Small and embarrassed
Return to DiscussionsHi, I'm new to this group and would like to start a conversation about self confidence. I am nude in my house all the time and sleep nude, however to embarrassed to be nude with others. Any thoughts on how to get passed my hangup. I should mention I am over weight and only about 2 inches.
I think as nudists weve seen them all. Big, small, thick, thin, curved all are different and all are beautiful. If we were all the same that would be boring. Majority of people dont care about your size they only care if youre a genuine human being. And believe it or not some people think a small package is awesome. Embrace who you are and remember a little bit of confidence goes a long way. Nudists are primarily judgement free. Try to stay out of your head and enjoy the freedom.
Totally agree with Shaudbear and as we get older (and fatter) our willy's do tend to retract. Of course you can temporarily offset that with ginseng + B12 which tends to get you more excited and you (or at least I) can stay partially or totally hard for some time. Or like he said go out and just find that there are all types and nobody judges. I went out to the nude park - Hippie Hollow - here in Austin and there were probably several hundred nudes out there. Nobody cared. Was awesome and afterward you have confidence since people come up to you saying hello and you can even go sit with whomever you want and usually strike up a conversation without much effort. It also doesn't matter whether straight, gay, trans, etc. There is room for all of us and acceptance.
I am totally straight but have gay family and honestly am accepting of all after the experience.
Couldn't have said it any better than shaudbear. Best thing to is shrug off all the negative self thoughts and other's comments because all of that is not going to change anything, including your size. You are how you are, what you are, and the way you are, so accept that and live your life.
Agree with everything above. You just need to try it once to see what an accepting group naturists are and just how liberating going without clothes with others is. You will appreciate your own body so much more. No one is bothered about your size, just who you are. There is always someone smaller/bigger than you, that's just how we are made.
to anyone uncomfortable with size of they're penis most men are average to small 5 inches and less and just chats i've had over the years guys with 7 inches or more are just as shy about they're size . mine looks like a acorn when flaccid 1/2 - 3/4 flaccid and shy of 4 inches hard but i'm not going to stop going to nude beaches or nude camp as i know if i stop i will regret it later .