Married Men With Non Nude Wives

lots of men will understand this how do we make our wives understand us

New guy to the group and site.

Im pretty much limited to around home nudity, mostly when wife isnt here. She is so uncomfortable with casual non-sexual nudity even when it is just us that barely tolerates when Im nude, so I dont do it nearly as often as Id like. She is very seldom is nude with me when I do and not for long then.

I have been to beaches and clubs in the past, but not recently. Several times before I met her and, maybe, 4 times since when I had a chance that she didnt know of. I tried once (years ago) to get her to go to a club with me. Her response was so hateful that Ive not tried since.

My pipe dream for being on this site is to meet a couple near where I live that she meets in a clothed setting and gradually gets introduced to the idea of nudism through them. Decent people, able to get past all her preconceived notions on the evils of casual nudity. Long shot but I can hope.

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RE:Hi- new guy

My wife is rarely nude either but she is now so used to me being nude at home that if we have been home alone for more than a few minutes she asks me why I have clothes on!

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RE:Hi- new guy

Slow and gentle definitely works. Respect your wife's wishes in this as you do everything else.

It's taken me a while, but my wife is okay with my nudity at home provided we don't have company, and is getting more relaxed herself.

She joins me topless in our garden while I'm naked, and loves it. Small steps make a journey.

I'm just hoping our journey hasn't come to an end as next door have cut down their conifers :(

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RE:Hi- new guy

Hi there friend,
Your not alone and on your own, I've been a home nudist for a few years now. It's not for my wife but she's not against me being naked at home or in the garden but it not for her. I was hoping my wife would join me but for the moment I think I'm just going to wait. Just keep your Hope's up

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