double you tea eff?

What is it with people who have never said a word to me deciding to send me friend requests?  I`m not going to accept it if we`ve never been in communication... ESPECIALLY if the only picture you have on your profile is a close-up of your right butt cheek. And I`ve sent a bunch of messages around to people and I believe only one of those people was actually nice enough to bother responding... what`s the deal?  We`re all interested in the naturist lifestyle, so we clearly have some things in common... so why not take sixty seconds to respond to my inane chit-chat rather than just ignore me?  What`s the problem?  Am I too ugly or too straight or not gay enough?  What is this?  Middle school? -timp