Dating Older Nudist Ladies.
Hello ladies. I hope you don't take offense about a male invading your space but I would like to address this to the ladies.
My wife and I had been married for over 51 years when she passed a few years ago. Yes it was hard and she certainly is greatly missed, but life must go on. In the interest of moving on with my life I have been seeking the companionship of single women. I'm not seeking a replacement for my wife but would like to find someone for a whole new, different relationship. Unfortunately the number of women who are really interested in a second relationship seems very limited. Let me explain.
I've seen many examples and have personal friends who, when their husbands pass on, have no interest or plans or desires to ever marry again. I've known widows who have remained single for almost 20 years and have effectively taken themselves out of the dating pool. Why is that?
For an older male seeking the companionship of an older female, this makes the search much harder. And here's where it makes it doubly hard for a male in his search for the right woman. In the nudist world many, if not most, women drop out of the nudist scene completely upon the death of her spouse.
I wish I could talk to these women and advise them that life doesn't have to end upon the loss of a spouse but it does change and to accept the change.
I know I really can't talk to these women but her friends certainly can. So ladies, if you have a friend who finds herself in this type of situation, please help her to look to the future, keep her past memories but plan on making new ones. You will really be doing her a great favor.
Thank you,
DesertRat, aka Fred.
P.S. If you know of an older, single, nudist lady who might like to date an older gentleman, please send her contact information to me. I can be reached through my profile on TN under the user name of DesertRat. Thank you again.
Fred, your message is heartfelt and full of grace. Thank you for sharing your journey with such honesty. You're right grief changes us, but it doesnt have to end our capacity for connection, joy, or companionship.
Your openness is a gentle reminder that love and friendship can take new forms, even after deep loss. I hope the right woman crosses paths with you, someone ready to create new memories, while honoring the past.
Wishing you peace and meaningful connections ahead.