Grower And Insecurity
This group is for all those who are insecure about your penis.....and wanting to help.....help others as well as yourself.....please
- created by Trav55
Smaller guy with insecurities
Return to DiscussionsHi all , just a quick introduction from myself , one of the reasons I got intrigued by nudism was to help with body accepting and my smaller than average size , it holds me back and I'm hoping to learn to love and accept it so I can live life happier and healthier mentally . Hope to find confidence in myself with help from some new friends
I commend you on facing your insecurities with a direct, honest approach. Very insightful! In my personal and professional lives, I have spoken with many men on multiple, unfiltered topics/men's health. Among them were discussions on penis size, body image and sexual health. In group and private conversations, insecurities about body image, penis size/functioning frequently were explored. It seems most of us struggle with body image issues of one kind of another. Some men are insecure about their flaccid size, some about their erect size, shape, length, girth, curvature, angle of erection. The point is that we all are our own worse critics and we all can envy what we don't have. We may or may not like our own reflections, but we are what we are. There is nothing wrong or lacking and there is no point to wasting time, thought or energy hating on it. I took me a long time to realize, while it is important to like ourselves, it is far more important that others like what they see. While I am not a fan of my reflection, I am grateful there are others with far more favorable opinions.
Looking through your photos I see an active man with a love for life, good sense of humor, active, with a great build and pretty cool tattoo. I see a peaceful moment showering in a beautiful place. It was later that I found this post. After reading through yours, I had to go back to your profile to see what you were speaking about. With penis size in mind, I looked again at the shower photo, your size, shape and overall appearance. I still see a good looking guy with a great build and a great looking penis. It really does not look like a small penis at all. I am wondering what it is about your penis that you are insecure about. I know we see our penises at very different angles than others usually do. That can make them appear very different. You may find it surprising to find that men with larger than average penises often have many issues with their size as well.
I am truly interested in your thoughts. Stay well and love yourself!
I agree with Jim on his very well written post regarding penis size.
A couple of thingsit is not the penis but the man it is attached to that counts. And if other men value size over character, how shallow. Its their problem not yours.
Finallymany men will agree, less is more! Some men with large ones are also struggling with that. In fact, a smaller man can do many things that a large man.
Enjoy what you have!
The grass is always greener on the other side. Wishing our penis was larger and our legs longer is common; admitting to it less so. Your profile is private so I could only see your avatar, which looks like you're fit. I encourage you to continue to focus on that. As most of us sit more than we should, our cores are often weak with anterior pelvic tilt which pushes our groins in and back. By strengthening the lower abs and upper adds and cutting extra visceral fat, we can enjoy a prominent frontal display of our cocks for a noticeable bulge at any size. Be proud of what you have.
The grass is always greener on the other side. Wishing our penis was larger and our legs longer is common; admitting to it less so. Your profile is private so I could only see your avatar, which looks like you're fit. I encourage you to continue to focus on that. As most of us sit more than we should, our cores are often weak with anterior pelvic tilt which pushes our groins in and back. By strengthening the lower abs and upper adds and cutting extra visceral fat, we can enjoy a prominent frontal display of our cocks for a noticeable bulge at any size. Be proud of what you have.
The grass is always greener on the other side. Wishing our penis was larger and our legs longer is common; admitting to it less so. Your profile is private so I could only see your avatar, which looks like you're fit. I encourage you to continue to focus on that. As most of us sit more than we should, our cores are often weak with anterior pelvic tilt which pushes our groins in and back. By strengthening the lower abs and upper adds and cutting extra visceral fat, we can enjoy a prominent frontal display of our cocks for a noticeable bulge at any size. Be proud of what you have.
Hi Arryn!
Good for you exploring nudism as a way to overcome body insecurities. Social nudism has been transformative for me in building confidence. One of the key factors was seeing people of all various body types, shapes, sizes, ages, etc. being comfortable and confident whole naked. Seeing that they could be so comfortable modeled for me something I could embrace myself. I wish you the best on your journey.