Spotting the reals
So 1 week in and I'm finding it more difficult to spot the real people. I've chatted to 10 or so people that I thought were pretty normal only to then be messaged by other users to warn me they are fake. Often with links to where they got there profile pics.
But at the end of the day I did join the site to socialise so If any people from the group want to DM or chat please do. I thought this should be a safer place to write this then in the general chat...
But then again I also thought I had better instincts until I joined this site!
So 1 week in and I'm finding it more difficult to spot the real people. I've chatted to 10 or so people that I thought were pretty normal only to then be messaged by other users to warn me they are fake. Often with links to where they got there profile pics.But at the end of the day I did join the site to socialise so If any people from the group want to DM or chat please do. I thought this should be a safer place to write this then in the general chat...But then again I also thought I had better instincts until I joined this site!
It seems to me that fakes will not be interested in communicating more broadly. Be interested in what a person is interested in, what his hobby is. After all, a real person is interested not only in nudism =) He also has another life
You would be surprised what lengths some people go through to hide that they're fake though. It's almost like catfishing on dating sites to them or something. I guess one good tip that I've found though is "Google can be your friend." If you think somethings fishy, Google backtrack their picture. if you find a match from some porno site or something, you got 'em.