Had a great bromance
Dear friend, I understand you very well - dont know if others had the experience of a bromance partner - I had one that was really cute, nice, great to stay together - but, after each encounter, he takes more or less 1 month to talk again... it was a bit strange, but I understood and never asked him about it... but... it sounds its a issue to males to accept they have a bromance and that could be treated in a easy way... someone had some experience close to this???
And I hope for you, dear friend, that you will find a great "bromancer" soon!!! Big hugs!
Amauri
Amauri, I think that sometimes the intensity of the experience is difficult for some men to handle emotionally, and they need that space afterwards. I fall into that category. Maybe part of it is a sense of guilt? They are concerned how society will judge them? Society is a tricky thing because yes, you need to be true to yourself, but you also need a level of conformity to be accepted into the mainstream. I've learned to be grateful for the good times. Cheers to our friends in Brazil!