Im totally with you
Im often getting in wanted sexual advances
Being a gay male it is assumed that Im after sex .and ( sorry for the language) all wanting to penetrate me.
Unfortunately Ive had to spell it out in my tag and profile that Im a Side
Ok I suppose Im a bit of an exhibitionist and guiltily a bit of an voyeur but thats as far as I will go .
A lot of people aswell female as male still think nudeis equal to sex.
So I would call it education!
There are also a lot of different cultural and religion backgrounds that make nude feel like porn. Again this is education.
50years ago it was very normal for guys to be naked in groups, now it becomes a shame!
Every nudist will confirm you that a naked body has nothing sexual about it. It is what ones brain makes of it!
Then on the other end I also think that some of the admins here are really a bit to obsessed and even homofobic!
We men are men, and nature gives us about 11 boners a day and op and going morning boners without any reason . No guy can help that and there is no shame in that.
Just treat it mature...
Hello,
So I am someone who has been on both sides of this issue now. I used to participate in this site, honestly for the reason you are talking about. I am fairly new to nudism and was exploring that side at the same time as I was exploring my sexuality. Separating the two has taken some time. In fact, I stepped away from this site for a long time for that reason.
I used the chat feature in the beginning thinking it would be causual chatting, but found that a lot of the guys were cruising for a jump to the TS site or Skype or some other video chat platform. This site was just the jumping off point. I followed suit because that felt like the culture of the platform.
I am now in a place where I can separate the two and I get it. I do think in a private message, and the the attraction is mutual, flirting and exchaning more explicit pics is fine, but it is not part of this main platform. For those of you that have been nudists for many years or even all your lives, I would ask that you afford some grace for those that are new and exploring where nudism can fit in.
For me, I grew up as the fat person who kept myself buttoned up out of shame. In my early 40s I decided I was tired of the shame and started dipping my toes into nudism in my real life. (I had been interested for years, but had not experienced it.)
My body may be a wreck, but it's the one I've got. I am learning to accept myself, and my occasional experiences with nudism have been a tremendous help. I hope that answers your question from a different perspective.
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