Male Bonding2
For those who like to explore the concept and dynamics of male bonding. Men are socialized in different ways in different societies, and so many men would like to have close male friendships, yet after spending time establishing a career, primary relationship and live in general, find themselves without close male friends. Many of us want male friends with whom we can share openly without...
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Can You Have Sex With a Straight Buddy, and still be Straight yourself?
Return to DiscussionsHey Guys,
So i'm surfing a cam site called chaturbate. Which i find fun to watch amateurcouples going at it. Somehow i bumped into these two straight buddies.I decided to watch a little and from the conversations being had along withtheir info sheet. So basically they're story is, there's these two best friends, who have been loggersin canada for the years. They god laid off a few months ago and we're having a hardtime making ends meet. One of the guys moved into to his married buddy's house,and is renting their guest room. So this is where it gets good: Somehow the buddy that moved in, found outabout how to make some extra cash through doing shows on cam with his buddy.They started out with just mutual masturbation but started making more and moremoney and so basically they go all the way now. ( .. and i mean *all* the way,saw it for myself last night)
The wife of one of the guy's knows everything is in complete support. The other buddy'sgirlfriend knows too and also has no problem with it. i identify as straight but even i foundmyself somewhat aroused by how close they were bonding. I mean they body language was definitelyof just buddies hanging out and bonding, but when they start kissing... it didn't look forced or romanticbut rather it looked like two close buddies sharing themselves with each other. One of the people there asked the receiver guy how he still consider himself straight afterhe just had a penis inside him. He explained that he enjoys the feeling of a dildo and hasbeen using one for years, so for him its just about sensation, he is not sexually turned on by his buddy.However, since his wife had been pregnant he wasn't getting any sex so they figured out they couldmake money while both "helped" each other out
The reason i want to share this with you guys, is even though i know what i think about this, i wanted toget your thoughts about the two straight buddies who have sex with each other but still identify as straight.( not about the topic itself )
Is it possible to be heterosexual and have a sexual relationship with a close friend of the same gender? Or Gayand have a sexual relationship with someone from the opposing gender.? Do you believe its more about themale bonding emotional connection these two share? or is it just about the money?
What do you guys think?
Well, if we look at the topic of this post, the label ' Straight '
appears twice. I don't have any problems with any of the labels as
long as they're all accepted and not shunned. I can happily say and
do not regret, having slept and had fun sexually with guys of every
so called label. We are still friends and when we meet we do it all
over again. I did have problems with this, while in friendships and
relationships with the opposite sex some long time ago. I don't
think, I need to label myself, as I'm not displayed in a warehouse
or supermarket shelf. Perhaps society, led by the media do depend on
labelling. We all have to admit to have been using the same terms of
labels in days gone by. We are learning to get away from doing so for the better. This will justify the freedom of bonding and to be friends with our
buddies of any sexual orientation, enjoying and celebrating each
other.
Well, if we look at the topic of this post, the label ' Straight 'appears twice. I don't have any problems with any of the labels aslong as they're all accepted and not shunned. I can happily say anddo not regret, having slept and had fun sexually with guys of everyso called label. We are still friends and when we meet we do it allover again. I did have problems with this, while in friendships andrelationships with the opposite sex some long time ago. I don'tthink, I need to label myself, as I'm not displayed in a warehouseor supermarket shelf. Perhaps society, led by the media do depend onlabelling. We all have to admit to have been using the same terms oflabels in days gone by. We are learning to get away from doing so for the better. This will justify the freedom of bonding and to be friends with ourbuddies of any sexual orientation, enjoying and celebrating eachother.
i agree!!
I haven't heard many stories about straight men having sex with men, besides gay-for-pay porn stars & prostitutes. But I definitely know it is possible for gay men to have sex with women and still be gay because, they've been doing this for hundreds of years to please society's homophobic cultural norms. However, a lot of them were marrying women because, they'd otherwise be killed or shunned for openly loving men. So, it's not like they were having sex with women because they wanted to. They had to produce an heir to their property.
If gay men can do it then why not straight men?