RE:Any one else trying to get wife into this

My wife has always been self-conscious, and thought it was weird and I didn't push it. We were causal around the house, but couldn't convince exploration, and probably had some missed opportunities before kids just because of my own ignorance. After kids, she started to become more and more conservative to the point it is taboo. Eventually, it was obvious this was just the tip of a larger marriage issue. So, not to be a downer on the subject, but we're splitting up. If I meet anyone in the future, it's going to be a requirement.

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