RE:NEW HOUSEKEEPER COMING

Like others here I have a housekeeper every two weeks. First of all I only interview candidates recommended by friends and or someone I trust their opinions. I've discussed this issue with some of them and come up with this.

The important part of deciding on someone is "Are they willing to do what you want done?", Will they be dependable in showing up on their appointed scheduled time? Once I come to the conclusion that they are viable I bring up other points. One of which is nudity.

I am not nude all the time around the house so I explain to the person before I agree to hire them that they can expect me to once in a while to be swimming nude in the pool, I will change clothes occasionally when they are there. I may shower occasionally. I explain that I will not purposely be nude in front of them, but do expect it. I explain that I my nudity is not a sexual advance toward them. I do not expect them to be nude because I am, but if you want to skinny dip in my pool to relax go ahead.

I will be nude if it is convenient to what I am doing - it is my place of residence. If they agree we are one step closer. I avoid any nudity the first time they are there. But I do make it a point to be nude in front of her the second time. After that I will mention that I am going to take a shower. If she wishes to avoid my nudity she can work in another part of the house until I am done.

About half the time they would do just that, other times just continue working right there. I have stood in front of her and undressed as we conversed, with no sexual intent.

I have had a couple housekeepers who were also masseuses and they would come prepared for that and be compensated accordingly. I have had a couple affairs with the housekeeper, but that just doesn't work out in the long run.

Basically you hire a housekeeper for a certain function and expect to live your life as you normally would with certain attention to care.

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RE:NEW HOUSEKEEPER COMING

You received some good advice. In short just be upfront and candid with them.

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The best advice is not to discuss it directly. Show them around and point out the art. If they are open to it they will mention it when they are comfortable. But the first few times I would be casually dressed, not nude. You dont want to make them think that your nudity is a suggestion.

Alternatively you could advertise specifically as a nudist so only those who are comfortable will apply. I would have a nanny cam or at least an audio recorder on while they are there to prevent misunderstandings and accusations later. Lots of people run around putting themselves in situations so they can sue.

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RE:NEW HOUSEKEEPER COMING

The best advice is not to discuss it directly. Show them around and point out the art. If they are open to it they will mention it when they are comfortable. But the first few times I would be casually dressed, not nude. You dont want to make them think that your nudity is a suggestion.

Alternatively you could advertise specifically as a nudist so only those who are comfortable will apply. I would have a nanny cam or at least an audio recorder on while they are there to prevent misunderstandings and accusations later. Lots of people run around putting themselves in situations so they can sue.

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I don't have a house keeper but I've had several guys, usually college students, help me with projects around the house, both inside and outside. I live in the country with no close neighbors. I always ask them if they care if I'm nude while we work. Most are totally cool with it and many join me which makes the work that much more enjoyable!

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I have my employees and or contractors that work at our house. Here's what we do... put sweats or shorts on. There is no reason to push the I want to be naked in front of someone on a textile just trying to earn there living. It won't kill you for a couple hours to do that. Hire a naked house cleaning svc would be my suggestion that is accustomed to nudity.

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