Free Style Nudity
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Nudism and erections
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This is my first post in this group and I hope that I don't offend anyone with it. If it's out of line I hope the group owner will remove it right away..........
Recently I read somwhere that 99% of all men does not get an erection while visiting a nude beach or a nude resort. I simply dont believe that statement.
Every man gets an erection every now and then if they are functioning normally that is.Normally erections are considered extremelly bad in a nudist enviroment but does it always have to be so? On a textile beach it is generally accepted if a man walks around with a large bulge in his pants but among nudists its not accepted at all.Please don't think that I endulge people to run around waving their private parts in other peoples faces because that is one thing I would never do myself. You have to show other people respect!
I sometimes get hard when I fall asleep in the sun. If I lay face down there's not much to say about it except that I find it very hard to get rid of my erection when I press it to the ground. Usually I turn around and sit up with my legs pulled up so I can hide it between my thighs while it gently returns to a flaccid state.If I fall asleep on my back..well that's a different story.My question is if an erect penis really can be considered offensive if someone lay down and doesn't disturb anyone else with it? People can always look in another direction or am I completely lost here.?
Hi all,
It's nice to see people challenging this assumption that the nudist population is partitioned into two black and white group - the first treating nudity as some unnaturally asexual "spiritual journey" and the others being "swingers" (by which people don't seem to mean the traditional definition of couples who like to share their sexual experiences with others; rather a generic terms for sex addicts who can't exercise any boundaries). I think that there are lots of grey areas in between - e.g. I've never had sex with other men and don't generally find them attractive, but I'm quite happy to be checked out by gay men even if they are erect or playing with themselves. It's only a problem for me if they are persistently asking for more than that (after I've politely declined their first advance).
I think'pre-cum' is nothing to worry about at all. In the same way that all men are liable to have an erection at an inconvenient time so too there is likely to be a display of moisture from time to time. It certainly happens to me and it doescause any embarrassment to me and seemingly not to anybody who witnesses it.GSussexMan
I find that when I'm in a nudist environment my libido switches off, so I could not get an erection even if I wanted to, unless caused by visual stimulation! The only times I've become aroused and erect on a nudist beach was on rare occasions when couples nearby have started to put on a "show"! I was turned on, but felt uneasy at the same time. I must admit, however, to enjoying sex on the beach on occasions when I have been invited by couples to join them in a threesome, behind bushes or windbreaks. Happy memories!
So I was on the nude beach today, and as soon as I dropped my pants a breeze picked up, and my penis almost immediately just started to go. At first I felt a little awkward as I was standing right in front of a group of people, but I just continued putting on my sunscreen and eventually it went back down. Really wasn't a big deal. It seems like each time I go, I get a little more comfortable.
Thanks for the charming story, Ross. I think we probably ought to designate a unit to measure progress in restraining tumescence in the male member.
I suggest it should be measured in CRUD's - Coefficient of Restraint of Urgent Desires.
Can anyone else come up with a witty acronym for this new unit?
Pamela
Great story Ross. I was on the beach the other day when a man new to nudism stripped off to show his tan tiles and an instant erection. He knew that every eye on the beach was on him as he slowly walked into the sea. No doubt he understood your earlier embarrassment. But he still had a semi when he came out of the freezing water. Only his balls had shrunk.Yet on another beach (another holiday) three of us spread sun lotion on each other - every part,just as you describe - and not a blink from the others on the beach. Maybe that was because we were three men. Itwas great fun massaging sun lotion into a friend and having them massage it into me, paying special attention to those parts needing extra protection.
