A Call to TT1

I'd just like to know what constitutes a "banishable" group and what doesn't. What's the point of flagging "swinging" groups if it turns out the owner allows them? What's the point of flagging "naughty" groups if it turns out the owner allows them? In other words, looking at the posting rules: - Sexually Suggestive Topics will be deleted. (What is meant by"sexually suggestive?"Does this mean we can start a group about "swinging" as long as we don't do this in a sexually suggestive way?) - Trolling or posts deemed to be rude will be deleted (Following what I've seen on a few occasions, it might be nice to have a definition of"rude.") - Although it is not a deletable offense, please refrain from use of profanity. (Doesn't the use of profanity qualify as"rude"?) I think part of the problem is we don't see eye to eye on so many of these things becasue we have our own definitions of what would be acceptable and what isn't, and they don't necessarily jibe with TT1's opinions. It is his site, after all, and he makes the decisions. Unfortunately, after creating the world and guiding its first inhabitants, TT1 has now pulled away, and like people trying to make sense out of a holy book written so long ago, we are left to debate what was originally meant. Maybe someday, he will come back to separate the Trubies, the Wannabies and the Fakes, and send each of us to whatever end-of-world scenario he has planned. Until then, we stone (or flag) and think we're right. When someone or a group disappears, we feel vindicated, but when the group and creator are still there months later, we wonder if anyone "up there" is hearing our prayers. (Sorry for the religious imagery.) We probably wouldn't be bickering so much if we didn't care for this site as much as we do. And in that spirit, I hope TT1 will at some point make an appearance and let us know exactly what to expect. Or, is this it? UPDATE -- I added this to "Website Upgrades and Opinions" in the Forum section reserved for Certified members only: Clearly the problem is either we don't understand the rules or the rules aren't being applied uniformly. It would be nice if TT1 could at least say something like, "When it comes to sexual behaviour, here's what I'll tolerate..." We can then either like it or dislike it, but at least we'd know what to expect.