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Nudist "Ass Smacking"
Return to DiscussionsNot having been to any Nude Beaches/Colonies/Resorts, I don't really know the cultural implications, but I notice that there is alot of association with "ass smacking" among men, in particular, which may or may not take on sexual connotation, particularly to be found in media depictions...but I wondered why people think this is. Two Examples I found on YouTube...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxHcEsHMD80at the (00:48 mark)andhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQv1ePgTfJ0at the (3:52 - 3:58 mark)So is this just stereotyping or is it actually part of the nudist experience?
Perhaps it occurs jokingly, but not in staple mind amongst friends and it's not an usual kind of thing, unless being playful. Some people even greet you this way. Strange as it may sound, but it did happen to me. I found it strange, but this is how some people , that know you and you know them,get your attention in big crowds.I don't think this occurs much in nudist events, as I didn't experience any nudist crowds.
Not having been to any Nude Beaches/Colonies/Resorts, I don't really know the cultural implications, but I notice that there is alot of association with "ass smacking" among men, in particular, which may or may not take on sexual connotation, particularly to be found in media depictions...but I wondered why people think this is. Two Examples I found on YouTube...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxHcEsHMD80at the (00:48 mark)andhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQv1ePgTfJ0at the (3:52 - 3:58 mark)So is this just stereotyping or is it actually part of the nudist experience?
Hi Alan.....there is something about ass=smacking as you have said but I think its more to do with a sexual adventure rather than naturism as such although when being smacked you are naked as is the smacker.....from what i have seen/read etc This also can be a "power" thing when someone seems to have the upper hand over the receiver.....sometimes the reciever loves to be dominated and this can be a sexual thing or not... Some people like to hear the sound of skin on skin and the actual sound of the slap itself
There is a site for bottom slapping where they show you short snippets of fuller length videos you can download....not sure of title but its something like ....slap this....The scenarios are usualy about someone being in trouble and slapped by and older person but are a little ludicrous and funny rather than a more serious side of things. Its quite strange to see one dressed guy smacking another naked guy over his knee, like an old time film.....lol It can be disturbing too for some to see those cheeks bouncing about and getting redder and sorer....I squirm most when the one being smacked is in real pain but carries on...i presume because he is being paid....lol....I squirmed a lot when the guy really starts to squirm and wriggle with pain himself I almost feel his pain...lol Not forme but interesting as to see why someone likes to be smacked as well as seeing how he takes it all....I will never know the pleasure the watcher or the smacker and the smacked gets other than domination or being dominated.....an erection is never usually a partof this as the pain etc gets in the way....lol....cheers J..england
Yes, I guess they do...LOL I read through the posts. I thought it was a normal question to ask from someone who is new to social nudity. I think it's perfectly normal from people you know and hang out naked with on a regular basis... a complete stranger doing it seems a little strange, but stranger things have happened...lol
I don't understand the condescending attitude from one of the posters... you explained you were new to the scene. It kind of makes you think twice about posting anything!!
ass smacking?! HOOOOOOT! I have never heard of anything like this and I have been a Naturist ALL my life. A pat on the butt from extremely close Male and Female friends, BUTT SMACKING!? I have never seen it let alone done it or have it done to me tho. I'm taking it that the word "SMACK" is more than a pat. Wow sure glad I don't go to clubs, resorts, and parks very much anymore. So do strangers just walk up and smack your ass? Or is it between friends and how hard is it delivered!? I really have had my lil'monkey curiousity stoked now! LOL!!!!
I kind of have to agree! My curiosity is piqued, and I guess I need to get out there and do some research! LOL