I think we all must have experienced spontaneous arousal in nude social settings. I am thinking about when I was in my 20s and skinning dipping in some mountain pools with my spouse and a group of friends. My spouse was spread out on the rock below, and I remember how great she looked enjoying being nude soaking up the rays. When I spread my towel on a boulder above her and lay down to catch some rays, after an invigorating quick dip that turned my balls blue and my penis to a peanut. I noticed that above our female housemate had spread her towel on a rock above me and lay with her legs open with the sun shining right into her open legs no more than 10 or 12 feet away. This display seemed clearly for my eyes as I was the only one with that view. Even so, I was unused to such things, so her show for me both embarrassed and intrigued me. Not trying to be a voyeur, but also not one to turn away from an inviting view, I sit tole a peak here and there, and was fascinated by the fact that her labial folds were longer and much more pronounced than than my spouse's or other girlfriends I had observed up close. We before long, without realizing it, my peanut became a Texas-size dill pickle. So away I turned for awhile, but I couldn't will it down, so I gave in and lay back down on my back with penis erect lying on my belly to continue the show for awhile. I began to ooze from the tip and yearned for relief, but there was none, just her open legs and labia, my penis larger than life and and both of us soaking up the sun. All at once, she sat up, looked at me from between her legs and commented quietly and asked if I agreed that my spouse had "pretty little tithes". She smiled and nodded at seeing my arousal, as I continued to squirm with a mixture of embarrassment and pride. It finally got to be to much and I dove back into the mountain pool. I came back up with a peanut, blue balls and a yelp. Immediate problem solved but this experience did little to staunch myinterest in nude recreation!
So I was on the nude beach today, and as soon as I dropped my pants a breeze picked up, and my penis almost immediately just started to go. At first I felt a little awkward as I was standing right in front of a group of people, but I just continued putting on my sunscreen and eventually it went back down. Really wasn't a big deal. It seems like each time I go, I get a little more comfortable.
Thanks for the charming story, Ross. I think we probably ought to designate a unit to measure progress in restraining tumescence in the male member.
I suggest it should be measured in CRUD's - Coefficient of Restraint of Urgent Desires.
Can anyone else come up with a witty acronym for this new unit?
Pamela
I hope somebody works out the coefficient so that I can assess the erection that G had on the beach yesterday!!J SussexWoman
Swede- I did not take the time to read all the posts but, I can say from my experience, that going to a nude activity whether it be a Beach, or a Resort, whatever, does NOT promote an erection. If it does maybe you are in the wrong place. Jail is the place that comes to my mind. I am a guy that gets an erection as easily or maybe more so than the next guy, but I have to tell you going to a nude event does not give me an erection, matter of fact quite the opposite. The places I go have many beautiful women, but my reason for being there is not to "SCORE" with them. It is for man and women to live in harmony even if we are naked, the way we was brought into this world. I see the HUMAN BODY as a work of art, different colors, different shapes, no two are exactly alike, Thank God for that, or this world would be a pretty dam boring place. Just seeing the beauty in what was created does not mean you need to get an erection and take it to bed...... Oh well interesting topic. Everyone who reads this ..Have a GREAT DAY........
Sorry about the heading, but I do think you are being a bit puritanical, 2scorps. Maybe a little bit of explanation might help - many of the members of this group, including Swede, are European and do not suffer from the inhibiting attitudes to nudity which prevail in the USA. Many of the Europeans here just go to beaches and take their clothes off. Just that, no resorts. no permitted areas, no clothing optional, just do what you want. France is very good in that respect - you probably wouldn't go nude on a Sunday on a beach crowded with locals, but anywhere quieter and you will find nobody takes any notice, or certainly not offence. Take a look at this photo:
me, on a beach in France, with clothed people walking along down by the shore line.
Think of that background and you can think of a different approach. I enjoy going to the beach but I always enjoy it much more if I am naked. It makes me feel sexy, even more so if I know there are people around enjoying looking at me. If I see that a man gets an erection looking at me, I take it as a compliment. Most men get embarrassed if I notice, but I usually try to make it clear I appreciate the response - a discreet nod of appreciation is usually enough to make the man feel less embarrassed.
You are new to the group - please keep going through the discussions and I think you will find most group members have a very mature attitude to sexuality and do subscribe to the rather juvenile and unrealistic dichotomy between sex and nudism that is all too prevalent here.
Pamela