to leave the MRS. out of this formula.....?

Could it be:
1) Their wife isn't a nudist....
2) They are nudists, but doesn't want their wife to know that they have a profile...
3) They aren't nudists at all but what a great way to meet people who are.....
4)This is one big fantasy and if their wife found out about this, their status would change to DIVORCED....

What is it? Why are you here as just a male if you're married? My wife and I have no secrets about nudism, our private life activities, or who we chat with, or what we do. Why aren't you proud of the most important thing to you in life, and why don't you give her the respect she deserves....

Anxious to hear from all the MARRIED men out there with non-couple profiles....

Steve

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Married as stated on my profile and hope to be able to change my status to couple soon...

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Hi Jen
I have married listed in my profile, so I am not making believe I am not married. I do not have pictures of my wife on for personal reasons that we both share at this time. I do agree with every stipulation that you have listed and I am sure that each or all of them are true for some members. We have had discussions about this in the past so PLEASE don't think I am making any aspersions to you for bringing this up for I to am interested in what might be written.
Also, Jen how many men are on here who ARE married but state they are single to play that game. One or two I would think.
Any women on here who are making believe they are men and vice versa.
My two cents and remember Jen, I do think highly of you and believe you to be a superlative person. Actually, I shall change it to I love you in the sense of your being who you are.
Peter

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h.Iam married but my gender is male.she is nudist too but she is the theacher and cant join here.I honestly say I am male.she does whant to join here too much but cant.most time she is with me but never seen on cam.why is it?because mostpeople here are for sexual afairs.please all members if you look for sex go to porn sities.here is place for nodist livestile.if it coud be I join with my vife.here isnot place to find sex.I am honest you can see me only as male and my gander is male.[sorry for my poor eng. just whant to say my thouths]

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Rockofbury, I had never considered women pretending to be men. I wonder how many women are afraid of being bombarded by friend requests from males so they post as males? Dont know why but that had never crossed my mind. That would be interesting to know.

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For me, it would be #1. My wife isn't a nudist -- yet. We have talked about it, but not for a long time. Life kind of got in the way. I even quit identifying with nudists out of fear due to my family, job, and the pending adoption of our two sons. Now the adoption is final and we are moving from central Illinois to central Florida and I have a chance to be myself. I'm hoping to make nudism a part of that, but it will depend largely on her.
She is self conscious about her body and about everything, really. She is more important to me than being nude, so guess who will win. I'm waiting to get to Florida myself (she and the boys moved ahead due to her job) to say anything at all. She will need to be reassured that it's not about sex or lust, but about freedom and being closer to nature.
We are both Christians and her father is a Baptist minister, so that kind of complicates things a bit. BUT, they have proven somewhat liberal in other areas, so they may be cool with this, too. Maybe my in-laws will become nudists too, who knows :)
I did figure out a cool (yes a bit sneaky) way to introduce the subject to someone who is completely uninitiated. This will work for anyone, with a little modification and makes you look like you know nothing about it in the first place. You tell someone you were following a creation vs. evolution debate. Doesn't matter where you stand on this issue. You then mention that you had heard of (or even was) a theistic evolutionist, but hadn't ever heard of a Christian naturalist. BUT, when you googled it, you accidently put naturist. Bodda-bing, you can tell them everything you found out about it. A fib, yes, so let your conscience be your guide on that one.
I'm getting too long winded -- peace!

Oh, and it didn't occur to me what it might look like when I set up the account.

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I've noticed that some of the more experienced users are short tempered and a bit intolerant. "Newbie" is difinitely a derogatory term. Fortunately, there are also lots of friendly folks out there...glad I joined
Iceberg01.........Newbie is not a derogatory term.......We all have been "Newbies" in everything we have ever done. Those "People" forgot their "Newbie" roots.
Off topic..but needed to be addressed.
" No such thing as a stupid question"

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If past experience on other sites is an indication, couples profiles get bombarded with almost as many friend requests as female profiles.

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Cuddlebunnies,
Your question caught me by complete surprise. It was in the spirit of complete honesty that I have listed myself as a married male. My wife has visited nudist clubs with me in the past. We have spent several vacations together at clothing optional resorts. In fact during our last vacation, we spent most of our time on the nude side at the beach and pool. While she has no problem with nudity or being nude, she would be just as happy at a resort which required clothing.
I am not.

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Hi Jen I have married listed in my profile, so I am not making believe I am not married. I do not have pictures of my wife on for personal reasons that we both share at this time. I do agree with every stipulation that you have listed and I am sure that each or all of them are true for some members. We have had discussions about this in the past so PLEASE don't think I am making any aspersions to you for bringing this up for I to am interested in what might be written. Also, Jen how many men are on here who ARE married but state they are single to play that game. One or two I would think. Any women on here who are making believe they are men and vice versa. My two cents and remember Jen, I do think highly of you and believe you to be a superlative person. Actually, I shall change it to I love you in the sense of your being who you are. Peter

Hey Peter, lol...I'm not the one asking the question, Steve is. And I love you for who you are, too!

Jen

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Could it be: 1) Their wife isn't a nudist.... = i guess u mean they must be p to something, if they are on alone lol 2) They are nudists, but doesn't want their wife to know that they have a profile...= because they must want sex from someone else other than than wife. kindof implying alot here arent you? 3) They aren't nudists at all but what a great way to meet people who are.....= umm kind of obvious this would be a good way to me nudists, if you were curious duh 4)This is one big fantasy and if their wife found out about this, their status would change to DIVORCED....= again saying they must be interested in cheating, kindof suspicious arent you? My wife and I have no secrets about nudism, our private life activities, or who we chat with, or what we do. Why aren't you proud of the most important thing to you in life, and why don't you give her the respect she deserves.... = oh so as long as it's good for you and your wife, that should be the standard for every married couple. kinda pushing ur beliefs on people arent? just a little? Anxious to hear from all the MARRIED men out there with single profiles.... = why do u wanna hear from them? not happy until you can berate someone huh

Jon, We have talked to a number of MARRIED men on hereand havegotten honest replies, simularto the statements listed in the original question. Manymarried males have also been flagged for inappropriate behaviour here on cam too. So the questions are asked to find out why married menare doing this.


Yes, some are up to something, wanking on cam, and engaging in appropriate behavior, but not with their partner, but rather viewers in the chat room.

And Yes, because some men hide things from their spouse, gambling, drinking, affairs, it's all part of life.

And yes, to see nude people and learn about nudism because of curiousity.

And yes, these men wish to live the nudist lifestyle vicariously through this site and yes, if their spouses, some who are absolutely against what they're doing, finds out about their profile, would have their heads on a silver platter.

Relationship standards? Of courseNOT! Our heterosexual, married relationship is ours, and your gay, unmarried, relationships areyours, and I'm not here to judge you or others,not to harrass, not to berateor set standands. Merely a topic of conversation for discussion, not attack.

So Jon, let us know when youget MARRIED and we'd love to hear your honest MARRIED opinion.


STEVE

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