WHY?
Why do most people make it so difficult to become friends with other social nudists? It seems so natural to me to be naked and enjoy being naked whenever possible. I love naked camping, hiking, traveling, social parties, etc. Are people really so hung up on their bodies that they "talk" about being naked but never visit any nudist places or agree to meet in a social environment?
Local availability is a big reason. Travel time tothe closestresort and back would take an entire day. That leaves no time for socializing and recreation. Expense is another reason. Other things often have a priority that is higher. Privacy is a third. The lack of privacy fencing is forcing our nude time to be indoors or secluded spots we have found where we are not likely to be caught. My hot tub is indoors, but always enjoyed while nude. Then there is the notion that I just like to be nude for the comfort factor, and don't need any more socialization than what I am getting now.
I couldn't have said it better myself rabbitnbunny. I've written this before about another topic but can still be applied to this, just because you share Nudism as a common interest does not mean you'll automatically be friends. Personality, likeability, other common interests, age group, availability and location all okay a huge part.
Local availability is a big reason. Travel timetothe closestresort and back would take an entireday. That leaves no time for socializing andrecreation. Expense is another reason. Other thingsoften have a priority that is higher. Privacy is athird. The lack of privacy fencing is forcing our nude timeto be indoors or secluded spots we have found where we are notlikely to be caught. My hot tub is indoors, but alwaysenjoyed while nude. Then there is the notion that I just liketo be nude for the comfort factor, and don't need any moresocialization than what I am getting now.
Nudeyooper, We always get our Spider senses tingling, when ever we
hear and read the same old thing. The story is always the same,
from the same types of people, on this site. These sad sorts,
are always whining about the lack of any Nude venues, that they are
able to attend or explore. These sad sorts, never have
anything in their profiles, No Pictures, No Friends, No Groups, No
Favourite Vacation spots, and No Information of any interest at
all. They all Whine about having no where to go, or no other
Nudists to socialize with, yet they do absolutely Nothing about
exploring anything, that is either close to them or doing their own
thing. Being Nude is not a religion people, and being Naked
at home is No Big Deal at all, like who really cares that you are
Nude at home? LOL Who really wants to know , that you
are riding your stationary bike while being Nude, YUK , that is a
visual that NONE of us need in to envision in our heads! So
you are telling us, that you are actually Naked in your own
"Indoor" Hot Tub, well aren't you daring and living Life on the
edge! LOL Seriously? Who isn't Naked in their own Hot
Tub? LOL Being a Nudist is no different, than being a Sailor
or a Skier or a Bird Watcher or a Fisherman. In order to
enjoy the pleasures and the experiences of Skiing or Sailing or
Bird Watching or Fishing, you actually haves to get off your ass,
and do something about it! The fish are not going to come to
you, unless you get off your Butt! The birds are not going to
fly into your Livingroom, so you need to get off your couch and go
and find them! You can not ski or sail in your own
Livingroom, so you have to actually get off your ass, and head out
to the mountains and to the Yacht club in order to pursue these
activities. Being a Nudist is absolutely No Different, from
any other hobby, past time, passion or Lifestyle. We had a
quick look, as to where you live and there are LOTS of Nudest Clubs
all over your area and region. You live in the some of the
most Beautiful Wilderness, that one could possibly find, yet you
play the Woe is Me Card? There are 3 Nude clubs within 190
miles of you, and another 3 within a 500 mile radius, if you are
wanting to drive to them. No one is suggesting, that you make
these a weekend adventure but you could, if you really wanted to,
as a 3 hour weekend drive is nothing to do. There are
hundreds of Nude Resorts and Nude Clubs all over the States, and
within Driving distance to you, or just jump on a Flight and you
have Thousands that you could visit. When people have a Love
and a passion for something, they make the necessary adjustments
and sacrifices to explore them and they actually pursue them.
Meeting other people or finding other places to enjoy while
being Naked, is pretty frigging easy to do, it just requires a
little Effort and getting off your Ass, in order to do it!
Being Nude at Home, does not make someone a Nudist, it makes
them a person who is at home, without any clothes on. BIG DEAL!
You are not a Skier or a Sailor if you sit at home, with your
Skis on, and Tiler and a bottle of Rum in your hands. You are
not a Fisherman if you sit at home wearing your Hip Waders
and your Rod in your hand, any more than you are a bird watcher
with your Binoculars hanging around your neck while in the closet!
You need to actually get off your Butts, and pursue your
hobbies or your passions or that certain Lifestyle, that you want
to be involved in. You really need to stop the Lame over used
Excuses, and get off your ass, and go to the endless number of Nude
Resorts and the Nude Beaches that we ALL enjoy going to!
Sitting at home Naked, does not make anyone a Nudist! A
True Nudist, pursues their passions and their interests by finding
all the places, to enjoy that Lifestyle at. You might want to
start off, by actually filing out your own Profile. Pictures
do not have to show ones face, if anyone is worried about their
Privacy. As long as your faceless picture does not show, all
of your Banking Information along with your PIN number, you should
be OK! LOL I am off to have a Shower now, and I think that I
will be really daring this time, and Shower while being Totally
Naked! Gee, I wonder if being Totally Naked in the Shower,
will make me a Nudist? Get off your Fat Ass's people, and
actually explore and venture out, to some of the many Nude venues
that you have available to you, within your own region or just book
a flight! Very frigging simple to do!
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