Username
Password
Remember Me    |  Forgot my password  |  New Account
TRUE NUDIST FORUM

Back to Group

#1
AllNudist

Barefoot

Joined: 11/17/2008

Location: Madison, Wisconsin

17 posts

Nude at Home, with Company and/or Kids

8 months ago

A recent posting on All Nudist talked a bit about the dilemma of houseguests or grown kids moving back in to a household of nudists.  Where does your right to be comfortable in your own home give way to consideration of their sensabilities?
When nudist friends visit us it has been our practice to all be nude, but with a non-nudist son back at home that would be difficult.  Or do we just tell him to get lost?
Angie won`t be nude in front of any of he kids, I do when I feel like it. 
What are YOUR thoughts?  How do you deal with it?  Let`s hear from you!

All Nudist
#2
AllNudist

Barefoot

Joined: 11/17/2008

Location: Madison, Wisconsin

17 posts

RE: Nude at Home, with Company and/or Kids

8 months ago

Rick, what if you started a group for folks near to you, get some networking going.  Maybe some of you could get together sometime or plan on meeting at a nudist venue?  Hey, that`s what networking`s all about, right?  You can link it to your Truenudist page, plus webpages. plus Indiana Nudists (naturists?).  C`mon, give it a shot!  Summer`s coming!    Steve

All Nudist
#3
Upstatenude

Barefoot

Joined: 05/02/2009

Location: Upstate, New York

12 posts

RE: Nude at Home, with Company and/or Kids

6 months ago

I am kind of going through this right now.  I am new to nudism, my kids (daughters) 19,19,21 all live at home and do not  understand the concept of being free of clothes.  Although I must add that the kids and my wife all support me being a nudist somewhere else, and I believe that the oldest will soon come to grips with it, and may even go with me at some point. I do not think the 19 year olds will, ever be able to let me walk around freely at home.  So, my compromise was that I will be nude on my side of the house, including the hot tub, and they can live on their side without worries of seeing daddy naked.  But, I will continue to educate them that nudism isn`t wrong or bad, but a life choice, and that offers outstanding freedom, and self acceptance, and see where things go.
#4
AllNudist

Barefoot

Joined: 11/17/2008

Location: Madison, Wisconsin

17 posts

RE: Nude at Home, with Company and/or Kids

6 months ago

Know the problem with kids.  We`ve had various ones living around here at various times, plus spouses.  It`s a pain, though you love `em.
Couple of thoughts:  First, send them to All Nudist. There`s lots of stuff there for interested (or not) people.  Second, and this one is harder (we had to learn it), it`s YOUR house.  They`re old enough, if they don`t like your lifestyle let them go out in the real world and pay for their own house.  Tough love.
We had a son, his wife and two kids, plus another son all here (during our honeymoon!) for months and bent over backwards to accomodate them.  Even built walls to give them privacy.  Not good enough.  Finally told them all to get out.  Scram.
We all get along much better now.  They visit, we dress.  They leave, we don`t.

All Nudist
#5
Ornudistguy

Textile

Joined: 05/20/2009

Location: Salem, Oregon

2 posts

A twist to the topic

6 months ago

I had to move back in with my parents after getting laid-off from work. As a nudist in a textile household, it was a little bit wierd. My parents know that I am a nudist and are all right with it, but don`t participate in it. We have an understanding that allows me to sunbath on the deck, if I make sure that our neighbors aren`t able to see me and I keep the sliding glass door`s blinds closed.

Ornudistguy